Playing "Trial Divorce" and Losing My Wife
After graduating from college, Shanshan and I returned to our hometown. I work in an administrative agency and Shanshan works in a bank. Two years later, we walked down the red carpet and began our happy and sweet little family life. When the excitement and freshness gradually fade away, life becomes somewhat routine. I like to pass the time on the computer network, while Shanshan likes to play mahjong with her colleagues. We both have a lot of fun, so we decided to have children while we were young and have fun for a few more years. However, after spending time together in this world between the two of us, we felt a little bored again. In the second half of my third year of marriage, I discovered on the Internet that it is now fashionable for some young couples in big cities to "try divorce." The couples who get back together after the "trial divorce" have better relationships than before, because after the "trial" In the process, each found that they could not leave each other. So, I thought, why not jump on this trend? Firstly, it can add some new ideas to life, and secondly, it can test whether the marriage with Shanshan is strong.
That night, after Shanshan and I had a warm conversation, I expressed my thoughts to her. Shanshan immediately said with a sad face: "No, husband, I don't want to divorce you." I hugged her and comforted her: "It's not a real divorce, it's a try. If we want to get back together, just treat it as a trip. Far from it. Let's test ourselves and see if our marriage is the most unbreakable." After some persuasion, Shanshan reluctantly agreed, but still asked dubiously: "Are you looking for another woman? If you find another woman, I will really divorce you."
The next night, I learned from the Internet and drafted a "trial divorce" agreement. The general idea is that with the consent of the two of them, they agreed to a "trial divorce" for three months. Shanshan would move out and I would pay the rent for three months at a time. During the "trial divorce" period, both parties do not interfere in each other's private lives, are not allowed to associate with the opposite sex, and are not allowed to do anything that hurts or betrays their feelings. Shanshan looked at the "agreement" and said, "Husband, we are just having fun and changing our living conditions. This is not a real divorce." I smiled and asked her to rest assured.
A week later, Shanshan came back and complained, saying that it was hard to eat and sleep alone outside, there was no washing machine, and the clothes had to be washed by hand. She had nothing to do after get off work but play mahjong, which turned her face yellow, and she did not want to play anymore. What a "trial divorce". I laughed and said, "There is a saying that the farther a person is from home, the closer his heart is to home. This shows that our approach is effective." I asked to continue to "distance" to see if our marriage could be preserved. Shanshan said with tears in her eyes: "Husband, you are so cruel. It seems that you don't want me to come back at all." She paused and gritted her teeth and said, "Okay, I have to be cruel too, and I won't wait for you to go." Please beg me to come back." After saying that, he angrily rummaged through the boxes and found some clothes and daily necessities, preparing to stay outside for a long time. I sat aside and snickered secretly: Let you taste the feeling of not having a husband for a few more days, and you will know how to cherish and love me when you come back in the future.
Without the control of my wife, I travel online every day, often staying up all night. The girls online are enthusiastic and open-minded, and their jokes are no less impressive than those of the men. I "chatted" with several female netizens at the same time, and sometimes I was so "busy" that I couldn't cope with it. I was just a happy single. But unexpectedly, something unexpected happened.
In late June, our unit organized a summer vacation in a nearby mountain. As soon as I went up the mountain, I found that Shanshan was also on top. When she saw me, she was a little nervous and flustered. She explained that she came to stay alone for a few days because she was in a bad mood. Shanshan's evasive attitude made me suspicious, and I immediately wanted to go to the room where she lived to have a look. She became anxious and stopped her: "We agreed not to interfere in our private life." When she said this, I became even more determined and pulled her to see what was going on. Shanshan threw my hand away and said, "You have no right to check in my room." I yelled, "You are my wife!"
Our quarrel attracted onlookers. Suddenly a young man appeared in the crowd, pushed me away fiercely, protected Shanshan, and yelled fiercely: "Who are you? Are you looking for death?" Looking at this burly man, I suddenly understood, and pointed Looking at Shanshan who was crying beside her, she said, "Okay, you finally let me see your face clearly."
After coming down the mountain, I found where Shanshan lived and handed her a formal "divorce agreement." Shanshan seemed to be prepared. She took out a thick stack of photocopied documents from a drawer and said, "Don't think it was me who betrayed your feelings first. Look at what you have done."
Those photocopied documents are all records of my chats with some female netizens. After a quick look, I said in surprise: "Are you investigating me privately? You are so despicable!" The expression on Shanshan's face was very complicated, and she remained silent. I argued: "What can the chat records show? What are they? You are living with another man, and you betrayed our marriage and relationship." "Don't these disgusting chat records prove your betrayal? Don't say anything, I want to divorce you!" Shanshan shouted almost at the top of her lungs.
A week later, Shanshan and I went through the divorce procedures at the Civil Affairs Bureau. When we broke up, I suddenly felt very nostalgic. Looking at Shanshan with tears in her eyes, my heart ached, and I said to her, "Have a meal together for the last time?" Shanshan shook her head, tears streaming down her beautiful face, Said: "I didn't expect that our marriage would be 'finished' so easily and so unbearable."
Looking at Shanshan's leaving figure, her body in a green dress looked particularly graceful and charming in the white sunshine. I think that such a good woman will no longer be my wife in the future. Marriage requires careful care by two people. This fashionable "trial divorce" is destined to become my eternal heartache...
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