Modern medicine has given a concise definition of impotence: This is a type of penile erectile dysfunction, which usually refers to the inability or weak erection of the penis under sexual stimulation and sexual desire. The erection lasts for a short time and then shrinks quickly. , making it impossible to carry out and complete sexual life. In fact, this definition requires the following explanations: First, this sexual stimulation must be sufficient sexual stimulation from the spouse; second, it should be truly judged based on whether sexual intercourse can be completed; third, it must be after marriage. Couples need at least 2 to 3 months of running-in and practical experience in sexual life before making an estimate; fourth, any extramarital sex will bias the judgment. If you deviate from these principles, it is easy to have misunderstandings in self-judgment, label yourself as impotent, and then put on mental shackles and become depressed. People can easily fall into the following misunderstandings when judging their own impotence:

1． Treat several failed sexual intercourses in the early days of marriage as impotence. This situation is quite common. In fact, it violates the principle that there must be a 2 to 3 month running-in period after spouses start sexual life. At the beginning of marriage, especially on the wedding night, people are too excited, tired, or even drunk; or due to lack of cooperation between the couple during the wedding stage, temporary poor erectile function occurs. Originally, this was not surprising. There are also some newlyweds who have poor sexual intercourse because they secretly tasted forbidden fruit before marriage. At that time, they acted under complex emotions such as groping, trying, nervousness, fear, etc. The failure rate was high, which left the shadow of their own sexual insufficiency in their minds. In this case, there should be an adjustment stage during sexual intercourse after marriage.

2． The inability to induce orgasm and pleasure in the woman is regarded as impotence. This is a bigger mistake. As long as the man's penis can be erect and inserted, as long as the man can successfully complete ejaculation and reach orgasm through sexual intercourse, it is not impotence, even if sexual pleasure occurs. One of the characteristics of male and female sexual function is that "men are fast and women are slow". Therefore, if the man has ejaculated but the woman has not yet reached orgasm, this is a physiological phenomenon. At most, it is a problem of unharmonious sexual life and should never be considered as impotence.

3． It is believed that masturbation will inevitably cause impotence. It is more common among unmarried young people and is a common sexual misunderstanding. Needless to say, masturbation is a common behavior among teenagers. Some people are indeed worried that masturbation will induce impotence, and some people have indeed experienced impotence later on. However, modern medicine has clarified that the occurrence of such impotence is not essentially due to masturbation damaging sexual organs, but rather due to mental and psychological factors caused by long-term masturbation. In fact, the psychological activities of masturbators are very complex, and they are often in a state of anxiety, guilt, depression, and uneasiness. This unhealthy thinking activity will hinder the normal performance of sexual function. However, even if you are a long-term masturbator, as long as you can relieve the above-mentioned mental "bumps", you may not suffer from impotence.

4. Impotence is defined as an inconspicuous penile erection response. Many teenagers report that their penises would naturally erect when they watched some movies, TV, books, magazines and pictures with pornographic content; fantasized about a girl they liked; or indulged in some sexual fantasies, but now they have this reaction. It’s not obvious. Is it impotence? Wrong! The answer is very simple. Because there is no complete sexual stimulation from the spouse, including visual, hearing, touching, smelling and other sexual stimulation, and because there is no real sexual intercourse practice, the penis alone can Whether or not you have an erection cannot diagnose impotence. In fact, men's penile erection is physiologically divided into two situations: one is a reactive erection, which does not require any sexual stimulation and occurs spontaneously through nerve reflexes, such as an erection after sleeping at night; the other is a reactive erection. Psychogenic erections require some kind of sexual stimulation, including discreet sexual fantasies in the mind. Therefore, all erotic stimulation can induce psychogenic erections. This kind of mental erection that occurs in daily life is very complex and will change with a person's physique, thoughts, emotions, etc. Sometimes it is better, sometimes it is worse. This is not an indicator of impotence at all.

5. Impotence occurs when the erection fails after changing the partner of sexual intercourse. Strictly speaking, this view is also incorrect. Some people have normal sex life with their wives and have good erectile function; but they suffer from sexual intercourse during an extramarital affair. On the contrary, some people have poor erections when having sex with their wives, perhaps out of a lack of novelty, but they have excellent sex while having an extramarital affair. These are all situations that occur after the partner of sexual intercourse changes. At first glance, having an erectile failure during intercourse with a certain partner is indeed a kind of impotence. In medicine, there are also so-called "impotence caused by extramarital affairs" and "impotence caused by marriage". . But in a real sense, a person with this kind of "selective" impotence is not a real impotence patient. From one side, he had impotence, from another side, his sexual function was good. It can be seen that such people cannot be labeled as impotent casually. Of course, it is crucial to correct your style, adjust your mentality, and ensure normal sexual intercourse within marriage.

6. Frequent nocturnal emissions will inevitably lead to impotence. This is another common fallacy among teenagers. They believe that frequent nocturnal emissions will greatly damage the "vital energy" and sexual function will be completely lost. In fact, this concern is completely unnecessary. It is normal for a healthy unmarried man to have nocturnal emissions 1-2 times a month. 4- More than 5 times is too much, which may be related to inflammation of the genitourinary organs or certain life factors, such as wearing tight pants, sleeping too hot at night, being overworked during the day, etc. But modern medicine has made it clear that there is no inevitable connection between spermatorrhea and impotence.

7． Premature ejaculation will inevitably develop into impotence later. People who hold this view can cite some specific examples. These patients began to exhibit premature ejaculation, ejaculating soon after no contact or just after contact with the woman, and later even the erectile function was no longer good. From a medical perspective, psychological factors are often at play in such situations. Because of premature ejaculation, I felt dissatisfied, ashamed of my wife, and felt very guilty. Some wives show dissatisfaction, ridicule, and complain, which invisibly puts tremendous pressure on their husbands. Sexual function will really be destroyed under this complicated psychological state and mental pressure. If they receive effective treatment at the stage of premature ejaculation, if they are strong-willed and have an indifferent attitude, or if their wives don't mind at all, they will not suffer from impotence. Today, modern medicine has not found any inevitable connection between premature ejaculation and impotence. In short, only through detailed understanding of the condition and strict testing can the diagnosis of impotence be made clear. Any subjective conjecture or conjecture is unscientific.

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