Have you ever felt in love with him? Do you think he is worthy of you now? Are you starting to hate her? These have become the reasons for contemporary divorce. In today's society, although many people are not divorced, they have thought about it to some extent. Divorce seems to have become a "popular trend". Of course, infidelity also comes from the same external cause. So, what are the reasons why men cheat or get divorced? You will know after reading this article.

1. I was too young when I got married and made a hasty choice

People in their early 20s lack experience and are more emotional than rational. Many people do not know what kind of spouse they need. The reasons for getting married are often relatively simple, either because the other person has a good family background, or looks good, or has a stable job, or the other person has a good impression of you, or the other person talks to make you happy, or even just because you have reached the age where you need to get married... Life After that, it is difficult for both parties to establish a relationship, and the seeds of divorce are sown as time goes by and they grow tired of each other. After middle age, they understand the type of opposite sex they want. After meeting each other, they often become particularly attracted to each other and want to live together.

2. Inducement of age

After all, when you are young, you have to work hard, get married, have children, work, and live in a house. You don’t have to worry about anything. The couple is busy working hard. Instead of having time and space for romance, they have a lot of talk and they have accumulated a lot of love for each other. Dissatisfaction and resentment are temporarily suppressed and ignored due to family management. When the family burden decreases and the children grow up, the two parties will look at each other, and the more they look at each other, the more they dislike each other and become more and more disgusted. Just like one person said - he is particularly afraid of the night. If his wife touches him at night, he will get goosebumps all over his body and feel very uncomfortable. At this time, one party in the family will go outside to provide care and comfort, and it is especially easy for them to have affairs and divorce.

3. After the conditions are good, I feel that I have lost money

Many men, when they first get married, do not have enough economic and social status, so they can only make do with choosing girls with average conditions to marry. With the improvement of economic conditions and the improvement of social status, the level of women he comes into contact with is getting higher and higher, and men's horizons are also improving. However, as the wife gets older and loses her luster, the more she looks at her, the more dissatisfied and unwilling she is, which becomes the reason for divorce. . Such men often prefer to marry women who are much younger than themselves.

4. The temptation of lust

Some people have never been in love before marriage. After marriage, they are busy with their livelihood, making money, rice, oil, salt, soy sauce, vinegar and tea. They have never found the feeling of love. They just go on like this and feel that they are at a disadvantage. In the future, when you meet a passionate suitor, you will be particularly susceptible to temptation, and will be particularly prone to indulge in the feeling of love, regardless of it, and lose your mind.

5. The temptation of desire

After a long marriage, no matter how beautiful the spouse is, both parties will have a period of aesthetic fatigue; the couple's life cannot find new ways, and it becomes an obligation and a ritual, lacking passion and boring; sometimes one of the spouses Want to try new ways, but are often too shy to speak out because they are worried that the other party will resist, or even though they have proposed it, the other party flatly refuses... Some novel and brilliant ideas in the minds of men and women cannot be put into practice, resulting in a state of confusion in the couple's life. In a deadlock, I feel depressed and unsatisfied over time, and I want to go outside to realize my ideas and find freshness and excitement. This is a particularly important inducement for extramarital affairs and one-night stands, and is also an important inducement for divorce.