Historically, the second-class smart women who play men to death include Cixi and Wu Zetian. Third-class stupid women were played to death by men. Countless people have done so throughout the ages, and the representative figure is Du Shiniang. What is even more tragic is that fourth-class stupid women are played to death without even touching a man. Guan Panpan, who was forced to death by Bai Juyi, falls into this category.

But no matter what, these women combined are only a fraction of the intelligence of first-class women. In this world, only first-class women can achieve the dreams of all women and stay with their beloved forever. .

These women will not leave their names in history. They are smart and ordinary, and they are good at hiding behind men. They have no tricks and no tricks, but their husbands are always by their side and never take a step beyond.

If you think that true love will be like this, then you are wrong. No kind of love can maintain quality and quantity without hard work. The smart thing about first-class women is that they put all their efforts into the early stage of marriage - choosing a man.

Many girls do not know the importance of choosing a man. They think it is rare to meet a man who has feelings for him, so of course it is important to get married as soon as possible. But they forget that relationships and marriage are completely different things.

In a sense, love is actually a masochistic process, so when you are in love, you can get hurt no matter how you feel. But marriage is a process of enjoyment and maintenance, and choices must be made rationally to avoid injury as much as possible.

The meaning of this sentence is that you can fall in love with anyone, whether you have feelings or not. Whoever you fall in love with will make you enjoy happiness and abuse. But you can only choose one person to marry, so marriage is not necessarily based on love. Why more and more women's marriages fail is because they always think that marriage is the continuation of love.

In fact, marriage is a community of survival. Since the beginning of mankind, marriage has existed to enable people to survive better. Therefore, when considering marrying someone, the first factor to consider is whether the other person can make your life better and more comfortable.

However, this choice is definitely not promoting money worship. Material things are not the main requirement for a happy marriage. The first condition for choosing a man should be control and counter-control.

In the lives of two people, there are hidden controllers and controlled ones. If both people want to be the controller, this kind of marriage will not be stable enough. If both people are willing to be controlled, this kind of life will lack the motivation to move forward.

So before choosing a man, you must first figure out whether you want to control a man, or whether you are willing to be controlled by a man. Understand this, and you will know what kind of character and family background you should choose.

Secondly, it depends on whether the other party has enough ability to make his life better, that is, financial resources and the ability to make money.

The final choice is whether you can allow yourself to "call," that is, sexual attraction between opposite sexes.

After making these three choices, you can make a table to list all the candidates, and then use the elimination principle to eliminate them one by one, such as those who are bald, those who are too old, those with large geographical differences, and those with families. Those with a big gap, those with unpleasant voices, those with too much knowledge, those with no ability to take care of themselves...

All conditions can be adopted one by one until the last person is left.

The last point is particularly important. The man you like may not necessarily stay by your side. Only the man who likes you will stay with you for the rest of your life. This is the paradox of marriage and relationships.

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