1. Compensation psychology

Some people take the initiative to find a third party because their husband and wife are separated and are unbearably lonely, or because one of the spouses has a physical defect and cannot be physically satisfied, or the relationship between the couple is not harmonious. Or they may be willing to accept compensation from a third party, thus forming an extramarital affair. In fact, sex life is not the entire content of a couple's life. As long as the couple strengthens their connection, communicates more emotionally, and misses each other in their hearts, their lives will still be fulfilling, and there is no need to compensate.

2. The psychology of debt

Some lovers fail to get married in the end, and both parties get married separately, or after one party gets married, the other party still does not want to get married and still secretly loves the other party. When one party has difficulties in life or the couple When there is a discord in the relationship, the other party feels that he still owes the other party's affection, so he actively throws himself into the arms of the old lover, and the old love revives, resulting in an extramarital affair. In fact, lovers may not always get married. Since both parties have already started a family or the other party has already started a family, they should face the reality and cherish the relationship between husband and wife. When the other party has difficulties in life or the relationship between the couple is not harmonious, use extramarital affairs to repay the other party's love, instead of It is better to say that it is helping the other party than it is harming the other party, which is not helpful.

3. Greed of money

Some people are greedy for the other person’s money, regardless of their own personality, and take the initiative to commit themselves to the other party in exchange for a few coins, thus forming an extramarital affair. In fact, personality It is a priceless treasure. Money is an external possession. If you have more, you can use it more. If you have less, you can spend less. Why exchange a priceless treasure for a few copper coins? In addition, wealthy people should also be careful not to think that since the other person is coveting your money, why should you give your true love to the other person and have a love affair.

4. Picture psychology

Some people covet the beauty of the woman or the strong body of the man and take the initiative to express love, which leads to extramarital affairs. In fact, physical beauty will naturally disappear with age. Only inner beauty is eternal. Like fine wine, it becomes more mellow as time goes by. Therefore, the most important thing is to be good at discovering the shining points of your spouse and show your true feelings. In this way, beauty will naturally appear in the eyes of your lover.

5. The psychology of repaying gratitude

Some people get help from others because they have difficulties in life, or because their husbands are away for a long time and their families have been taken care of by others for a long time. They have no way to repay, so they have to offer their bodies. , resulting in extramarital affairs. In fact, since the other party sincerely helps you and does not expect anything in return from you, you can just remember the other party's kindness to you, so why bother dedicating yourself to it? If this affects the other party's family, it is not a good intention but a bad thing.

6. Revenge Psychology

Some couples have extramarital affairs because one party has an affair and refuses to listen to advice. In order to retaliate against the other party, the other party actively seeks a third party. In fact, if you know that it is wrong for the other party to have an affair, why would you go looking for a third party? Isn't it just knowing that you are wrong and making a mistake? Moreover, marriage is free, and divorce is also free. If the relationship has indeed broken down and there is no possibility of reconciliation, you might as well divorce and forget about it. It is better to reconcile and break up. It is better to be friends than to take revenge on the other party.

7. Curiosity

Some couples live an ordinary life and feel it is boring, but the heroes and heroines in movies and TV shows are in love with their lovers, and their lives are full of excitement. She is free and easy, and she also wants to experience this kind of life, so, driven by this curiosity, she has an extramarital affair. In fact, peace and security are blessings. Don't look at the height of this mountain and not know the blessings when you are in the midst of blessings.

8. Hedonic Psychology

Some people, because of the influence of bourgeois sexual liberation ideas or the influence of obscene films, television, books and periodicals, believe that in life, they should eat, drink and have fun while they are young and in time. They enjoy themselves, so they have promiscuous intercourse with the opposite sex, which leads to extramarital affairs. In fact, sexual liberation and obscene films, books, and magazines are harmful toxins. Each of us should consciously resist them, establish a correct morality and outlook on life, and cannot mistake arsenic for sugar.

9. The psychology of mutual joy

Some men and women help and support each other at work. Over time, both parties have a good impression and are happy with each other, resulting in extramarital affairs. In fact, good helpers at work may not necessarily To be a good couple in life, since both parties help and support each other at work, why not get along like brothers and sisters?

10. The psychology of mutual benefit

Some people take advantage of each other, collude with each other, and commit crimes together, becoming two ants on the same line. No one can live without the other, which leads to extramarital affairs. In fact, as the saying goes: "If you don't stretch out your hand, you will be caught." Once the affair comes to light and the person is imprisoned, such an extramarital affair will have no choice but to "love" in prison.