People still have a strong interest in "Snail House" because it is very realistic and very life-like. There is a scene where Haiping feeds Su Chun noodles every day in order to save money to buy a house. Su Chun finally couldn't stand it anymore. He said that I strongly asked not to eat noodles anymore and I wanted to eat instant noodles. Haiping laughed when she heard this, and the audience's hearts were broken. It was inevitable that they would think of the poor and humble couple suffering from everything. The economy has been in crisis for the past two years, and it is said that it will rebound. However, wages have not increased, and housing prices are still rising. Many couples born in the 1980s who are still hormonal are happily enduring the lack of a fixed place, and they still show off their sweetness and home, and at the same time, they Poverty. A while ago, a set of photos of "a poor family, simple happiness" were widely circulated on the Internet. In a crowded and dilapidated rental house, the two had already celebrated their first wedding anniversary. Netizens posted their blessings one after another, hoping that the young couple would love each other until old age. Although more people did not follow the post, their hearts were still moved. Love is a luxury, and it applies to everyone the same. Even if you live in a villa and open a Cayenne, you may not have the romantic feelings of a young couple.

I have a girlfriend who has stayed in Beijing for ten years since she graduated. She has been living in a rented house. From Xizhimen to Chaoyang Park, to the Asian Games Village and Shifoying, every house has It tells her love story and records her emotional experience. She always said that she believed in love, that she was happy enough if she had love, and she had the urge to get married naked more than once. Eight years ago, she named her first boyfriend "Black Lacquer Bench", which is a homonym for "husband" in English. They started living in a one-bedroom rental house in Xizhimen. They used their money together and did not distinguish between each other. They were a typical small family with brother and sister pioneering wasteland. Although life is sweet, you never know when your landlord will call and you will have to pack your clothes and find another place. She still remembers the scene of the two of them living on the street. "Bench" first entrusted her and some daily necessities to a female friend, and then dragged a large box to the train station to spend the night. That night of separation was the longest night in their lives. . Her affection for the "Bench" is extraordinary, and his shadow often flashes in her articles to this day. However, her belief in love and her expectation for a naked marriage did not bring her a happy ending. The lack of material did not affect them, but the intervention of other girls prevented their naked marriage. After the incident, the "bench" asked her for forgiveness. , but everything is irreversible. In her opinion, "naked marriage" is a test of a woman's love, while temptation is a test of a man's love. Obviously he failed the test, and she had no choice but to withdraw her love.

So naked marriage can be very happy, just like the young couples born in the 1980s on the Internet. Girls who have been impulsive and ultimately disappointed will naturally think of the security that a house can bring. Maybe that sentence is right. A woman gets married when she has a family. Even if her love is gone, she still has room for her body. "Naked marriage" is just a form. It cannot represent love or happiness. It is more like a kind of helplessness. However, there is still love and happiness after naked marriage, and it really deserves everyone's blessing.

Conflict of views

View 1: Having no material security is the most unacceptable thing for a woman. Women will age and lose their beauty sooner or later, and love always has an expiration date. I think Xiaobei in "Snail House", as a man, cannot give Haizao happiness. This kind of man is the scum of society. Even if Haizao reluctantly stays with him, he will not be happy. Such people will sooner or later be eliminated in such social competition. He was eliminated, so he deserved to be cuckolded. So I say that Xiaobei is the most shameless, selfish, and unforgivable person, because he has wrongly positioned himself. A man without strength is not worthy of having beautiful seaweed.

Viewpoint 2: Naked marriage, I think it’s pretty good, although it’s a cruel experience and sounds more romantic. When a person is the loneliest, with empty hands and nothing, it is so romantic to have another person accompany him and walk towards the new world of tomorrow. Therefore, I believe that naked marriage is the purest emotional carnival and the most innocent marriage story in the materialistic era. Because matter has been stripped away, all the other party's gravitational pull on you comes from you, not from the powerful matter around you. But the premise of what I am talking about is that those who voluntarily choose to marry naked, those who marry for the sake of marriage, and those who have to marry naked are not included in this category.

View 3. I think that more than 95% of women have the urge to get married naked at the beginning. The problem is that after several impulses, although gravity is coming to the man, But this man is really unreliable, haha, so the concept slowly changed, so you have to admit that naked marriage is actually a romantic courage that 95% of girls have. In the end, only 5% of them implemented it, maintaining the original Simple thoughts. Therefore, it can only be said to be a simple, simple marriage story in the material age.

View 4. It is said that 60% of men are in favor of naked marriage, while most women think it is absolutely unreliable. Most men think about their own pressure. If there is a girl who does not ask for a house and is willing to accompany her, then the strapped youth will be relatively calm and happy. Most women think about the future, which does not mean they are selfish. After all, women's good times are 10 years earlier than men's. And when considering the growth environment of future generations and other issues, naked marriage is even less optimistic.

The risks of naked marriage

Some people are more realistic, while others are more romantic.

Some people value money, status, quality of life and future security when getting married, while others disdain them all. Houses, cars, and savings will all tarnish the purity of love, with conditions and purposes. Marriage is not what they want.

I support the belief that love is supreme, but when it comes to life, there are many problems that cannot be solved by love.

For example, if a house is not taken into consideration in marriage, then the only option is to rent a house - it is impossible to be so romantic that the sky is your bed and the earth is your bed, right? Of course there is no problem with renting a house, but after all, a house is For others, you have no way to guarantee your residence period, one year? Two years? Or five years? If you are lucky, the owner has several apartments and rent them out for a long time, so you can temporarily maintain a stable living condition. If you are unlucky, If the owner suddenly takes over the house, you will have to find a new house. Everything that has been arranged will have to be dismantled and reinstalled. If you are unlucky, you may even move several times a year. No matter how romantic the mood is, it may not be possible. They will be exhausted in this back and forth of moving and disgraceful arrangements. I once had a couple of friends who rented a house and got married. They got pregnant a year after the marriage. Unexpectedly, the landlord suddenly took over the house, and she was eight months pregnant and faced the bad news of moving. I had no choice but to start over again with a pregnant belly. After painting, cleaning, and decorating everything, the pregnant woman burst into tears. Marriage without a house is indeed like a helpless guerrilla war. No one knows where the next battlefield will be.

Another example is deposits. When you are in love, you and I are in love, and we are full of love. But marriage is not like that at all. There is a large amount of fixed expenses to be arranged every month, such as water bills, electricity bills, gas, telephone, and Internet. Fees, firewood, rice, oil, salt, soy sauce, vinegar, tea, plus rent, it will cost thousands of yuan at any time. It cannot guarantee the additional monthly expenses - smoking and drinking, entertaining guests, buying clothes and shoes, weekend meals... life is like A huge mouth, only by constantly filling it can it achieve balance and stability. Don't underestimate material things. A marriage with material participation may not be happy, but a life without material participation must be unhappy.

All love will eventually extinguish and be replaced by the vigorous and trivial matters of life. Of course, I don’t mean that money and houses are so important. There are many couples who start from scratch and work together to create a stable life foundation for themselves after a few years. But the premise is that both of them have to work hard. Confidence and ability, firm trust in each other and tenacious confidence in the future are indispensable. Falling in love is risky, so you must be cautious when choosing marriage. It depends on what kind of life you will live. Maybe some people are born with detachment, just like Ge You in "See You or Separate", a broken car leather is enough Living happily is another outlook on life.

In short, it is up to you to decide what kind of life you want to live.

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