The competition in today's society has kept the office in turmoil; therefore, team spirit in the office is very important. A team is very close, but if you are not positioned correctly or have ulterior motives, it is very common for men and women to have affairs in the office. A social survey conducted by the British in the 1980s showed that 28% of office women had had an affair in the office; half of them said they had no regrets about it.

At the same time, a British women's website interviewed 2,000 professional women aged between 18 and 35. As a result, many interviewees said they had flirted with male colleagues in the office. Some people also believe that office flirting is not only good for the body and mind; it can also increase work confidence. Twenty percent of the respondents said that they would not mind "selling their sex" to their boss as long as they could get promoted.

The specific working environment of the office and the individual's ability to cope with work pressure provide greater convenience for the interactions between men and women working in the same space. While work brings men and women closer together, it also brings them closer to each other. There is a considerable correlation between work and extramarital affairs. The office is the place where extramarital affairs are most likely to occur; it is also the place where extramarital affairs are most common.

The middle-aged man in the office is young, powerful, has status and strength; he is also the most attractive. But it is young women who are often under the most stress in the office. As a result, it helps young women relieve their stress; it is also the beginning of close contact between men and women. What was originally a working relationship was caring and protecting, but it made female colleagues or female subordinates like each other. As the exchange deepened, the two parties soon reached the point where they could talk about everything. At this time, as long as the man indulges himself, the emotional "gap" between the two parties will quickly break through; close physical contact is a natural thing.

Westerners have always been casual about the relationship between the sexes, which is reflected in not caring about the sexual behavior of the other party; but the Chinese care about this very much, and at the same time, because of the closed abstinence, some people also indulged; so in the past Many of the erotic stories performed in the office in recent years are about toying with women. Of course, long-term contact; there are also some middle-aged men and young girls or young women who have become the protagonists of love in the office.

Some people think that mixing work and love is a modern fashion. In fact, from the Chinese point of view, this is the beginning of a tragedy. Because the Chinese family is a responsibility, but office romance is an illusory romance. The office is the place where you can most often encounter and come into contact with the opposite sex, but here it is only an ideal place for romantic like-minded people. Therefore, some corrupt officials in China concluded: the red flag does not fall down at home, but the red flag flutters outside; from the beginning, they only had the purpose of playing.

Chinese culture and concepts determine the fruitlessness of office romances; therefore, once a story breaks out in the office, it is tantamount to starting a jealousy. Mixing work and personal affairs will not only affect the normal relationship between superiors, subordinates or peers; it will also put work into an embarrassing situation. In order to prevent office stories from getting worse and to prevent inappropriate relationships between men and women from affecting the normal operation and efficiency of the company, quite a few international organizations have explicitly stipulated that male and female employees are prohibited from falling in love in the company. Some organizations have also introduced emotional avoidance policies—that is, if two employees from the same department or work group are involved in an office romance, they need to report it to management so that one of them can be reassigned.

American psychologist and marriage expert Shirley Glass said: “Office lovers are often not intentional, and long-term work contact will cause you to fall deeply in love before you realize it. "When men and women work side by side, it is easy to become attracted to each other, especially if you find that one of your colleagues is attractive, then you should be more careful." This refers to Western culture, but in the concept of Chinese culture; apart from ulterior motives, many times it is young women's love that rises out of gratitude; if the man's will is not strong or there are rifts in the family itself, this is a single relationship. The emotion of love is the easiest to gain consensus from both parties.

Chinese culture and Chinese family concepts determine the tragedy of office romance; therefore, in team competition in modern offices, feelings must not be regarded as love; once office love is formed, it will be the biggest problem in your life. An abyss awaits or greets you; there are feelings in the office, but there cannot be love in the office.

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