What is the reason? It turns out that Qin and Ming had sex long before marriage. At that time, they were afraid of being discovered, so they would meet for a "quick fix" every time. After a long time, they became a couple. This is a habit that I haven't been able to change even after marriage. Qin wondered if her husband had any physical problems. If things continued like this, there might be cracks in the marriage.

Sexual psychology expert analysis:

This is not a sexual physiological problem, but a typical sexual psychological problem. The traditional emphasis on avoiding premarital sex is only based on the requirements and explanations of morality and chastity. In fact, the harm of premarital sex is equally serious for boys and girls. The social impact of premarital sex and pregnancy on a girl is well known. If she does not become pregnant, it should be said that the sexual and psychological harm of premarital sex to the man is far greater than the sexual and physiological harm to the woman.

Because when premarital sex occurs, both parties, especially the male, are often nervous and are afraid of being discovered, so they psychologically complete it as quickly as possible. Over time, men will form a sexual and psychological conditioned reflex of "complete it as soon as possible" in their brains. So even if you get married, this conditioned reflex that has been formed still exists. If the quality of life of a couple is not high, the man will psychologically mistakenly believe that he has lost interest in the other person, and will often seek extramarital sexual stimulation through seeking novelties. This is what we usually call extramarital affairs. Then, the man will fall into a new vicious cycle of "finishing it as soon as possible" under unsafe conditions for extramarital affairs. This is what we usually say, "This man has bad qualities and will never grow up with anyone." Such cases account for a large proportion of young couples.

Guidance from sexual physiology experts:

1. After both parties understand the causes of sexual dysfunction caused by premarital sex from a sexual and psychological perspective, they should consciously reduce the number of sexual dysfunctions in their married life. Start with frequency and get rid of the negative sexual psychological patterns established in the past.

2. When establishing a new sexual psychology model, couples should start from being lovers and first lovers, review the love process, and walk the road of love. Then both parties start from scratch in a safe and warm family atmosphere and fully enjoy the beauty of life.

3. The wife should dress herself up as carefully as she does when she is in love, and fully mobilize and re-cultivate her husband's freshness towards her.

4. In the future of married life, the wife should deliberately maintain a sense of distance from her husband, and must not "response to every request" and allow the husband to continue to strengthen new sexual psychological and sexual physiological signals.

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