Life is like a game of chess, it doesn’t matter whether you are black or white. Only a very small number of people can become famous in one fell swoop. Many people have settled halfway. Every step is a choice, but some are insignificant and some are not. There are many people who are careless and lose the whole game with one mistake. When one day you say to the people around you: I have finally finished this game of chess and you feel that you have no regrets, then congratulations, you Won.

Standing at 30, for some people, they turn to the left before the age of 30 and to the right after the age of 30. Standing at 30, for some people, before the age of 30 is the cause, and after the age of 30 is the effect.

1. You must believe that 30 years old will come soon. No matter you are in World of Warcraft, Maopu or disco club, no matter how young you pretend to be, time will always leave a mark on your heart. Covering up can never change the facts. There is only one way: prepare in advance. Even if you are only 18 years old, you can still be embarrassed. Once you are over 30 years old, you are just like a piece of grass. So if you can't fill your psychological connotation in advance, just wait until people see you and annoy others.

2. Don’t do good deeds because they are small, and don’t do evil deeds because they are small. No matter how deeply you understand life, in many aspects it is best to listen to the advice of your parents, or even to do exactly what they tell you. Putting aside the traditions left by your ancestors, after all, they are better than cats and us. Having lived decades earlier, our understanding of this cruel society is far better than ours, even if we can’t read a few baskets of Chinese characters. Once you are 30 years old, your view of everything is basically the same as how they saw you back then. At that time, regretting your youth will no longer help.

3. You must know how many friends you have who can help you, how many friends you just hang out with to eat and drink, how many friends you have are dispensable, and how many friends you have You need to be careful with your friends. It is best to find out what their family members do, because no matter what kind of friends they are, you will always be useful to them one day. After the age of 30, you will find that those successful people will have one or a large group of relationships around them, and almost all of them are friends.

4. Unmarried male moppers before the age of 30 can have more girlfriends, so that you can learn a lot. But the relationship must remain stable. It is best not to have different women around you on several weekend nights in the same month. Don't think that a man's reputation is not important. If a banana is rotten, it has the same virtue as an apple. When everyone knows it, you will regret being born in this city or country (same as above for women).

5. First love is always the best. So no matter how unbearable your first love is, no matter how young the other person is, even if the snot has crossed the Yellow River, remember not to hurt him (her), even if you still have to break up in the end, he (she) will not be hurt after the age of 30. ) will be the only clear stream in your heart. And your hurt will often affect a person's future friendship orientation

6. It is best not to take the first intimate contact too seriously. This is difficult to do but must be done. This is not to tell you that you can do whatever you want. Please refer to Article 4 for the reason. The main reason for this is that there are too many people in the world and you are too young. It is very likely that when you wake up the next day, you will find that the person lying next to you is not the person you love most. The time of waking up may be delayed for a long time. If you don’t know how to see the reality clearly in time, you must care about your first time. No matter who you are, when the second time comes, greater harm will be waiting for you. You can understand this as leaving the first time to the person who loves you the most (please note: not the person you love the most).

7. Before the age of 30, you must spend as much money as possible, learn as much as possible about new things in the world, and learn as much as possible if your family and your own conditions allow and you are restrained. Buy more books, eat as many kinds of food as possible, and buy yourself as much clothes as possible. I am not telling you that you can be extravagant. After the age of 30, you will find that no amount of money is enough. You will find that there are too many things that you don’t understand in this world. You will regret that you have read too few books. You will find that you have no appetite for many foods. You will find that you can no longer wear many clothes that look very good.

8. Before the age of 30, the thing in this world that is most likely not to betray you is your own body, and after the age of 30, the thing that is most likely to betray you is your own body. Before the age of 30, you can eat and drink as much as you want, have fun, sit in front of the computer and play CS all night long until your eyes are red. After the age of 30, your body will use various diseases to tell you that you must have been kicked in the brain by a donkey to torment yourself so much.

9. You must learn to cook, you must learn to wash clothes, you must learn to take care of yourself, you must learn the minimum way to survive. In this regard, parents are the best teachers, and they will be very happy to do so. To teach you this, it is best to know the most basic hygiene and health methods for men and women, it is best to know a few tips in life, and it is best to master one or several specialty dishes. There comes a day when everyone faces life alone. After the age of 30, if you can’t even wash a sock and the food you cook is salty enough to kill a pig, unless Bill Gates is your godfather, you will still be despised no matter how rich you are (one day ).

10. When you meet the person you love, you must be brave enough to fight for it. Even if you meet cat friends on the Internet, many cat friends will eventually get married. If he (she) is really worth fighting for, don't keep him (her) in your pocket for too long after you get it. Take him (her) out often to dry in the sun. This will not only show that the famous flower in the world has its owner, but also You can put your love to the test. Don't talk about love for too long. Don't wait until you are familiar with each other's body to the point where you can clearly see the number of bumps on your butt. Get married when it's time to get married before it reaches its peak. Tofu is all good tofu, and it will deteriorate over time. Although Wang Zhihe tastes good, it is not acceptable to everyone after all. What about singleism and fear of siege? After the age of 30, you will find that even the person who stayed when you were young will Squatting behind your building with a clear nose and waiting for the stupid guy who stayed overnight to propose to you, you are willing to agree to him, you will find that the conditions will become lower and lower, sometimes your thoughts will make you look down on yourself, sometimes You will cry bitterly that this world is so perverted that you can't even find anyone worthy of love. Wine smells good with age, but believe me, you will never become the Bordeaux of a French manor.

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