The "One Meter Principle" is the powerful secret recipe for smart women to capture men's hearts

Those "rebellious" family relationships

Licensing company employees to be 23 years old

When I was seventeen, my parents and I became enemies overnight, all because of that man named Heng. He was a famous gangster in our neighborhood, from whom I found safety and protection, fascinated by his manliness.

I seemed to be bewitched and refused to listen to any of my parents’ persuasion. I stubbornly believed that they wanted to ruin my love. Later, my parents even went to school to suspend my studies for me, locked me at home, and took turns watching me. My heart was filled with hatred for them, and I even wondered whether they were my biological parents. Hunger strikes, scolding. When I desperately found that all my actions were ineffective, I wrote a threatening letter to sever ties. Once, while my mother was bringing me food, I attacked my mother with a wooden stick.

The parents finally gave up. When I left home, I told them that they had cut off all hope and knowledge of family ties in me and that I would never live with them again. I'm with Heng. Occasionally, when someone asked me about my parents, I said coldly, "They are dead!" But Heng was not something I could control. He flirts with women everywhere, and if I have the slightest objection, he will beat me up. What's even worse is that he has enmity with others and actually wants to sacrifice me to settle this matter.

I ran away from him, but was too embarrassed to go home. I wandered alone to a strange city, having the same nightmare almost every night. Now I finally have a foothold in this city, but every time night falls, I feel regretful in my heart, regretting the conflict and resistance I had with my parents.

Whether we are parents or children, the gap in experience and experience means that we are not at the same height. But when we have different opinions, we often reject our parents impatiently, and even stubbornly believe that they are harming us. Maybe we only realize how much our parents love us when things go away.

It took three years after we broke up to see his good side

Accountant Shu Ya

When I met Ye Lin at a friend’s wedding, he was still the same. Helping friends inside and outside. When he saw me, he felt awkward for a moment and ran over to me and asked me why I didn't tell him that I was getting married. I laughed, didn’t you tell me when you got married? I smiled and asked him, why, do you want to be the master of ceremonies? He also laughed and said, what’s wrong with that?

We broke up three years ago Now and then, I think of Ye Lin. Those things that once made us turn upside down can now be appreciated from afar with an interesting mood. Ye Lin has many friends, and he always helps people sincerely if they ask him for help. I had quarreled with him countless times over this matter. I felt that he didn't pay enough attention to me, and he was not as good to me as he was to the janitor in the unit. Ye Lin said I was being unreasonable.

Once he made an appointment to watch a movie, but he waited until the movie ended before he received a call saying that a friend had acute appendicitis and was admitted to the hospital. I didn't say anything, but I gave Ye Lin a big cross in my heart. I asked Ye Lin, if your friend and I got seriously ill at the same time and had to be hospitalized, who would you help? He ignored me and continued to repair his friend's computer with his head down. I think the answer is so obvious, it's definitely not me!

Later, I finally couldn't bear his heroic character and broke up with him. On the day of the breakup, Ye Lin drank a lot. He said: Shuya, can you really not see how good I am to you?

I heard that when Ye Lin got married, he had many friends, all of whom were Ye Lin’s best buddies. . It is said that Ye Lin's wife is also a hospitable person, and the family often has a feast...

At the wedding banquet, Ye Lin was still happily busy with his friends, and his wife was also helping. Looking at the happy smile on his wife's face, my heart is full of appreciation. A man like Ye Lin is very warm-hearted and treats others like this, and he must have nothing to say to his family! It took three years after we broke up to see how good he is. I feel a little sour in my heart.

No matter what, bless them both.

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These women live happily because they have mastered the one-meter principle!

Wonderful blueprint of the one-meter-long woman:

CASE1 One meter away, the beautiful distance

Jianli Private Enterprise Manager

If you want me To describe my state - that is very busy.

Family, company, almost everything is waiting for me to correct, handle and solve. Friends and employees joke that I have to do everything by hand, but I don’t take it seriously. Many times, if I don’t intervene, things may fail because of a small detail.

When I came back from working overtime last Sunday, my son made a mess at home. He is lively by nature and even a little hyperactive. The newly bought vacuum cleaner was dismantled by him, and the carpet was stained with something unknown. It was purple and black and was unbearable.

Just when I was about to teach him a lesson, I received a call from the company, saying that the contract was ready and they were going to sign with the customer. When I put down the phone, I remembered that during the review a few days ago, there was a loophole in the contract that was not conducive to the company. It seemed that the goods were delivered by ourselves. In this way, we would lose a transportation fee, and I don’t know if my subordinates have modified it.

In my anxiety, I sprained my foot when I was going downstairs. It immediately became red and swollen. It seemed that I had injured a bone, and I couldn't move at all. I desperately called the driver to pick me up, but when the driver arrived, he stubbornly insisted on taking me to the hospital first.

While taking medicine in the hospital, I felt uneasy and worried about the contract. When the phone rang, I picked it up nervously and asked if the mistake had been corrected. The subordinate in charge of signing the contract said that the flaw was discovered but not corrected. Just when I was about to get angry, my subordinate explained that he ordered an extra batch of products because the other party said we would deliver the goods. I put down the phone and calculated the profits. We were 30% higher than planned. I finally let go of my worries. When I returned home, my son had installed and restored the vacuum cleaner, and it was still working smoothly.

You can rest assured that you can rest at home, your feet are almost in good condition, and you can still do some housework here and there. But the vacuum cleaner worked fine yesterday, but it broke down today. Before calling the maintenance man, my son, who came back from school, deftly disassembled the vacuum cleaner and found the problem in front of my surprised eyes. He said proudly, Mom, look, I am a man.

Looking at his proud smile, I suddenly had some insights. In the past, I was busy because I always felt that there was something about everything that made me worried. Everything was too close and I needed to catch it myself. The line of sight is so short that you can only see parts or defects, but often, if you really look further and the line of sight is long enough to see everything, you will discover the beauty that you could not see before.

Mediocre people bother themselves. The so-called mediocre people must be those who always stick to their eyes without leaving any distance.

Appreciate your husband, be less demanding and blameful, and be more tolerant and understanding. Maybe this is the reason why my marriage is almost seven years old and there is still no pain or itch.

The one-meter noodle in the bedroom: Appreciate his advantages with open eyes, and ignore his shortcomings with closed eyes.

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This is how a one-meter noodle woman is made:

Four principles create a one-meter noodle woman

One meter noodle A woman will not feel the embarrassment of being at a distance, nor will she feel the insecurity of being far away. Only when you stand in the most appropriate position can you live the happiest temperament.

Look at him with one eye

In mythology, there is a Qilin beast that can only judge cases. It relies on the third eye on its forehead to judge good and evil and know right and wrong. Your husband is not a suspect. Please, there is no need for you to be like the three-eyed unicorn who always opens his eyes at the slightest sign of trouble. Every day, when my husband comes home, instead of hugging him, he is asked to take a shower in the bathroom so that he can check his personal belongings. Are you tired of keeping your eyes open every night?

Applicable place: your emotional life

Happiness creation: The eyes are just the windows of the soul, and it is your heart that truly sees things clearly. It is enough to keep one eye on guard, and let the other eye skip classes and appreciate the other beauties in life.

Know how to quit

"If two people are too familiar, they will be embarrassed to play together anymore, and it is time to break up." This is a sentence in the movie "Lan Yu" . Regardless of life or relationships, even if you accidentally intrude within the one-meter line, don't choose to stay and pry into the essence out of curiosity. Your circle, no matter how solid it is, is not suitable for intimate conversations. Sometimes, although you need to exchange secrets with each other to continue the friendship, it does not mean that you need to know everything endlessly.

Applicable place: your circle

Building happiness: Cats have nine lives, but curiosity usually kills them. In a circle, a person's excessive curiosity will accelerate the acquisition of friendship, and at the same time, it will also accelerate the decomposition of friendship. Knowing how to exit at the right time or stand in the most appropriate position is the key.

Don't hold the magnifying glass

In Saigon, Vietnam, Duras's lover said to her: "I love your weathered face." This is the highest thing a man can say to a woman. praise. If men can accept your imperfections, why can't you accept yourself?

Applicable place: When facing yourself

Happiness creation: Women are pickier about themselves than anyone else. You can consider yourself a queen, but most of the time you have to accept the harshness of age on appearance and the paralysis of the heart by life. Accepting your own imperfections is more difficult, but also more fulfilling, than accepting the imperfections of others.

QQ when appropriate

A data survey shows that modern people are becoming less and less satisfied with their jobs. It seems that comparison is inevitable in this era. Have you ever thought that if you are not as good as the top, you are at least more than the bottom? Of course we need to compete, but it is not life-threatening. We want to see that you are doing a good job, and when appropriate, you are not as good as you. Q point——Ah Q point.

Applicable place: your work future

Happiness creation: The job you are complaining about is the ultimate yearning in the eyes of many people. It is not that their pursuit is not high, but that they What you see is the joy of your work, but when you stand in front of this job, all you see is disgust. Ah Q’s spirit is to lower the requirements for work and be comfortable if you can.

There are two worlds inside and outside the one-meter line!

How long is a meter? Some people say it is the length of two arms, while others say it is the distance of one big step under your feet. No, one meter is not just that simple, it is sometimes the distance between two worlds. In one world, there are too many impulses, bigotry, complaints and dissatisfaction, while in the other world there are too many

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