Sometimes, I feel that many women in marriage are really pitiful: they take care of their husbands and raise children, are loyal to their families, work and live diligently, do laundry, cooking, and housework. Taking care of everything, working hard for family and work, making one's hair unkempt

and looking gray. Originally, a family is made up of two people, and a child is born between two people. The two should share the responsibility of raising children and handle all the family affairs together. The man should be made aware of the trivialities of the family and the hardships of raising children, so that Men know the hard work of building a home.

Unfortunately, many women always think of themselves as too important. They don’t let their husbands buy groceries for fear that they will be ripped off by the vegetable vendors. They don’t let their husbands cook because they worry that the food they cook will not suit their taste. They think that their husbands are careless. She didn't agree with him taking care of the children, so she took care of everything by herself. Even when a friend invites you out for a meal, he still hesitates and says: "I won't cook at home? What will he eat when he comes back? I don't think I'm going..." I'm really surprised, before that man married you, what did he say? I haven’t starved to death in more than 20 years. Why do people have nothing to eat today without you cooking?

Have you ever seen road construction? Every short distance, a gap must be left. This is due to thermal expansion and contraction. When the road without gaps is heated, it will expand, the cement will protrude, and the road surface will be damaged. In fact, marriage is even more like this. If you keep waiting for marriage every day and don't create any distance between you and him, it is like building the road without leaving any gap. Not only will he take your hard work as a matter of course, but he will also feel that your love is too stuffy, so he will Get some air!

In marriage, I do not deny that it is wrong for women to selflessly devote themselves to love. The question is, does a man know your dedication? Are you moved by your love? You dedicate your youth and labor wholeheartedly to your family. He has become accustomed to it and can no longer feel it. You are at home every night waiting for him to come back. How can he know the loneliness of waiting for someone? How do you know how hard it is to run a home? How do you know how hard it is to educate children? So, leave appropriately, let yourself reduce the pressure, and let the man know that without you, a yellow-faced woman, how much can his beauty help his life?

Taking a step back, wouldn’t your man be able to survive without you? Will you be single? There are many examples around us. An 84-year-old white-headed man is accompanied by a 28-year-old beauty. What’s more, your man is not that old at all? So, if you hope that a man will love you, why not love yourself yourself? You should try your best to spend the money you should, whether it’s buying fashion, traveling, or dressing up. The time that should be played needs to be spent even more. There are so many beauty salons, cafes, and teahouses. If you spend a hundred or dozens of yuan, don't you just steal half a day's leisure?

Women, don’t think of yourself as so important. If you love yourself, you will not let yourself down.

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