A research team from the University of Wisconsin in the United States randomly selected 88 pairs of young opposite-sex friends to anonymously fill out a questionnaire. The results showed that men, regardless of whether they are single or not, hope that they are "attractive" to women, and if given the opportunity, they also hope that they will be "attractive" to women. Can date alone with friends of the opposite sex. Interestingly, female friends are very attractive to men regardless of whether they are single or not, and men often wishfully believe that their female friends are "full of interest" in them. In contrast, most women believe that friendship with male friends "focuses on spiritual communication." Only when their love life is "on the rocks" do they crave comfort from male friends.

The research team also conducted the same experiment on 140 middle-aged men and women. They found that for middle-aged women, the attractiveness of having friends of the opposite sex has diminished significantly, unless they are still single. But for middle-aged men, female friends still have a certain attraction. However, all the men and women who participated in the survey said that they often get good advice and inspiration from friends of the opposite sex.

"So, does there exist 'pure friendship' between men and women? If we all think the same as women, then the answer is yes; if we all think the same as men, then most countries in the world will We are facing a demographic crisis,” Adrian Huard, editor of Scientific American magazine, wrote in the article, “In other words, there is no ‘pure friendship’ between men and women.”

Kissing, men and women have completely different psychology

The feeling of a man and woman kissing may determine the life of both parties. A study published in the American Journal of Sexual Psychology showed that first kisses have completely different meanings for men and women, and most first kisses are initiated by men.

This study was completed by psychologists at New York University in the United States. Researchers distributed questionnaires to 1,000 male and female students aged 18 to 22 to understand their attitudes towards kissing. The results showed that men and women had very different attitudes toward kissing. For men, kissing is kissing, and the so-called "quality" kiss is one that makes a woman moan with pleasure. They often believe that this is the foreplay part of sex, or even a substitute for sex.

But women believe that kissing is a bond that strengthens the bond between the two parties and can be used to judge the other party's loyalty and interest in them. Most women regard kissing as an indispensable part of an intimate relationship and would never consider sex without kissing.

In addition, the pressure to initiate the first kiss falls mostly on the shoulders of men, while women use the kiss as a touchstone and carefully select their "future husband" in the process. Once the relationship is established, men's interest in kissing will significantly weaken, but women still have high expectations. This is manifested as women caressing and kissing each other intimately after sex.

An interesting talk about the psychological differences between men and women

1. About 25% of men fall in love with each other on the first date, but only 15% of women fall in love with each other on the fourth date.

2. Men will make a lot of friends when they are young, but women will have more friends after middle age.

3. Women make decisions faster than men.

4. Boys from before entering school to middle school love to dominate others more than girls. The longer the marriage lasts as an adult, the more the wife becomes the dominated one.

5. Men are often afraid that their lovers will be killed or commit suicide, while women are often afraid that their lovers will suffer accidents or die of old age.

6. Men like to work in a rush style with intervals of rest, while women like to work at the same pace.

7. Most surveys of adults show that men and women are equally likely to gossip and spread rumors.

8. Crime Stoppers research shows that 25% more women than men resist when they encounter bad guys.

9. Nearly twice as many married men as single men say they are happy and content. But married women report being unhappy more often than single women, regardless of whether they have children.

10. More single men commit crimes than married men, while fewer single women commit crimes than married women.