“It takes ten good impressions to make up for a bad impression.” However, in sexual life, it is often difficult to have a chance to make up for some inappropriate sexual behaviors. Some wrong sexual behaviors are likely to affect sexual harmony, cause sexual frigidity, and even ruin a good marriage.

Never do these things during sex:

1. Agree to do something you feel uncomfortable with. Trying new ways to have sex can really bring freshness and excitement. However, when your partner proposes some practices that you do not accept in your heart or that make you feel physically uncomfortable, do not accept it reluctantly. The survey shows that when one party reluctantly accepts certain sexual methods (such as using sex toys), it is likely to cause sexual shadow and then produce sexual disgust. Of course, don't reject your partner's suggestion directly. You can tell him or her that you need time to try whether this method is suitable for you.

2. Frequently fake orgasms. Many women will pretend to orgasm during sex, thinking that this is a "white lie" to their lover. But pretending to climax will cause psychological frustration for both parties, and the orgasm rate will be even lower in the future. It is recommended that when a woman is about to climax, she should give her partner some hints, such as "I'm almost here", "I'm coming", etc. Some couples will have tacit body language cues before climax, such as habitually biting their ears.

3. Only focus on the other person’s genitals. Putting all your attention on the sexual organs will not only make it more difficult to arouse the other person's desire, but will also cause discomfort in the body. Don’t ignore the back, inner thighs, chest, neck and other places during sex. These are highly sensitive areas for both men and women.

4. Answer the phone or send text messages. There's nothing worse than being interrupted in the middle of a makeout session. Stopping suddenly during sex to answer a phone call or reply to an email can make your partner feel neglected, and your sexual desire may disappear immediately. Therefore, if you want to enjoy sex, it is recommended to mute or turn off your phone.

5. Don’t make any sound. A French survey found that a partner's silence during sex is the most unacceptable behavior for men. During sex, everyone wants to confirm whether their partner is enjoying it. Sound is the best expression signal. It is recommended not to hold back during sex, but to make a sound. Whether it is a low moan or a simple compliment, it is perfect sex. The "catalyst" of life is a great encouragement to your partner.

6. Just focus on how to reach orgasm. If you're always thinking about when you're going to climax, it's hard to focus on the moment and enjoy the process. Don't insist on having an orgasm, try to enjoy every moment and you'll find more pleasure and have an easier time climaxing.

7. Talk too much. Bed is a good place to communicate, but don't talk too much. Talking too much and talking too much will affect your sexual desire; trying to have a rational conversation during sex will also make you lose your sexual desire. You can use actions instead of words, or say some exciting words of love in your lover's ear.

Traditional Chinese medicine acupoint massage can help improve the quality of life of couples

1. Massage the Jianjing point - improve sexual desire

The Jianjing point is located on the shoulder, just at the midpoint of the line connecting the Dazhui point and the acromion.

Massage technique: Use the index finger, middle finger, and ring finger of your right hand to massage the Jianjing point on your left shoulder. Press hard for 5 seconds and then slowly release it. Repeat 10 times and then switch to your left hand.

Efficacy: Jianjing is an acupoint on the Yangwei pulse, which is closely related to the contraction of the uterus and has the function of increasing sexual desire.

The best way to massage the Jianjing point is to massage while bathing. Because in order to increase sexual desire, you must first increase your body temperature. Many women in life have symptoms of cold sensitivity. If the body is cold, the blood flow to the sexual organs will slow down, making it difficult for the body to arouse sexual desire.

2. Massage Shenshu point - improve sexual endurance

Shenshu point: on the waist of the human body.

Massage technique: press the Shenshu point with the thumbs of both hands. The remaining fingers wrap around the waist. After pressing hard for 5 seconds, slowly reduce the pressure; press again after 5 seconds and repeat the massage 20 times.

Efficacy: Massaging Shenshu point can promote the secretion of human sex hormones, improve sexual function, especially prolong sexual life, and is effective for premature ejaculation and low back pain after intercourse caused by insufficient kidney qi.

3. Massage Dahe point - enhance the vitality of sexual organs

Dahe point is located in the lower abdomen of the human body, 4 inches below the navel and 0.5 inches from the front midline.

Massage technique: Massage the Dahe points on both sides with the index, middle and ring fingers of both hands for 1 minute.

Efficacy: Massaging the Dahe point can promote the blood flow of the reproductive organs, enhance the vitality of the sexual organs, and make it easier for couples to obtain pleasure during sexual life. It also has certain therapeutic effects on cystitis, urethritis, impotence, and premature ejaculation.