For the wife, premarital sex also caused her psychological depression. After marriage, she longed for normal satisfaction. However, she didn't know that her husband's sexual psychology had been damaged, so she didn't use the necessary guidance and comfort to consciously and gradually cooperate with "awakening" like she would with an "amnesia" patient.

Dr. Liu from the Tianjin Youth Mental Health Care Center received such a young couple who came for treatment: They were both 27 years old and had been married for two years without any contraceptive measures. However, the wife was not pregnant and had had sex. After multiple physical examinations, the couple found no physical abnormalities. The couple attributed the infertility to the husband's premature ejaculation. However, after correction with hormones and other drugs, the husband developed more obvious sexual dysfunction. Sometimes he could not ejaculate, and sometimes he had premature ejaculation but had new urges that were difficult to restrain.

A recent physical examination proved that all indicators of his sperm were normal, and no diseases such as inflammation of the reproductive system or tumors were found. They pointed to the thick stack of medical records they brought and said to Dr. Liu: "These doctors are powerless. They think seeing a psychiatrist is the last hope. We have a good relationship and don't think there is any psychological problem." "However, the final diagnosis and treatment results proved that the problem that had troubled them for two years was precisely the husband's psychological disorder.

They are close neighbors living in the courtyard, childhood sweethearts, and have a deep understanding of each other. Less than 20 years old, the two and both families recognized their relationship. The two families were in a tight housing situation. The girl lived in the attic built at home, and the boy lived in a small house of less than 6 square meters built on a neighbor's gable. And this cabin became their love nest before they got their own house.

Their love is sincere and passionate. However, this love nest cannot allow them to feel love and beauty peacefully. The neighbor's rear window became the only way to get light in the house, but the other side of the house was the window of my own room. With their narration, no matter whether it is their own home or a neighbor's home, they can hear even the slightest movement. Before they were married, they had eaten the forbidden fruit secretly and had to try their best to avoid any noise in order to avoid being discovered. Each time it ended as quickly as possible, and many times the sex was abruptly interrupted because someone felt someone had discovered it. To them, this charming forbidden fruit is like picking it secretly and hiding it in their arms in a hurry, but they have never tasted it...

After marriage, they can enjoy their married life freely. However, on the first night of their wedding, something happened to her husband. He was very tired and wanted to take a rest, but he suddenly had uncontrollable and violent ejaculation. Both the couple thought it was caused by being tired and drinking alcohol that day. Similar situations often occurred in the future, and even developed to the point where sexual function suffered temporary and serious abnormalities. The doctor also learned that they both wanted to have love as soon as possible, and that the husband secretly took medicine and even used "magic oil". Later, the medicine prescribed by the doctor had no effect at all. Under the guidance of the doctor, they recalled an almost forgotten sexual experience. It was one afternoon more than half a year ago. Her husband asked her to have sex with her after she took a shower. She reluctantly agreed. That time, everything was normal for my husband. Unfortunately, it was a safe period. At that time, the couple were very surprised, thinking that the medicine prescribed by a traditional Chinese medicine doctor had taken effect. After that, it was business as usual.

When the husband and the doctor were talking alone, after several conscious attempts by the doctor to enlighten and guide him, he also revealed a secret that he had never told anyone else - he often talks to an indistinguishable person in his dreams. Whose woman was he sleeping with? In the haze, he felt that everything was going on normally... After he finished speaking, he emphasized again and again: "I really can't tell who that woman is. There is absolutely no emotional rift between me and my wife... ”

Dr. Liu understood that the culprit of her husband’s sexual dysfunction was the premarital sex he and his wife had had. The traditional emphasis on the negative effects of premarital sex is often considered only from the perspective of morality and female chastity. When it comes to the possible harms of premarital sex, only women’s pregnancy is often considered. In fact, premarital sex is equally harmful to men.

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