I don’t know since when, women have learned to pretend to be serious and suppress their inner desires. They have to show another look in front of others. They don’t dare to say it clearly, so they have to pretend to be noble and reserved. Show a serious attitude. "Famous ruffian" Hong Huang (Weibo) once said: "There are two types of women, prudes and immoral women. Prude women are annoying, and immoral women are loved." Pointed out the point of men in love Different attitudes with women.

Who makes women prude

Obviously they want to go on a date, but they half-hold their pipa to cover their faces; they obviously want to be intimate, but they half-assume it. I don’t know since when, women have learned to pretend to be serious and suppress their inner desires. They have to show a different look in front of others. They don’t dare to be clear about it, so they have to pretend to be noble, reserved, and have a serious attitude. Show people.

There are many classic manifestations of women pretending to be serious. For example, if someone tells a dirty joke, a serious woman will pretend not to understand in order to maintain her serious attitude, and pretend to be innocent; The man was late when he asked her to go out for fun, and used the excuse of pretending to be very busy. It seemed that he had so many things to do, and it was rare to find time for a date. At the end of the date, he kept paying attention to the time, which showed that she was a good child who came home on time. , the result can only make men feel very disappointed.

In fact, women pretend to be serious because they are afraid that if they are not serious, they will be called despicable and frivolous by men. If a woman is immodest, she will give people the illusion of frivolity, as if her behavior is not decent enough, and she may act without consideration. Therefore, women want to love but dare not love, want to be intimate but dare not be intimate, and can only maintain the appearance of being serious. In order to give a good impression to men, women do not hesitate to suppress their true nature and pretend to be serious.

As soon as a woman becomes serious, a man will run away

A woman is too good for a man to chase her, but when a woman pretends to be serious, a man will want to run away. Men can actually tell when a woman is prudish. No matter how clever she is at covering up, she can't completely cover up her inner desires. Besides, how many people can really hide their true temperament without any flaws. Just like there are always small loopholes for people to see through when you lie, when a woman pretends to be serious, it is also a gap for many men to see through her. So in the eyes of men, only the word hypocrisy remains.

Faced with a man's warm invitation, if a woman insists on finding various excuses to shirk it, but on her face she looks like she wants to agree but has to pretend to refuse, and she goes back and forth several times. This time will definitely make men feel boring.

Although playing hard to get in love has been tried and true, and there are many men who are willing to do this, there is a limit to everything, and using a serious face to extinguish a man's enthusiasm every time will only scare the man in the end. run. Furthermore, a serious woman will make a man feel that she cannot take a joke, and it seems that any casual words will hurt her. There is nothing more boring than having to act businesslike at all times.

It is better to pretend to be immoral than to pretend to be serious

In fact, women still have to have a certain bottom line, but they can show it in completely different ways. She knows deep down in her heart what can be done freely and what needs to be done more conservatively. A truly smart woman is the one who can do it freely. Blindly presenting a serious style will only make men stay away.

It is not difficult to pretend to be serious. Follow the three obediences and four virtues and do it in a disciplined manner. No one will say that you are not serious enough, but no one will think that you are cute and pitiful. The difficult thing is to pretend to be informal, because the prerequisite for pretending to be informal is to know what seriousness is and to be able to do it at any time. You just use different techniques on different occasions and in front of different people.

You know how to flirt when you need to flirt, know how to tease when you need to tease, and make people feel comfortable when you need to cater. In general, you know the mood and have the right target.

A woman pretending to be immoral is actually playing a trick, but the important thing is to play it smartly, so that it will not make men feel that they are too scheming or too deep, but at the same time, it will also make men unconsciously attracted. The age of pretending to be serious has passed. Behaving and speaking in a regular manner will make people feel boring. In love, women should abandon the so-called "a woman's lack of talent is a virtue" and unnecessary reserve, and pretend appropriately. Don't be serious for a moment.