My wife often complains: Why are you so nice to every woman? "Leakage" men are actually not bothersome. They may be devoted to their lovers, but they are kind-hearted and willing to help others. When helping others, they are mostly gentle, considerate and affectionate. In fact, he is really devoted and devoted to his lover, but there are always many people around him who are in love with him, and they all say in unison that he is obviously interested in him first!

Every day he gives a female colleague a ride, and when a friend of the opposite sex comes to him to talk to him about being broken up in love, he always obliges. A gentle and considerate man is destructive to all women, but his wife and girlfriend are a mixed bag. Many women often complain: Why are you so nice to every woman? I often question: "Does he love to discharge electricity or does he accidentally leak electricity?"

There is actually a fundamental difference between "leakage man" and "discharge man". The "discharging man" has bad motives, and his tenderness and consideration are often implemented to stun the other person; while the "leakage man" accidentally shocks the other person. And just like Jia Baoyu loves Sister Lin deeply, your "leakage" husband is devoted to you, but because he is driven by the mentality of helping others and that men should take care of women, he will be very considerate and caring for the women around him.

As a result, the wife is jealous, but she is too embarrassed to say it openly, so she often finds trouble and makes the family restless. The other woman who is being cared for may be moved and misunderstand that the man is "interested" in her and is in love with her. This "leakage" man may still be kept in the dark about all this.

Most of the time, the ability to charge is innate. A gentle and considerate man has a high charge, and it is easy for women to misunderstand that he is interested in her. A gentle and considerate woman is also an active discharger, which always makes men misunderstand that she is implying. Something.

Whose fault is it? Is it the fault of the person who accidentally discharged the electricity, or the person who was stunned? Often both of them are right, but they ruin everyone's emotional relationship. Therefore, you need some tips to live with "leakage men" to prevent them from "evolving" into "discharge men" one day.

"Leakage" is their nature, and it should be regarded as a manifestation of their advantages. As long as it is moderate, do not overly suppress, let alone "nagging and bombing", and be aware of their "leakage issues".

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Reconnaissance should be conducted on the target of frequent leakage to see if the other party is a "discharging woman" ", if this is indeed the case, you need to provide your husband with persuasive education to prevent the two of you from being "electrically shocked." At the same time, he uses various trivial things to keep him from getting away, so that he can learn to tell the other person "I don't have time" in person. Also remember to introduce a few boys to the "discharge girl" to solve her single problem, and your private time will naturally be guaranteed!

If the other person is not a "discharge girl", the best way is to become friends with the other person and "do it for your husband" when appropriate. This way you will feel much more at ease, and the other person will also understand your feelings. Mind.

Of course, having said that, if you want to keep a relationship, men and women who are born with electric energy need to pay more attention to themselves, curb your discharge power, carry electric power measuring tools with you, and keep a distance with men and women other than your lover. Distance will prevent it from becoming a love hazard that everyone is shouting about.