One-night stand seems to be a natural thing nowadays. Different people have different opinions. Let’s take a look at the different mentality of netizens towards one-night stand.

Psychological quote: Men tend to lower their selection standards during a one-night stand. So at this time, men's praise and flattery of women are just illusions. Experts surveyed 3,300 people, most of whom were between the ages of 17 and 40. More than half of the heterosexual respondents admitted to having one-night stands, and the chances of one-night stands are basically equal between men and women.

A survey shows that the result of a one-night stand is like paradise for most men, but negative for most women. The survey also further examines the nuances of casual sex and its instability in male-female relationships. The survey's findings indicate that women are attracted to men not because they want them to be their lifelong partners, but because they are attracted to the idea of ​​spending the night together. Therefore, they have been misunderstood on this issue in the past. Researchers point out that men tend to lower their selection standards during one-night stands. So at this time, men's praise and flattery of women are just illusions. Experts surveyed 3,300 people, most of whom were between the ages of 17 and 40. More than half of the heterosexual respondents admitted to having one-night stands, and the chances of one-night stands are basically equal between men and women.

Netizen Beijing Winter: There are usually two situations when a woman has a one-night stand with a man: Either she thinks the man is okay, so she uses her own conditions to bewitch the man in front of her, and has a one-night stand with this man to hide her love for the man. of insecurity. Or maybe she was under the man's temptation and praise, thinking that she was the only one, and therefore felt that tonight's one-night stand was something she did especially for this man. One-night stands may not necessarily be initiated by men, but are the preferences of men.

Netizens dispersed the gardenia flowers: To put it bluntly, if the other person is indeed very attractive, a man will feel a sense of accomplishment after a one-night stand. And men get more sexual satisfaction from one-night stands than women. In fact, one-night stands are sometimes due to loneliness and sometimes due to too much sexual repression. They are nothing more than a way to relieve oneself. Men and women are the same. Without the cooperation of women, men themselves cannot have one-night stands, so they cannot be blamed for one-night stands. On men.

Netizen Cowboy Kakaka: One-night stand, not several-night stand. This means that it is a short-term sexual behavior, one-time, and there is no entanglement or trouble. If something happens after one night, it is no longer a pure one-night stand. And if you are too serious, the chances of a one-night stand will be greatly reduced. Personally, I think it’s okay to try out a one-night stand once in a while when it’s safe.

Netizen Princess Sisi: When you meet a man like Daniel Wu, you can’t expect him to spend the rest of his life with you, so if the opportunity is right, you can have a relationship with him for half an hour in an afternoon or in a completely unfamiliar place, and there will be no words after that. How cool and romantic to leave.

Netizens are very confident: Most women feel even more empty and lonely after a one-night stand, and women who truly enjoy and feel pleasure are not common. And many women feel that they are being used in a one-night stand, so this is also the reason why women feel a little negative after a one-night stand. Thoughts like "Such behavior makes you look cheap and makes you look casual." make women feel bad.

Most of the men who are most likely to have one-night stands have the following possible factors:

1. Married men or men who have had sexual experience for at least half a year, men who have sufficient sexual desire and understand sex.

2. Men who have the opportunity to frequent entertainment venues or hang out online.

3. A man who wins by his appearance.

4. Men who are generous and willing to spend money can easily attract women's attention.

5. A man who has good "eloquence", is good at sweet words, and knows how to make women happy.

6. A man who doesn’t mind the appearance and figure of his one-night stand partner and doesn’t need to be emotionally involved, just for sexual satisfaction.

The reason why a woman falls into a one-night stand

1. Desire for sexual desire

With the opening of ideas, many women express their desires more directly. They look for one-night stands because of their naked sexual needs. They are often divorced and their husbands are not around for a long time. In fact, women, like men, have physical needs for sex, so they are eager to satisfy their physiological needs through one-night stands.

2. Curiosity about sex

Since the Internet is now filled with a lot of sexual knowledge, it often tempts young children, making their budding minds very curious about sex. Coupled with the many enthusiastic perverts on the Internet, these little sisters It is easy to slip into the mouths of perverts and become the victim of a one-night stand. Because the Internet brings people of different ages together, children's unwillingness to admit their naivety often becomes a fatal flaw. After the loss, maybe she still didn't understand what happened. Because they are at a rebellious age, they always have a fearless mentality to pursue excitement and fun, but they bring injuries to themselves.

3. Momentary anger

This kind of girl is often more lively and has a hot temper. Often after a quarrel with her boyfriend, she deliberately uses a one-night stand to calm down her mood. In fact, they just want to vent, just like children. What they think in their hearts is that my boyfriend doesn't care about me anyway, so I want to deliberately anger him. In fact, she just wants to find someone to care about her, so it is often easy to have a one-night stand with a boy who can comfort her to find that loss. But often after a one-night stand, when the mood calms down, one begins to regret what one has done. >>>Six ways women long for a one-night stand

4. Lonely heart

When there is no one to accompany you during the long night, the psychological loneliness is often the reason why a single woman has a one-night stand. In fact, the need for sex is not great, I just want to find someone to accompany me and spend a long night with me. One-night stand is a way to fill the yearning for warmth and the fear of loneliness. These girls are generally open-minded, advanced-thinking, and full of desire for romantic feelings.

5. Emotional trauma

This kind of girl is most likely to be abandoned by her boyfriend, and this boyfriend is often their first man, the first man they think they can trust for life. So after breaking up with them, I suffered great psychological damage and no longer believed in love, so I began to deliberately indulge myself and use one-night stands to make up for the wounds in my heart. Due to the disappointment in love and the hatred of one's own indulgence, this complicated emotion will lead to the psychological belief that one is a bad girl, and the more indulgent one is, so one-night stands are frequent. In fact, this is just a kind of emotional catharsis. They use extreme feelings to release the gloom in their hearts. At this time, the one-night stand is just a disguised form of self-abuse for them, like a wounded beast, but they keep tearing open their own wounds. , making the wound continue to bleed.

The above are the five reasons why women indulge in one-night stands. Do you understand them? What needs to be reminded is that women who want to get married must not have the absurd mentality of one-night stand, otherwise it will damage the marriage and it will be worthless.