Originally, talking about hygiene and cleanliness is a normal attitude and psychological needs, but if you forcibly transplant this nature into a sexual double bed and amplify it infinitely, it will confuse "sexual hygiene ” and “sexual mysophobia.”

Sexual hygiene and sexual mysophobia ● Sexual hygiene: Sexual hygiene is necessary. Failure to pay attention to hygiene in sexual life may affect the performance of sexual function and even It will cause some physical diseases. Good hygiene habits mean respect for each other. ● Sexual mysophobia: Everything has a degree. If you have to wash yourself three or four times before and after sex, and you accidentally fail to follow the rules, you will be harsh on your partner and yourself, and you will be extremely unhappy, and it will be serious and compulsive. To the extent of the disease, this is the category of sexual mysophobia. The causes of mysophobia The psychological disorder of mysophobia mostly occurs in young couples who have not been married for a long time. There are various reasons and social backgrounds for the occurrence of sexual mysophobia. Many people believe that sexual organs and sexual behaviors are inherently dirty and shameful. People think that everything can be said except sex. This is the result of our country being influenced by feudal ideology for a long time, regarding sex as a forbidden area, and insufficient positive publicity of sexual knowledge. Many girls have been taught from a young age that menstruation is dirty, referring to menstrual cramps as "offside." Progress further, from being cleansed about oneself to being cleansed to any man, and then extending to being sexually cleansed towards her husband after marriage. Some women with a higher cultural level mistakenly regard spiritual mysophobia as a noble sentiment and deliberately pursue it, but they do not regret it even if they hit a wall. Male mysophobia is influenced by the belief that men are superior to women and they believe that their sexual organs are clean but women's are dirty.

How to correct sexual mysophobia

To correct sexual mysophobia, we need not only the guidance of a psychologist, but also the support of sexual partners, as well as self-psychological adjustment and behavioral restraint. Among them, self-elimination of incorrect concepts such as "everything is unclean" and "sex is dirty" is key. In addition, the correction of mysophobia is a relatively long-term and complex psychological and behavioral adjustment process. It should not be done too hastily, otherwise it will be counterproductive and even cause serious psychological disorders such as sexual frigidity or complete refusal of sex in the mysophobia.

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