Please don’t overestimate love
Generations of descendants have been fooled: love, which was originally exaggerated, has always been wrapped in a layer of gorgeously decorated brocade. A nation that evolved from a primitive farming society, a country that had gone through wars and was poor and sick, not only was love deified and beautified at that time, but its taste was also overestimated.
Even today, when society is becoming more open and civilized, and Western trends are becoming more and more eastward, our love is still dominated by tradition and secularity. How many people dare to try marriage, how many people dare to elope, and how many people can escape the barriers and curses of "the orders of their parents and the words of the matchmaker"? The superficial sweetness, the formal love and affection, but it resists The words "I love you" are not as real as others' words; don't think that lovers are love, and living together is romance. In fact, these cannot withstand the test of time and utilitarianism. Nowadays, although tied couples are rare, what is the destination of love for most people? It is 70% make do! The best thing is to "get married first, fall in love later".
As for lovers finally getting married, I think it is purely a luxury talk. Is one lover truly in love, and can two true loves come together? With such considerations, modern people's love will be greatly compromised. Although true love can transcend thousands of rivers and mountains, it is based on extreme loyalty. Looking at the present moment, rampant ambiguity is common, shaking the foundation of loyalty, but this is definitely not love!
Therefore, love is also in line with the principle of "survival of the fittest". It's right, the hearts are together, as time goes by, and they get along more, the affection will gradually become stronger, and the affection for those who are less affection will grow over time. In addition, the two ties of responsibility and obligation are connected, from acquaintance to acquaintance, to love. When the fruit is ripe, it has entered the state of "slowly growing old", and it is said that this is the most romantic thing in the world.
To put it bluntly, if material civilization and spiritual civilization have not reached a certain level, don’t talk about the romance of love. Otherwise, you will overestimate its taste. Before I finish, I want to say the last thing: Find your place in love and treat it as kindly as possible!
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