The lust of men and women originates from physiological instincts, but there are many differences. Most of its manifestations are caused by the pressure of social public opinion and the subtle influence of ancient Chinese feudal morality. Objectively speaking, the instinctive psychology that drives lust has nothing to do with morality. Only the psychologically driven results of lust are relevant to morality.

Both are lustful, but the difference between men’s lustfulness and women’s lustfulness is quite big:

Different psychological pressure

Most men will not have any psychological burden due to their own lust, and they can afford it and let it go. Many men openly admit that they are lustful and even use it as a topic of ridicule. Every man has a book about lust and great virtues. Young men often talk about lustful topics together, and there is nothing taboo about them. In their minds, men's lust is a natural instinct.

Most women will not be so open-minded. They have to face more pressure, the remaining constraints of China's feudal morality, and the pressure of public opinion... Therefore, even if they are lustful in their hearts, they will not show it. Most people associate women's lust with "romance" and "debauchery", so even if a woman has lust, she will definitely hide it deeply. In fact, this does not look at the problem fairly and objectively. Lustfulness is a kind of attraction to the beauty of the opposite sex that originates from the physiological instinct. This instinct has nothing to do with morality (but the instinct drives certain actions, which is related to morality). Men and women are equally lustful, both originating from biological instincts.

Different lustful tendencies

Although both men and women are lustful, they originate from instinct, but their psychological action tendencies driven by instinct are different. To put it simply, when a man sees a beautiful and sexy woman, he will easily become lustful and possessive thoughts or desires. It is a gesture of desire and possession, and some are even fanciful. They may take pursuit actions, but most of them are not out of love, but a desire to conquer and possess beautiful women.

Women are different. When they see beautiful and sexy men, they just think they are handsome or sexy, but most of them will not have any further thoughts of sexual intercourse and remain "calm". It is a gesture of appreciating beauty and being indulged in beauty. Some people become crazy and dream of such a man pursuing them. The mind is in a passive state.

Lust manifests itself differently

Men are very intuitive when it comes to lust, and they are not ashamed of it. Young men may even think of themselves as bad guys, thinking it's cool. When men meet a beautiful woman, they will look directly at her lustfully. When they see her blushing and embarrassed, they will smile evilly, which is very helpful. Men will whistle and wink at beautiful women on the roadside, and will actively attract their attention in a very active and direct manner. Never hide anything.

Women behave passively. For Xinyue's strange men, even if they are deeply moved by the man's beauty, they will hide their expressions unnoticeably, or at worst, glance at them casually. In fact, in China's feudal society, women have always been in a passive position, regardless of the pursuits of men and women or the lives of men and women. Women's lust is also a passive psychological state.

But women also have their own means of expression. Coquettishness, anger, ignorance, and stupidity are common expressions of women. This kind of lustful expression is the emergence of love, and it is also a psychological state based on physiological instinct. Even in modern society, which has become more enlightened, most women still cannot look directly at the problem of lust. When men and women have sex, they are also in a very passive state. They don't want others to associate words such as "debauched" and "romantic" with themselves, although this is unfair.

Lust has different results

Men are lustful, and most of them are forgiven by the public, or are not surprised by it.

Most women who are lustful cannot be tolerated by the public and will be attacked by conservative ideas. It can only be understood by a very small number of enlightened people.

To give a very simple example, when a man and a woman get married, most people will not say what is wrong with the man, but they will talk about how the woman is.

Summary: Lustfulness between men and women originates from physiological instincts, but there are many differences. Most of its manifestations are caused by the pressure of social public opinion and the subtle influence of ancient Chinese feudal morality. Objectively speaking, the instinctive psychology that drives lust has nothing to do with morality. Only the psychologically driven results of lust are relevant to morality. It is a gesture of appreciation. Everyone has a love for beautiful things, and this is nothing. And it is intolerable to have a criminal mentality due to lust. Both men and women have a lustful mentality, and the social perception they suffer because of this is unfair. Therefore, we call on everyone to look at it objectively, look directly at the problem, and treat the issue of women's lustfulness correctly.