Many men and women who have cheated have less interest in the other spouse or even become bored and disgusted, which affects the quality of life of the couple. If the opportunity is ripe, substantial cheating will be a matter of course. Therefore, we must focus on prevention. If there are signs of mental infidelity, we must take targeted measures to nip it in the bud.

Mental infidelity between men and women generally has the following symptoms:

First, they often find excuses not to go home, and would rather be alone at home

There is a phenomenon of mental infidelity among couples. The other party will find it boring to go home and often find excuses not to go home. Even if they go home, they would rather be alone. If the other party is used to watching TV after dinner, then he or she will play on the computer or find an excuse to do other things. Even if they are idle and bored, they don't want to have fun with each other. When some couples encounter this situation, they think that the dullness of marriage is inevitable. In fact, this dullness hides deep crises.

The second is to be inexplicably bored and reject others from thousands of miles away.

The person who has mentally cheated will have an object of affection in his or her heart, and his (her) attention When your energy is often focused on other people, you may feel that married life is boring or uninteresting, and you may feel that your current partner is just burdensome and redundant. Therefore, when the other party asks about something, or the other party wants to take the initiative to be intimate, they are often rejected.

Third, making love has become a routine, and people rely on imaginary objects to entertain them.

One party who has cheated on his wife often has no interest in sexual intercourse between the couple. Sometimes, in order to cope with the other person, the person imagined during sex is actually the person in his mind.

The fourth is to compare the other person with others and think that the other person is not good at everything.

In marriage, if you think that the other person is not good at everything, you will even blame the other person for the smallest things and deliberately find fault. Even if the other person behaves deliberately, it will always fail to meet his (her) expectations. He or she will always compare the other person with others, overtly or covertly. The more you compare, the less interesting it becomes.

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The fifth one is unwilling to accommodate the other party, and will ignore it when provoked.

Very unwilling to accommodate the other party, once provoked In a hurry, even if the other person is so aggrieved that he or she cries, he or she is too lazy to make do with it. Instead, he or she will leave the other person aside and go about his or her own business or go find some entertainment. In daily life, the attitude is lukewarm and lukewarm, and it is rare for someone to take the initiative to get intimate with the other person. After a quarrel, it is easy to fall into a long cold war.

Sixth, you can’t remember each other’s birthday, and giving gifts is just perfunctory.

If one spouse has cheated, even if they want to maintain the enthusiasm for the marriage, it is impossible to do so. Therefore, I often forget the birthday of the other party. Even if I remember, I will not carefully choose the gift, and even if I give it, it will only be perfunctory.

7. Appear indifference to the other person’s emotional reaction

The person who has cheated on his/her mind seems to have nothing to do with the other person’s emotional reaction. You are happy but he (she) is not happy. You are sad that he or she is indifferent.

Eighth, there are often little secrets in the heart and they are unwilling to share them with the other party.

The person who has cheated will often hide some personal matters in his heart and is unwilling to share them with the other party. One party shares. They are accustomed to opening such a private space in their hearts, and would rather store their thoughts to ferment than reveal them to their significant other.

Ninth, treat the other person’s relatives and friends indifferently, and sometimes want to hide away

Substantial cheating may be just for sex, while spiritual cheating is more likely to be spiritual empathy . Therefore, in real life, the other half of the marriage no longer regards the other half as the closest person. Of course, the other half wants to keep a distance from the other person's relatives and friends, and even has no enthusiasm or mood, and wants to avoid them as much as possible. .

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