2010 is really here. For those of us who were born in 1980, "Ben San" is no longer just a legend, but a life that we have to face...

The "post-80s generation" is already thirty And Li

Before yesterday, those born in the 1980s always felt that they were a young, prosperous and promising generation - look, we are younger than those born in the 70s, and we are more mature than those born in the 90s. The advantages are not just One and a half stars. On January 1, 2010, life finally sent this day to those born in the 1980s who thought they had a lot of youth and years to squander, and told everyone: youth is just a legend, and "standing at thirty" is what everyone needs to know. Right reality.

In 2009, at the class reunion, those of us who were born in the 1980s no longer dared to joke about being part of the "Ben San" clan - three or four years ago, we often used this term The topic was joking, and he even arrogantly claimed to be "old" in front of people born in the 1970s, but in his heart he was showing off his capital. Nowadays, our so-called capital has gone far away. When we see ourselves working under the same roof as people born in 1985, we have to admit in our hearts that we are really old. Sometimes we still mention "Ben San" , the words are always mixed with a little loss, helplessness, and even fear. Now, 2010 is really here. For those of us who were born in 1980, "Ben San" is no longer just a legend, but a life that we have to face...

"Post-80s" have to face the five A big mountain

I remember when we were in college, we had naively envisioned our thirty-year-olds together in our dormitory “sleep talk” sessions, with great health, a successful career, a house and a car, maturity and stability, a happy family, wealth and happiness, everything. They are all so beautiful, and the sunshine and white clouds also come to bless us. What about life? Does life really make our wishes come true?

To be honest, life has not treated us badly. The "five children admitted to college" that we once wanted have also arrived. On a good day of "double spring and leap month", under the witness of a staff member of the Civil Affairs Bureau, I became someone's wife; in order to live more securely and calmly in a foreign land, we stamped countless red handprints and got We bought our own house; we wanted to live a better quality life, so we drove the car home; our son came on a sunny day, bringing a lot of chaos to the family; as for the money, when the salary is paid every month There are always some...

But some things are still beyond our expectation. Life has given us five happy "children", but also sent us five mountains that are impossible to get rid of:

The number one worry is the heavy responsibility of the family. Many experts have predicted in the past that couples born in the 1980s will face the problem of two only children supporting four elderly people. Yes, our family has such an age structure. Moreover, the elderly on both sides are still at the northern and southern ends of the land of China. Where should they go to fulfill their filial piety during the holidays? This problem causes headaches several times a year. We cannot favor one over the other, but we must also satisfy the elderly on both sides. In addition to making some contributions to the telecommunications industry, we must also contribute to the aviation industry.

The second biggest worry is the house. Fortunately for us, when "Snail House" became popular, we had successfully overcome the hurdle of houses. But so far, I'm not quite the owner of the house. In other words, the bank will occupy certain shares of this house for a long time. I have to work hard for this house and strive to drive away the "major shareholder" of the bank as soon as possible.

The third biggest worry is the car. There is no doubt about the benefits of cars, and we greatly enjoy the convenience of traveling. But why can’t we have Doraemon’s special abilities? Whenever driving a car on the road looking for a parking lot, it becomes an ideal state that cannot be left behind after using up the car and putting it in your pocket like Doraemon. As for the various invoices required for the car to be on the road, the regular maintenance of the car, etc., you must remember clearly all kinds of things - you must take good care of the car, otherwise, it will go on strike on the road one day, and you will be unlucky. still me!

The fourth biggest worry is my son. The son spends all day showing off to everyone he knows that he is "mom's baby." But his mother can't tell him that he is not only her baby, but also her sweet trouble. The child has a headache and fever, the child has a conflict with his friends, whether the child should attend an interest class, which school the child will go to in the future... Endless questions about children surround us who have always thought that we are children. Helps us mature.

The fifth biggest worry is, of course, money. Anyone can say that they have money, it’s just a matter of how much. But the money always flows like a rushing stream, always in the process of going from one bank to another: I pay my salary from Bank A, take it out, go to Bank B to pay off the mortgage, go to Bank C to pay off the credit card debt, and go to Bank D. Various payments required to pay for houses and cars. Where are we, the owners of these tickets? Just their waiter!

There is an old person at the top and a young person at the bottom. There is both the sweetness of having "five sons admitted to college" and the small depression of the five major worries. This is a realistic portrayal of the post-80s generation who are thirty years old. Looking forward, many people born in the 1970s are already successful in their careers and have a well-organized work and life; looking back, many people born in the 1990s are ready and full of energy. What about us? There is no time to waste, no time to waste, so just bravely shoulder the burden of parents, family, children, and career and move on.

This article comes from adult.6kmall.com and is published by netizens. This site only quotes it for reference. It does not mean that this site agrees with the views of the article. If you believe that the content and intellectual property rights of this article infringe upon your interests, please contact us.