Researchers conducted a telephone survey of more than 1,000 married men and women aged 18-34, some of whom had been married for 10 years. In the survey, more than 40% of the respondents had no experience of living together before marriage, 16% got engaged first and then lived together, and 43% moved in together soon after falling in love. The results showed that people who cohabited without being engaged had the lowest post-marriage satisfaction, the highest rate of negative emotions, and the highest number of thoughts of divorce, with 19% of people having filed for divorce; and this proportion increased after engagement. 12% among those who cohabited and only 10% among those who did not live together before marriage.

Caliland Lord explained: "This study is to tell people that finding problems in marriage through cohabitation is deceiving oneself and others, and will only bring more trouble to the marriage. Because there is no Cohabitation without restraint is in many cases casual and irresponsible, and many people even break up after living together for many years."

Professor Pan Suiming, director of the Institute of Sexuality, School of Social Sciences, Renmin University of China, pointed out. Since the reform and opening up, the number of Chinese people having premarital sex or living together has also increased. What people are more concerned about is: what impact this will have on their future lives. "In order to understand this, in the "Sexual Life of Chinese People" series of reports, we specifically selected adults under 40 years old and married within 5 years (inclusive) for analysis."

The "Chinese Sex Life" report shows that if a couple has had sexual intercourse (including cohabitation) before registration, the husband will have an advantage in future marriages. This is manifested in the following two aspects: the wife loves each other more than the husband; both parties are more likely to be jealous. On the surface, the above two situations seem to prove that women will be in a relatively low position after marriage. But Pan Suiming analyzed that this is related to the traditional concept of chastity. "No matter how consensual and passionate the two parties were at the time, she still unconsciously believed that she had 'lost her virginity' in her heart. As a result, she had to work hard to 'make up for herself' after marriage: she loved her husband even more to prove that she was still 'innocent' , and use being more jealous to prove their determination to stay together. "In addition, after excluding differences in age, age at marriage, and urban and rural areas, the quality of sexual life after marriage is better for couples who have sex before marriage than without sex before marriage. Those who are high.

Leo Sroll, a famous American sociologist, believes that metropolitan areas are indifferent. Whether a person is lonely or lonely does not depend on whether there are people around him or not, but mainly depends on whether there is spiritual communication and emotional communication. Therefore, many urbanites are often immersed in loneliness, loneliness, and boredom, and couples in love are no exception. In order to eliminate these emotions, they simply organized a "quasi-family".

“We neither need to cheer because of the existence of this phenomenon, nor do we need to ignore the facts in order to maintain morality. The reason is simple: you can’t learn to swim without getting into the water. This is a kind of free exchange. Here comes another kind of freedom," Pan Suiming said.

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