Everyone has their own privacy. Even if they are as close as a couple, they must keep some "secrets that cannot be told." Of course, it is right for lovers to be honest with each other, but if some secrets are revealed, they may affect the relationship between the couple. The following three secrets of women should be kept secret and not disclosed to outsiders.

1. Don’t tell your current love secrets

It is normal for a person to have multiple relationships. But don’t talk about your former lover to your current lover, and don’t compare the past with the present, especially sexual matters. "Money" and "sex" are men's self-esteem. Do not use these two points as an issue, as this will damage the relationship between the couple irreparably. Moreover, the love affairs that have happened in the past are like pains that occur from time to time to women. Why bother to take out your wounds and expose them to the sun?

2. Don’t tell your current love secrets to your besties

What woman doesn’t have a few best friends? But what is hateful is that many women's love is ruined at the hands of their best friends. Linda once introduced her boyfriend to her best friend, firstly to let her best friend keep her in check, and secondly, she hoped that the person she liked would be accepted by her good friends. Fortunately, Linda's boyfriends eventually became good friends with her besties. Linda was very considerate to her best friend and shared all her love secrets with her, including her boyfriend's favorite condoms. However, the best friend asked her boyfriend if this was true. The boyfriend said that Linda had leaked his privacy and they broke up.

But after her boyfriend broke up with Linda, he actually got together with his best friend. Linda suffered from this for a while. Was it because her boyfriend cheated on her and got close to her best friend that they broke up with her, or did she pursue her best friend after they broke up? However, these are no longer meaningful. Women in love must remember: happiness should not always be exposed, it must be dried one day.

3. Don’t tell your husband your secrets

Women should maintain a certain sense of mystery in order to fascinate men. Therefore, a woman should not tell all her secrets about her thoughts to her husband, otherwise there will be no sense of mystery at all. A good woman is like a good book, let him read it slowly. Only when he doesn't understand it well will he be attracted to explore it in depth. Such a woman will fascinate her husband for a lifetime.

7 minefields to avoid in married life

1. Don’t give random orders

For example, say you are driving to an unfamiliar place and accidentally get lost. At this time, the wife says such interrogative words, which is tantamount to questioning the man's ability. You know, men claim to have the best sense of direction and don’t need a navigator when going out. He was just trying to find a way, but his wife was nagging beside him, as if she couldn't trust him. How could he bear it? Men are animals that like to step on the accelerator when there is an argument. For everyone's safety, it is better for you to remain silent.

2. Timely praise is needed

Both men and women have their own dignity and face. If one party works hard and pays, but the other party does not appreciate it, it would be strange not to collapse. Therefore, you need to be strategic when speaking. For example, your wife has been working hard in the kitchen for two hours. Although the food is not delicious, you cannot point it out directly and coldly. You can first praise your wife and then say, "It would be better if you could add more salt." La". The goal can also be achieved, and it also takes care of the little cook's mood. How nice.

3. Don’t act recklessly

Sometimes women say to men, "You never care about my feelings!" Although this is not the intention, for men, this is denying everything they have done in the past. Men's thoughts are usually straightforward, and it's best for women not to use exaggerated rhetoric. If you want him to pay attention to you, there's no need to act rude, just act coquettishly.

4. Pay attention to how you speak

If a woman comes back from shopping happily, a man's cold "Where have you been?!" can make her furious. "Do you need to take care of where I go?" Don't blame your wife for responding to you like this. Because what she heard from her husband's words was nothing but suspicion and questioning. Men never know how to be gentle, even if the intention is out of concern. In fact, if you add "Honey, I'm so worried about you" at the end, the effect may be much better.

5. You need to know how to act coquettishly

The most common thing women say to men is "It's all your fault!" Although the original intention is to be coquettish, men will interpret it as a kind of blame and feel that they are doing a thankless job. You know, the idea comes from the man, but the decision is still made by the woman. There is no reason for the man to bear the consequences of failure.

6. Fighting at the end of the bed and at the end of the bed

If a woman wants to conquer a man, it’s a good place to start in her daily life. But men are also called lower-body animals. The changes and stimulation of a woman in bed make a man unable to stop. The lubricant is boldly applied to his body and penis, making him unable to stop. So don't engage in a cold war.

7. Don’t remain silent

When quarreling, men usually use silence as their trump card, but women attach great importance to other people's responses. To her, silence is very scary. Once a man is silent, a woman starts to think wildly, "Why doesn't he speak? Does he disdain to talk to me? Or is there something he is hiding from me? Does he no longer love me?" Therefore, even if we quarrel, we must speak clearly.