If your man is unwilling to have sex with you for a long time and is extremely cold to you, don’t think it’s just sexual coldness. There may be three other reasons. Let’s take a look with Brother Dan Ding!

1. Homosexuality

For the first situation: you have no way to change his sexual orientation. What you need to do depends on your own situation. If you put family first, you can only maintain this asexual relationship. Marriage will cost a woman a lot.

Some women naively think that they are better than another man, or that they can change. In fact, they are wrong. In the eyes of a gay man, men are far more attractive than women. Homosexual sexual orientation cannot change throughout life. No external force can do it.

2. He has a lover outside; or he has no lover but had a one-night stand, or he is no longer interested in you

For the second situation: Since you two have been married for several years , are very familiar with each other. There is no novelty at all, the level of pleasure during sex has dropped a lot, and there is no attraction at all. If this goes on for a long time, you will become less and less interested. leading to the aforementioned results. Men are very curious and need the other person to have a sense of mystery, which will create suspense. In this case, sex is the most enjoyable. Reservations between husband and wife are necessary and this is a source of mystery and freshness.

In addition, it is difficult for most men to resist the temptation of the outside world, and it is impossible for most men to only stay with one woman. They are responsible for their families, but this does not stop them from being restless for sexual attraction. "Sexy and bold" is actually the best photo. Many women cannot understand that their husbands, who are usually honest, powerful, or noble, would actually do something in a dirty "chicken coop". This is all based on sexual attraction.

3. Decreased sexual function

As for the third situation: I won’t go into the medical rationale. If he is not over 50 years old, try not to take medicine. You can let him exercise more and do some gymnastics to enhance his function. The diet should not be too vegetarian. What men need to enhance their function is meat (haha, I didn’t expect that). If he is above 50, it will vary from person to person, and there is really no other choice but to take medicine.