Introduction: Recently, some media surveyed some married men. More than 80% of them said that they can only go home on time for two or three days at most in a week. So what is the reason why men don’t want to go home?

Recently, some media surveyed some married men. More than 80% of them said that they could only go home on time for two or three days at most in a week. When asked about the topic "Why don't they like going home?" Men's answers roughly fall into three categories: The external world is too exciting, and men like to play; men's social nature determines that they have many friends and social activities; they are tired of their wives' aesthetics.

I remember reading Zhou Guoping’s book ten years ago. He said, “A woman is her own family, and a man does not have a family. A man will have a family only if there is a woman willing to have him.” From a cultural perspective, family It is a place to recuperate, shelter from wind and rain, and where life thrives. Women symbolize nurturing and men symbolize creation. Men need women to nurture them, and women need men to create their lives. Some people say that men live for women, but women live to give birth and raise offspring. All men in the world are raised by women and are the meat that falls from women's bodies, so men must work hard to repay women.

Judging from the pictogram of the Chinese word "家", home is the pig under the lid, the lid refers to the roof, and the pig refers to the people living in the house. What is home? It’s the house and the people in it. If we symbolize women as treasures: home, and men as pigs raised by women, then we have to be careful, because pigs in modern people's minds are good cats. Just watch the movie "Pig Baby" and you will know that pigs symbolize intelligence and blessing. , lazy, casual, gluttonous, lustful, and of course there are three words: dirty, greedy and sleepy. Are these three words characteristic of men’s behavior at home? In fact, the word "hog" refers to a wild boar. There are no tamed pigs. Such pigs are reckless, brave, and careless. They do not take the initiative to attack. They are not afraid of angering the emperor and me. They are easily confused but difficult to subdue. Doesn't this look like a man who hasn't been well-tamed by women?

Why men don’t want to go home? According to online surveys, the top three reasons are: the outside world is too exciting and men like to have fun; men’s social nature determines that they have many friends and social activities; and they are tired of their wives’ aesthetics. In fact, these statements are superficial explanations and not the deep-seated needs of men. A man has a spirit like a pig flowing in his blood. You can neglect him, but you cannot humiliate him. You can ask him, but you can't stop him from being carefree and lazy at home. If a man at home is made to feel that he has no dignity and no leisure, then he would rather wander alone than give in. However, a man who has been tamed by a woman has lost his pride like a pig. He can let you ridicule and nag him, and he will not be angry if you don't treat him as a human being. The premise is whether he has ever received the benefits like a domestic pig, and whether a woman has ever made a man's self-esteem as satisfied and awe-inspiring as a pig.

Marriage is the treasure cover. A woman’s love, tolerance, tolerance and warmth are the pen that holds a man’s heart. Only when the pig pen is firmly built can a man’s heart lose its “pig” look. wild. However, all women's tenderness is like a trap. Men who have strayed from home may be more likely to fall into other people's traps. Speaking of this, I think of Sun Nan and Mai Hongmei. Whenever I listen to Sun Nan's "I Believe", tears will wet my face. For many men, home is both fascinating and confusing. The reason is that what kind of circle can accommodate all the men in the world?

Asked "Why don't men go home?", and the song "Go Home" by Shunzi rose in my heart. That kind of sad feeling is more like a wandering pig (man) than a wild man. The true feelings of cats (women). There are two kinds of homes. One is the real home: the house. One is a psychological home. A man has no home in his heart, and a man who has no home in his heart longs to go home. If the home is not as loving and tolerant as the female womb, opening and closing the door countless times and going home will just be a compulsive behavior in men's psychology. Men who cannot find love will have sex with many women, dressing and undressing. In fact, they are repeating the ritual of returning home, but in the end they still have no home. For men, the uterus in a woman's body is his home, where birth, happiness and death occur. Sex and love are symbols of men's desire to return to their mother's body (home), and the grave is another symbol of return. Look at the tombs built by ancient people. The long corridor leads to a womb-like house. The soul of a man needs to find a place in the body of a woman, so the pinyin of the tomb where the soul rests is the same as the pinyin of mother. Symbolically speaking, a woman's body has a uterus, and a woman has a home. A woman who can selflessly accommodate men like a uterus is the home that men ultimately long for.

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