Recently, a survey showed that the market consulting agency Lingdian Company conducted a 2013 Chinese Valentine's Day theme survey. The results showed that: excluding the attraction of fellow countrymen, among the men women most want to marry, Beijing men ranked first; men most want to marry It's a Sichuan girl.

Husband standards: dignified, down-to-earth and interesting

Because men in Beijing live in the imperial city, they are exposed to the rich cultural heritage. They are easy-going, don't care about anything, and can enjoy themselves in any environment. Whether it's abalone, sea cucumber or cucumber fried noodles, you can enjoy life, which is an important foundation in marriage. Only if you don't have a strong sense of utilitarianism can you live a down-to-earth life. If a man thinks about "luxury cars and mansions" all day long, is busy running around, and has no time to communicate with his wife, it will cause indifference and conflicts between husband and wife. Of course, if you live this kind of unremarkable life all day long, it will become boring after a long time. At this time, the advantages of Beijing men are reflected again.

"In the past, old Beijingers loved to raise flowers and play birds, listen to plays and go to the garden." Peng Guoqiu, deputy director of the Department of Psychosomatic Medicine at the First Affiliated Hospital of the People's Liberation Army General Hospital, said that this kind of life interest is also attractive to women. Women always hope that their lovers can spend more time with them, instead of looking at "wood" or "money-making machines" all day long. When two people have been together for a long time, it is inevitable that they will have conflicts. Beijing men's ability to speak well plays a huge role in making a woman happy with just a few words. This kind of coaxing is often just right, not "glib" but humorous. Women are more emotional. They get angry quickly and calm down quickly. It depends on the method you use. Expensive gifts are not as effective as a thoughtful word.

Wife standard: pretty, sweet-tongued and family-oriented

Sichuan girls can become men's "popular lovers", Dr. Peng Guoqiu said. Generally speaking, Sichuan girls have fair skin, good figure, and know how to dress up. This is of course an important aspect to attract men. Most men are "visual first", especially women who are mothers. Don't ignore this. If you think that just to take care of your children and family, you will let yourself go and be unkempt all day long, which will definitely make your husband aesthetically tired. After all, beautiful women are important in marriage. more confident.

The prerequisite for dressing yourself up is to "save money and be decent" like Sichuan girls. If you go to Sichuan, you will find that Sichuan girls are not all wearing famous brands and gold and silver. They can also wear simple clothes with charm. In addition, Sichuan girls are "sweet-tongued" and can speak to people's hearts, which is an important skill for marriage. Many women often complain that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not good, and they only complain when they do too much. Most of the reasons are because they cannot speak. Therefore, if a woman wants to have a harmonious family, she must first "learn" to speak.

To capture a man's heart, capture his stomach first, this is something Sichuan girls know best. Most of them can cook well, and they will never stay away from the kitchen for fear of smoke and fire. A woman's eating habits affect the health of her family. Learn some nutritional knowledge, have an appropriate mix of meat and vegetables, and be able to work in the hall and in the kitchen. This is an attractive woman.

Men care most about 3 parts when choosing a mate

Jaw

Since women have a stronger yin energy in their bodies and their bodies are naturally round and soft, the best look for their jaw should be round, round, honest, and substantial. Women with this look generally have a peaceful temperament, a comfortable life, and good fortune in their old age. , can support and receive blessings.

Although a woman has an oval face, which can add a lot of beauty to her, if her lower jaw is too pointed, she will have insufficient yin energy, poor fortune, poor marital relationships and poor life in her later years. If she is born with a sharp-mouthed cheek monkey, Not even a kind person among women.

In addition, if a woman's cheekbones are particularly developed, she will tend to pursue her own personal interests and find it difficult to maintain a good relationship with the man's family, especially the parents-in-law. Women with too thin cheekbones will be negative, pessimistic, and lack courage, and will not be interested in their husband's behavior. The career is rarely helpful, and the ancients said that such people lack the luck to help their husbands, so neither of them are considered good women.

Feet

According to unanimous research by experts at home and abroad, feet and feet are the organs with the strongest sexual consciousness and charm in the human body. Especially for a man, women’s feet and feet are the sexiest, most alluring and lethal. Lethal Weapon. As long as we look at the "crystal slippers" of Cinderella in the West, the "three-inch golden lotus" of ancient Chinese women, and even the fairy tales, anecdotes and vocabulary of folk calling people "broken shoes", people can more or less feel the foot and feet. , leaving people with indescribable ambiguity and imagination... Therefore, if a man bypasses his head, face, slender waist, and fat buttocks and stares directly at a woman's feet and legs, then he must be a master of women's physiognomy, an expert who understands women better than women. Because in physiognomy theory, women belong to yin, and their feet and feet are yin. Naturally, a woman’s feet and feet are the yin in yin. To understand and study a woman who is positioned as a feminine animal, what else can you say than looking at their Are feet and feet more suitable? From the appearance and shape of a woman's feet, we can see the strength of Yin Qi in her body, the strength and softness of her temperament, and the size of her temper. This is obviously a very interesting task that requires careful observation.

In the dictionary of aestheticians, the standard of beauty for women's feet is "small, thin, pointed, and curved." In the eyes of physiognomists, the best appearance of women's feet should first of all be small and exquisite, because small represents a kind of femininity. Beauty, and bigness symbolizes a kind of masculine beauty, so no one in the world will fall in love with a thick and strong woman, but hope to have a small and delicate woman.

Waist and hips

Survive, develop and thrive. Therefore, looking at the fatness of a woman's waist and hips at this time is not simply a matter of aesthetic likes and dislikes, but has a very important biological significance.

In ancient China, fortune tellers and ordinary people believed that the bigger and higher a woman's buttocks were, the stronger her sexual desire and reproductive capacity would be; the thinner and softer a woman's waist, the more charming, coquettish and passionate she would be. During the Tang Dynasty, when fatness was regarded as a beauty, women still did not forget to take peach blossoms to slim their waists.

In the same way, modern people are desperately pursuing the so-called "skinny beauty", but on the other hand, "sexy beauties" and "twerk beauties" such as Marilyn Monroe and Li Wen are still men's dreams. Lover, role model for women to follow. It can be seen that although humans have undergone long-term evolutionary development, it cannot erase the animal nature of humans in the subconscious.

Recently, scientists from Harvard University in the United States found through research that women with fat hips and thin waists are more fertile and have higher levels of sex hormones than ordinary women, especially during her ovulation period. Some people estimate that no matter what the circumstances, the possibility of pregnancy for such women is about three times higher than for women of other body types. This shows that the ancients judged the sexual and reproductive capabilities of women by observing the appearance of their waists and hips. Talking about beauty is not groundless or nonsense, but it has certain scientific truth.

If you don’t want to be left behind, simplify your mate selection criteria

Nowadays, there are countless marriage and love experts across the country consulting and prescribing prescriptions for older unmarried young people. After analyzing large sections, it turns out that what they say is actually very similar. You have a high degree of education, look good, and have a good job. Why were you left alone?

First, the competition in the current workplace is fierce. Start a career first and then start a family. You will miss the good years in a hurry. Second, the social circle in modern society is constantly shrinking, and life between two o'clock and one line every day lacks opportunities to meet the opposite sex. Third, the conditions for marriageable partners are too harsh, and those who are too high will not be satisfied with those who are too low. Four,...

It seems familiar, the intimate sister, the spicy love doctor, and the lotus tongue are all these routines. In fact, anyone who is single or has been single knows that all the eloquent talk is nonsense.

Are you busy? They are all salaried workers, and no one knows what goes into going to work. Can you be busier than Obama or Bill Gates? It’s possible to be less lazy and chat less at work, and your work efficiency will be higher, so you can still spend some time on dating and love.

You say there is little human contact? Can you be lonelier than a scientist who spends all day in the laboratory? Dating websites, social networking sites, and blind date conferences are popping up everywhere. If you are interested in finding a needle in a haystack, it is not difficult to find someone you like.

Only one thing is critical - the conditions for marriageable partners are too harsh. When we get together, we often have to exchange the resources we have - the older young people who our uncles and aunts have specially asked to "help and pay attention". All cases have the same characteristic: there is time to fall in love, there is desire to fall in love, but there is no chance of finding a suitable partner.

For example, Girl A is smart, kind-hearted and thrifty. A 30-year-old talented girl who is waiting to be married is annoyed by her parents, and she is still labeled as "leftover". She also longs for a husband to fall from the sky all day long. We promise to pay more attention to her, tell me what you want to find.

After all, Ms. A has both ability and political integrity. The first priority is her character, being kind and filial. The ladies all nodded, this is the most important premise. The talented woman said slowly, secondly, fat people have short legs. Everyone was shocked. How many girls' first requirement for marriage was their height of 180, which frustrated countless good young men. Girl A did the opposite, allowing the short and obese young man struggling in dire straits to see a glimmer of hope. What kind of spirit is this? This is a great spirit of self-interest and benefit to others! Girl A smiled shyly and said, No, people just like short and fat people.

We said yes, yes, it’s really easy to find someone based on your conditions and requirements. At this time, Girl A cleared her throat and said seriously, I still have a small condition. Well, you said, the sisters all looked at her kindly. Well, he must be a corn!

A room of silence. After a while, Sister B broke the silence, "Can you please, he is not corn, but he supports you in doing anything you like Li Yuchun." Girl A was very firm: No, otherwise we would have no common language.

Everyone was sad. He is kind and filial. There are countless good young people. If you add a person with fat legs and short legs, you can still keep a large area. Smashing down a "corn" frame will kill 99.99% of young men immediately. Forget it, this task, which is N times more difficult than finding a needle in a haystack, should be left to Girl A and her parents to solve on their own.

Man B has the same problem. A talented young man in his thirties, he has a car and a car and all he needs is his mistress. I asked Man B, what are you looking for after picking and choosing. Man B is complaining, but I won’t pick on him. Do you want something as beautiful as a flower? Not necessarily, as long as it looks pleasing to the eye. Do you want to go to the living room and go to the kitchen? It doesn't matter, there are a few girls who know how to cook these days. If you don't want to be a slut, just go to a restaurant. Well, that sounds pretty generous. So please give me a specific reference image.

Man B thought for a long time and finally said: For example, he should look like Shu Qi. I was so angry that I almost lost my breath. This standard was too high. Man B waved his hands repeatedly, not because he wanted Shu Qi's figure, it didn't matter, the point was, she was a mature woman with a bit of innocence. I wanted to throw the tea directly into Man B’s face. A mature woman is a mature woman, and a Lolita is a Lolita. All young and old take it all, and why are you not being picky?

Man B thought about it for a long time, and then said that his appearance was not bad, and the main thing was that he was educated. I am overjoyed. This is simple. Our country's higher education has frequently expanded enrollment, and now all girls are literate. Man B looked at me with disdain, you didn’t understand the meaning of culture. Being educated doesn’t mean just reading a book or loving reading. What do you mean by this culture? Man B solemnly concluded that she should like a cultured life, not only reading books and watching dramas, but also having connotation and knowledge... I left the scene silently. I didn't understand Man B's cultural requirements for a long time and how to help him. Pay attention.

Now you know how those talented and beautiful "leftovers" were made. In fact, it is really simple to avoid being "leftover". Just simplify all the conditions into the "Tsinghua University Male Selection Criteria" widely circulated on the Internet:

One, female. Two, alive.