The definition of "successful men" refers Obtained through legal channels, using legitimate resources, and exerting superior talents; a man who is physically and mentally healthy and takes love, marriage, and family seriously. People who do not fall into the above categories are not discussed in this article because their views on love, marriage and life attitudes are difficult to define and grasp.

China’s traditional marriage model has always been that men are strong and women are weak. This is not only reflected in education and economic foundation, but also in age, so boys in their 20s want to find women in their 20s. When children get married, old men in their 30s, 40s, and even 50s and 60s also want to find a girl in their 20s. What about women in their 30s and 40s? Can they only become "leftover women"?

Among the members of Pengcheng Marriage and Love Studio, there are quite a few successful men, and their criteria for choosing a spouse are different. Select a few typical members below and let us see what they think.

“Older women are too shrewd”

Divorced, 47 years old, 1.75 meters tall, civil servant in the judiciary (professor level)

Q: What do you want? How old are you looking for?

Answer: Under 35 years old.

Q: What is the youngest age?

Answer: No less than 24 years old.

Q: Can divorced people be considered?

Answer: It is best not to do so. If you have never given birth to a child, you can consider it.

Q: Do you hope she has an independent career?

Answer: No. A woman with a successful career must be stronger. Strong women have strong personalities and are more tiring to interact with.

Q: Do you hope that she will give up her career and become a full-time housewife after marriage?

Answer: Not necessarily. As long as she is pure, it doesn't matter if she comes home and acts coquettishly.

Mr. Xu believes that it is easy to find a young and unmarried person. They will not have the emotional shadow of a failed marriage, and there will be no comparison between the current family and the previous family. Older women are too influenced by the environment around them and are too shrewd. They don't look like they are looking for a husband, but like they are doing business and bargaining. Mr. Xu said: "Not long ago, Pengcheng Love and Marriage Studio introduced me to a 35-year-old married woman with no children. When we first met, she asked me how many houses I had. I said if one house was not enough to live in, she said no. I live with my son, and I told her that my son was studying abroad, and that he would come back to live during the holidays. The reason was that she had never given birth and she didn’t dare to face it.”

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“They all stated that they don’t want to have any more children”

Widowed, 45 years old, 1.80 meters tall, real estate developer

Q: How old are you looking for? ?

Answer: Around 30 years old. But it must be beautiful.

Q: What do you think is the standard of beauty?

Answer: The height should not be less than 1.65 meters, the skin should be white, and the applicant should have good temperament.

Q: Are there any academic requirements?

Answer: Yes. College degree or above required.

Q: Why focus on academic qualifications?

Answer: Only people with a high level of education can have temperament and self-cultivation.

Mr. Liu and his ex-wife have a daughter, and he wants to find a young, unmarried or married wife with no children to have another child. In this way, they can have a common child, which will strengthen their relationship. Mr. Liu said: "When you marry a beautiful wife, firstly, you can give birth to a beautiful child, and secondly, you can have face with friends in the business world." However, when he met several ladies, they all expressed that they did not want to have more children, which made Liu The gentleman was helpless.

We chose to interview two men with different types of successful careers and happy family lives. Their stories led us to conclude that "age and appearance are not the key to a happy marriage." A conclusion.

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The "comprehensive indicators" of a senior man

Mr. A, the boss of a certain monopoly industry, is 45 years old, 1.78 meters tall, handsome and tall. He was promoted to a deputy director at the age of 38.

Q: As a successful person, do you need your wife to be beautiful?

Answer: Not necessarily. As long as you can see through it, have a good temperament, and have a bit of femininity, it will be fine.

Q: What quality do you value most in her?

Answer: Gentle, nurturing, considerate, and taking into account the overall situation.

Q: Do you need her to be successful in her career?

Answer: It doesn’t matter.

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