Hebei female college students’ initiative: Refuse premarital sex to be a lady in the new era

The day before yesterday, Pang Jiaojiao, a junior girl at Hebei University of Economics and Business, launched a signature campaign in her own name, advocating that students reject premarital cohabitation and premarital sex and learn from traditions Culture, to be a "fair lady" in the new era of self-respect and self-love. This activity won the support of the students.

Scene - female college students launched the lady initiative

At 11 o'clock the day before yesterday, near the first restaurant of Hebei University of Economics and Business, volunteers held red banners: "Carry forward the fine traditional culture of the Chinese nation "Be a good Chinese young man who respects and loves himself" and "Don't let your parents worry and give yourself a happy future." There were also more than a dozen volunteers who distributed letters of initiative to the students, "We advocate the rejection of cohabitation before marriage and the rejection of premarital sex..." The straightforward words came from the mouths of these quiet and pure female college students. The students were surprised at first, and then It means understanding and respect and showing support.

Pang Jiaojiao is the initiator of this event. Her explanation is vivid and vivid, "We must learn traditional culture and become 'fair ladies' in the new era of self-respect and self-love!" The female classmates gathered around her include Some were a little shy, and some showed admiration. After a while, everyone was impressed by her speech and walked to the banner to sign.

“This event expresses our feelings!” Xiaoling, a student of the school’s School of Tourism, said that as a girl, you should respect yourself and love yourself. “It takes courage to hold this kind of signature event, and it can also provide everyone with Wake up, our classmates are very supportive," Xiaoling said.

Overseas students Sai Bing, Su Shi and Pika Shi from Nepal also signed to express their support. They said that in Nepal, premarital cohabitation and premarital sex are relatively rare, and the people's ideas are relatively traditional. Saibing said: "The Chinese college students I have come into contact with are enthusiastic, hard-working, and responsible. They are our good friends. So we support this event. After returning to China in the future, I will also hold this kind of event in Nepalese universities. Calling on everyone to return in spirit!”

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Origin - a friend had an abortion It causes great harm to the body and mind

Pang Jiaojiao said that she has loved learning traditional culture since she was a child. In June 2010, he and his classmates initiated the establishment of the Tracing the Origin Society at the university to "carry forward traditional culture, practice wisdom classics, and pursue a happy life." Jiaojiao said that the society already has more than 40 volunteers, and some graduate students have also joined.

“A few days ago, I suddenly received a long-distance call. She was a friend of mine who was studying at a university in the south. She told me in tears that she was pregnant and had to have an abortion. She asked me to borrow Money. After I remitted the money to her, a few days later, she called me again to tell me how she felt during the operation. It was heartbreaking and painful..." Jiaojiao said sadly, "I didn't expect that premarital sex would be for her. It caused so much harm to the body and mind!”

This incident deeply touched Jiaojiao, and she began to reflect on how to make her classmates aware of these harms and consciously resist them. So she launched an investigation and discovered that there were "daily rental houses" and some unscrupulous hospitals that distributed small advertisements for "abortion" surgeries on campus.

The reporter saw that Jiaojiao collected dozens of small advertisements. "These small advertisements are actually distributed in the girls' dormitories. I think this is the biggest insult to us girls!" Jiaojiao said, and according to her survey, girls who are irresponsible to themselves are in the minority among contemporary college students.

“Later I listened to Dr. Zhong Maosen’s lecture and was very inspired. ‘A gentle lady, a gentleman is a good man’ is a famous line in the Book of Songs. However, what kind of woman is a lady? Zhong Maosen told We are ladies who learn traditional culture, be self-respecting, self-loving, self-reliant, and responsible for family and society," Jiao Jiao said, so she came up with the idea of ​​organizing such a signature event.

Jiaojiao also admitted that she has a boyfriend who is her classmate in college. "In today's volunteer team, the one who silently held up the banner is my boyfriend. He is very supportive of me." Jiaojiao blushed, "As for the 'rejection of premarital sex', although we did not express it clearly between us, But we understand it tacitly. We uphold the correct view of love and know what to do and what not to do.”

School management - don’t misunderstand contemporary college students

Hebei Economic and Trade. Chen Yinfa, Secretary of the University Youth League Committee, said, "A few days ago, Pang Jiaojiao applied to the school Youth League Committee to hold such a signature event, and our school Youth League Committee is very supportive. First of all, her starting point is very good. Indeed, there are individual students on contemporary university campuses who are studying , life, words and deeds, etc. do not meet the requirements and expectations of the school, parents and society, which damages the overall image of contemporary college students.

As far as we know, in fact, the vast majority of college students are good and have ideals. Aspiring students who study hard at school, honor their parents at home, and actively participate in social welfare activities represent the image of the new generation of college students. At the same time, Hebei University of Economics and Business has long attached great importance to educating students with traditional culture. Self-esteem, self-love, self-improvement, and being a responsible new youth have achieved good results and corrected the school spirit. Pang Jiaojiao’s signature activity is also consistent with the school’s educational philosophy and should be supported.”