Men often say they don’t understand women’s hearts, and women always like to hide their psychological secrets in their hearts without telling them. But on the contrary, women also complain that men’s hearts are difficult to understand. Today, I will share with my sisters the 30 most deadly secrets of men. Let men’s psychology have nowhere to hide!

Not many men know how to appreciate smart women

1. A man will choose love in a very rational manner. Even if he loves someone emotionally, when he knows that she is not a good wife, he will give up on her and find another one that is suitable for family life. Men think that falling in love and getting married are two different things. Many times, the fundamental reason why he delays getting married is that he thinks the woman around him is not a good wife as he imagined.

2. A man may have lower requirements for his wife than for his lover - in terms of appearance, but higher in terms of character.

3. Not many men know how to appreciate smart women. When they are with them, men always feel insecure.

When a man pursues a woman, he is willing to give up all his freedom

4. When a woman he likes is present, a man will behave as follows: talk more; appear smarter; be more generous than usual; will bring the topic to his proud achievements; will deliberately show his rare good-heartedness; talk more about what he thinks he is. Funny jokes make everyone (actually the main target is her) laugh.

5. A man is the embodiment of a big man and a little man at the same time. As a big man, he hopes that women will completely accommodate him and reassure him; as a small man, he realizes his cowardly and incompetent side and hesitates. To put it bluntly, many of them are jealous little devils and are as easily deceived as children.

6. When a man pursues a woman, he is willing to give up all his freedom, and after pursuing her, he feels the importance of freedom more and more.

It is not easy for a man to fall deeply in love with a woman

7. It is easy for a man to like a woman, but it is not easy for a man to love a woman deeply.

8. In the kingdom of emotions, a man is definitely a fool. As long as a woman is willing to flatter, he will agree to anything.

9. Men generally like women with gentle appearance. They would rather spend their energy on career or other places than conquering women.

Men don’t pay attention to women who are too good to them

10. Men don’t pay much attention to women who are too kind to them.

11. Men are afraid of women stalking them, but they like to use the same method to deal with women who have not caught up with them.

12. One of the dreams of a man is to have a confidante who can transcend the boundaries of friendship.

When a man meets an old lover, he will most likely be sentimental

13. Every once in a while, a man will have a few days when his mood and physical strength hit rock bottom. He doesn’t want to see anyone (including the person he likes the most), so he hides and reads books, listens to music, watches videos or plays video games to vent. .

14. Men who have had love experience all know that women cannot help but lie, similar to: "I will love you forever", "I will always love you like this", "Whenever you need me, I will be there with just a phone call." Come right away" and "I will never love another person like I love you again" are "lies" that must be said but can never be persisted in. Who makes women like to hear them so much!

15. When a man meets an old lover, he will most likely be sentimental. He thinks that the person with whom he has had feelings will always have a feeling in his heart, and imagines that the woman who loved him will always love him. Women only beautify the man in front of them, but men unconsciously beautify their past relationships. So men agree more than women: break up and still be friends. Regardless of whether they dumped or were dumped, most men are willing to keep in touch with their ex-girlfriends.

Men have the arrogance to be heroes

16. A man has a hunting mentality hidden in his heart. He hunts her. Once he gets her, he must tame her and turn her into a well-behaved animal that can be raised at home.

17. Men have the arrogance of being heroes, so it is easy to fall in love with a woman who complains to him.

18. Men hope that the women around them understand that it is really boring to take the same woman to all places (maybe women feel the same way, but they are embarrassed to say it), so dating other women in moderation is a way to spice up the relationship. Relax and have no other intentions at all.

Men’s self-righteous passion

19. In a relationship between the sexes, a woman needs a man to tell her that he is willing to make any sacrifice for her, while a man needs a woman to tell him that he is very capable.

20. Men’s self-righteous passion is often an out-and-out misfortune in the eyes of women.

21. In a man's heart, the degree of intimacy is the degree to which his love affair with a woman will develop.

A man’s love for a woman is always mixed with physiological impulse

22. When a woman takes the initiative to express her love, the only loss for a man is that the hazy and vague romantic days are shortened.

23. A man can fall in love with two women, but he probably can’t tell which one he likes more.

24. A man’s love for a woman is always mixed with physiological impulses. Before getting intimate, he feels that everything about the woman is good, but he can have no nostalgia for her afterwards. However, in order not to bear too much guilt, they can pretend to be gentle and continue to express their affection afterward. love words.

Men don’t want to hear about their sweetheart’s old relationship

25. Women care about their boyfriend’s previous girlfriends, but men care about what kind of boyfriend a woman will find after she leaves him. If they are still friends after the breakup, he will criticize her boyfriend from time to time.

26. When a man falls in love, he rarely asks her about her past, and he doesn’t care much about what kind of man she has been in love with, because men pay more attention to a woman’s appearance - appearance is the present.

27. Men don’t want to hear about their sweetheart’s old relationship, because they find it unbearable to think that their loved one has had physical contact with other men before.

Men are easily attracted to women

28. When faced with two people who love her, a woman will hesitate to choose, but a man will not worry about it - he actually just wants to catch up with two people at the same time!

29. When a man falls in love with a woman, he does not necessarily have a strong impulse to be intimate with her. On the contrary, he has a greater impulse toward women he just likes but does not love.

30. A man is easily attracted to a woman, but he can tell whether his desire is for sex or love, and he probably knows what he can get from her.