With the continuous improvement of social openness, "old husband and young wife" or "old wife and young husband" are becoming more and more common. Although love has no age limit, sex sometimes encounters difficulties due to the huge age difference. Generally speaking, if the age difference between the two parties is more than 15 years, sexual disharmony may occur. Therefore, "young and old" couples should master some knowledge and skills in sexual life, so as to eliminate misunderstandings and fully enjoy the benefits of sexual intercourse.

How to achieve harmony in the married life of an old husband and young wife

Couples with age disparities may face two major difficulties. First, there is a big difference in sexual desire. The younger party generally has stronger sexual desire, requires more frequency and intensity of sexual life, and is more likely to enter the state as early as possible during sexual life. The older partner may have less strong sexual needs due to reduced sex hormones and cannot satisfy the other partner's needs every time. At the same time, the older partner is slower to enter the state and the reaction is not so fast. Second, during sex, the older partner's heart rate is likely to rise rapidly, which leads to sympathetic nerve excitement, vasoconstriction and blood pressure increase, which is harmful to health. In extreme cases, blood vessels may even rupture, leading to sudden death.

In response to the above problems, first of all, couples with a huge age gap should increase foreplay time and stimulation, care more, and communicate more. This can increase the interest between the couple on the one hand, and help the older partner enter the role as soon as possible on the other hand. If the man is older, caressing, kissing, etc. can help the erection become more complete and reach a certain hardness. If the woman is older, foreplay can help improve vaginal dryness and increase lubrication.

Secondly, choose the appropriate posture. If the man is older, the woman can be on top, which can reduce the man's excessive physical exertion. If the woman is older, it is recommended to use the side-lying position to increase the woman’s pleasure.

In addition, don't place too much emphasis on physical satisfaction during sex. Husband and wife should have more sexual and psychological communication and whisper affectionate words to obtain psychological satisfaction.

Finally, before having sex, if the older partner has underlying diseases, such as high blood pressure, he or she should control the underlying conditions before having sex, and avoid being too excited and tired during sex.

It is worth reminding that although sexual activity is largely affected by age, age is not the only condition for sexual harmony. As long as the sexual psychology and physiological characteristics between husband and wife are mastered and they cooperate closely, sexual problems may not necessarily occur even if there is a huge age gap. Disharmonious. At the same time, whether the sexual life is satisfactory or not is also closely related to the relationship between husband and wife.

7 benefits of falling in love with an "uncle"

Old men have their own advantages

1. Maturity

Many people will be full of disdain when they mention uncles. What does the old man have, except a few more silvers to compare with us younger generations? Everyone will grow old one day. Except for a few people who are favored by the gods or have bizarre fates who can stay young and live forever, no one can escape the play of time.

If young men have youth that can be squandered as much as they want, then uncles have the charm that they have gained through countless years of experience. The aura of mature men cannot be compared with that of young boys. This kind of atmosphere can only be achieved by time. The temperament brewed can only be understood but not expressed in words.

2. Calm

Although age has no absolute bearing on a person's mental maturity, after all, adults have experiences that young people have never had. After experiencing too many ups and downs, they are no longer the young and inexperienced teenagers they once were. There was still no sign of panic at the moment before the world was destroyed. Many times, men are even more important to women. I believe that few women want to see the men around them disappear when they are in danger.

3. Wealth

This may be the most disdainful reason and the most disgusting reason, but life is like this and reality is like this. Compared with those young people who are still in school or have just left campus, the biggest thing for uncles outside of experience and relationships is that they have accumulated objective social wealth, which is quite attractive to modern girls. , you must know that life is short, and enjoying yourself in time has become the consensus of many young people nowadays.

Old men treat young women well

1. Men can make you grow quickly

The old man has rich life experience. He can discover and guide your emotional changes in detail. He can also teach you some tips on how to deal with workplace wars and give you pertinent advice on life.

2. Men know how to pamper you better

Old men have experienced many women before you and have many abilities and skills in handling relationships between the sexes. They understand women better than those young boys, so they know better how to pamper and tolerate you.

3. Men can give you a generous material life

With an old man, you don't have to worry about a house or a car.

They usually have successful careers and have considerable financial ability to realize the romance that women want.

4. Men give you a full sense of security

Old men like stability, know clearly what they want, and have a greater sense of responsibility. They can give you a stable relationship and marriage and make you feel safe at all times.