"As long as I have a house, I am willing to be a mistress..." A TV series "Dwelling" has caused many discussions about women's values. "It is better to marry well than to do well", "Sugar daddies make money on their own", "I would rather marry Huang Shiren than those born in the 1980s"... These views that were shamefully and even reviled in the past are quietly spreading among female college students. rise in the middle. The day before yesterday, the "Red Book on the Values ​​of Female College Students in Guangzhou" (hereinafter referred to as the "Red Book") was released at the first Guangzhou Regional Female College Students Forum.

It is understood that the "Red Book" is an investigation team jointly formed by the Guangzhou Women's Federation Research Office, Guangzhou Women's Society, Family Journal Group and other institutions. The survey was conducted in the form of a questionnaire, which took female college students from freshman to senior years at 10 universities, including Sun Yat-sen University, South China University of Technology, South China Normal University, and Guangdong University of Foreign Studies, as the subjects of the survey, which took 3 months to complete. The questionnaire mainly investigates the values ​​of female college students in Guangzhou in four major aspects: study and employment, communication and emotions, marriage and life, and consumption. 1,100 questionnaires were actually distributed and 992 were effectively recovered.

Views on marriage: More than half are willing to marry the rich second generation and 40% intend to marry an "iron rice bowl"

In the value survey on marriage and life, the results show that 30% of female college students agree with "doing things" It is better to marry well than to marry well.” Only 3.3% of female college students said they would not get married in the future. More than half of female college students admit that they are willing to marry the second generation of rich people. For the rich second generation, 59.2% of female college students are willing to marry because they will save many years of hard work, and 40.2% of female students express their unwillingness to marry.

Nearly half of female college students intend to "marry for an iron job". 38.4% of female college students agreed with "marrying for an iron job" and were interested in trying it; 55.1% said they understood but would not try it, and only 6% said it was difficult to accept it. Half of female college students are willing to choose a "potential" marriage partner. Regarding the choice of marriage partner, 57.6% of female college students do not care about whether they have money now, whether they are good to themselves, smart and have development potential, 18.3% care about the feeling of both parties being together, and the rest does not matter. The proportion of men who choose these two types are 4.2% and 3.6% respectively.

10% of female college students say they will only love one person in their life

In a survey on their views on "partner infidelity", only 10% of female college students said they will only love one person in their life, and 20% said they will only love one person in their life. Can tolerate occasional infidelity from the other person. Regarding their understanding of their partner's infidelity, 75.7% said that when they love someone, they should not be half-hearted when they are loyal, 13.4% said that they can love several people at the same time, but they are serious about everyone, and 10.8% said that they will only love one person in their life. 77.7% believed that this was a matter of principle and would never be tolerated, 19% could tolerate the other party's occasional infidelity, and 3.1% chose to retaliate in kind. About 30% of female college students can accept the marriage combination of "strong woman and weak man".

Nearly 40% believe that the most important thing that changes their lives is personal resources

Nearly 40% of those surveyed said that it is not academics or appearance that changes their lives, but the most important thing is personal resources. Among the options of factors that can change their lives, 37.7% of female college students chose connections, followed by luck (25.7%), marriage (22.7%), grades (12.6%), and appearance ranked last with only 1.3%.

Other voices: Male college students hate girls who want to marry the "rich second generation" the most

Liu Shuqian, an associate professor at Guangzhou University who led the "Red Book" survey, believes that nearly 60% of the women surveyed The idea of ​​college students marrying the "rich second generation" is influenced by very real social trends and is a reflection. But we can't just look at this data. In fact, female college students are not willing to marry the "rich second generation" blindly and are not looking for rich men at all. Their ideal is to find a "rich second generation" who can be close to each other and share the same goals. It's better than finding a pauper. This is a very practical idea.

"But male college students hate girls who want to marry the 'rich second generation' the most, and 68% of boys disagree." Liu Shuqian said that in the survey of boys, it was found that the vast majority of boys' love ideals are very innocent. , hoping to work hard and create a life with the other half, so the most disappointed group in universities now are boys. They face more pressure and challenges than girls, especially economic pressure.

Liu Shuqian said that the characteristics of modern female college students are large group differentiation, diversified value orientations, obvious inner conflicts and rapid group changes, and the ideas and values ​​of first-year and fourth-year girls are completely different. of. This is caused by complex factors such as society, life and interpersonal relationships. The key is that female college students' own literacy and abilities are not yet able to correctly judge the ever-changing events in society.