"Mom, you don't understand..." This is the most common thing a young daughter-in-law says when dealing with housework or taking care of children. But, do you want to avoid a war? Then stop it quickly, because this kind of talk is the most hurtful to the old man, although she may not understand it. She does not know how to use modern home appliances, she has never heard of modern parenting methods, and she cannot understand the sophistication of people in modern society. However, all this does not mean that she is incompetent or knowledgeable, nor does it affect her ability to have her own son. and grandchildren. But your "you don't understand" completely excluded her from the whole incident. It was no less than telling her plainly: "Don't get involved if you don't know anything." So you might as well change it to "Mom, please Tell me..."

"My son (my daughter)..." Many mothers who love their babies often involuntarily say in front of their mother-in-law, "How is my son?" "How is my baby?" , the mother here screamed sweetly, but the mother-in-law over there would be very disapproving after hearing it, "What is my son, my son's, the baby is still the eldest grandson of my Lao Li family..." This kind of type has a strong sense of belonging. There is nothing wrong with calling "my son" in a sensitive way, but it can easily make the mother-in-law feel a sense of crisis, as if the child has nothing to do with the grandparents' house, and as if the grandson she has cared for for so long has become a child. In the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, it is this kind of words with strong referential scope that can cause war. So you might as well change the name to "your grandson (your granddaughter)..."

"Your mother..." Compared with your own mother who is infinitely tolerant, can you act like a spoiled child in front of your mother-in-law? If you make a mistake, can your mother-in-law say "That's really cool" "A silly child"? No, so for most daughters-in-law, it is almost impossible to regard their mother-in-law as their biological mother. When talking about mother-in-law to their husbands, "what is your mother?" has become a spoken word. However, the thing is so strange. Although your mother-in-law does not treat you as her own daughter, she is still a little unhappy when she hears you calling her "your mother" behind her back. After all, this "your mother" has actually stated your attitude towards her - "This is your mother, not my mother. Don't expect me to treat her as my own mother." Therefore, if you don’t want to see your mother-in-law’s displeased expression for no reason, and if you want to distinguish your mother-in-law from your biological mother, you might as well call her “Mom” more often in front of others and behind her.

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