For men

You should use indirect stimulation methods. Don't touch or express directly first. You can wear sexy underwear, bite the ear and talk to make him distracted, and use indirect sensuality. Stimulation will be more attractive to him who has failed before. You can also fully express your joy during sex. Seeing your satisfied expression and hearing your pleasant voice will be the best treatment for him. .

Doubt your sexual ability and worry about the pressure of dissatisfaction

According to the survey, Taiwanese men generally believe that it takes a long time to have an erection to satisfy women, and they also believe that women must have erection. Only a very strong reaction can show that he is "very capable and strong", so he subconsciously worries that the other person will have an affair due to dissatisfaction with his desires. As a result, he will become weak after doing it, and he will not be able to get up no matter how stimulated he is.

Relief methods

If it fails many times, you don’t have to rush to help him recover. Both parties should take a break first to give him a chance to breathe; you can use other methods to express intimacy, let him know that you are really satisfied with your relationship, and rebuild his self-confidence.

Women

Don’t think that as long as the other person is passionate and you work hard to tease, the two of you can enjoy sex to their heart’s content. In fact, a woman who likes to be kissed and caressed does not necessarily mean that she can enjoy sexual relations with each other. You may have never experienced how much pressure she exerted before unbuttoning.

Therefore, if you can understand more about her feelings before taking off her clothes, I believe your relationship will definitely become closer!

Pressure caused by fear and “anticipation” of sexual intercourse

"Sex is not beautiful at all, only uncomfortable." This is a topic often mentioned by many handkerchiefs when they talk about the secrets of the boudoir. Due to the lack of sexual education, many people’s sexual knowledge comes from movies, TV, or novels. In those worlds, sex is beautiful, but in fact, not everyone’s experience is this way; therefore, when people spread word of mouth, they will say that sex is not only unromantic, but even painful.

Some people think that sexual intercourse is just a routine thing, or even just to satisfy men. With this concept, women will naturally feel fear and disgust when they want to go to bed with their sexual partners, and of course they will not have satisfactory and pleasurable sexual intercourse.

Another similar situation is aversion to sexual organs. In the manga "Reiko Shiratori", the heroine Reiko Shiratori has a first-class face and figure. She also has beautiful fantasies about falling in love and having sex. However, she feels that her sexual organs are extremely ugly, which is different from hers. A beautiful woman whose appearance is completely unworthy and therefore disillusioned with sex. Although the plot is funny, it vividly conveys the conflicting views of young women on sexual intercourse. This belief that sexual organs are ugly, just like the belief that sexual intercourse is painful, prevents many women from enjoying sex calmly.

Relief methods

If women’s preconceived notions or stereotypes about sex are deep-rooted, they will still cause psychological obstacles. At this time, the other half's consideration and understanding, as well as communication with both parties, become the key to solving the problem.

The pressure to unbutton due to inferiority complex about body shape

The first pressure women face before having sex is that they worry about being in poor shape, not being able to satisfy their sexual partners, and even destroying the original relationship. But in real life, there are not many people who can be as graceful as celebrities, so you must build confidence in your body and accept yourself.

Relief methods

For women’s anxiety and pressure, men must give positive comments and encouragement. Men must understand that sex is not only about physical and sensual desires, but also about emotional communication. If you are not satisfied with your body shape, you can share your feelings with women and compare your feelings to relieve the pressure caused by appearance.

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