Men love "ugly wives" after marriage

Xiao Ru is a beautiful girl who had many suitors when she was single. In the end, she chose the eloquent Da Li because he could always win every time. It was so sweet to say it, and I felt that I was particularly valued. But after getting married, Xiaoru discovered that her husband rarely praised her appearance and temperament anymore. He often turned a blind eye to her when she dressed up beautifully, and complained about her frequent purchases of clothes and cosmetics. Xiao Ru is very confused, doesn't he love her anymore?

Actually, Xiao Ru's worries are a bit unfounded. As we all know, men are mostly lustful creatures who like pretty girls. But when they get married, they no longer want to praise their wives for their beauty. Sometimes they may even be dissatisfied: "We're already married, why do we dress up so beautifully?"

Men's sense of security is at play

However, once a man marries a beautiful girl home and his vanity is satisfied, his sense of security becomes dominant, and he only seeks to be ordinary. People say, "A family has three treasures: an ugly wife, a poor field, and a worn-out cotton-padded jacket." If no one covets her, it means there is a sense of security. "A glass of wine can relieve worries, and an ugly woman can make her hair grow old", these proverbs also illustrate the same truth.

Men are more realistic after marriage

After marriage, a man’s psychology of his wife’s enthusiasm for dressing up will undergo subtle changes. Just as the advantages before marriage turn into disadvantages, it is not the behavior that changes, but the psychology.

But men are often afraid to admit their worries and vulnerabilities. When they feel unsafe, they rarely communicate openly with their wives to gain reassurance. On the contrary, they will treat their wives with an attitude of neglect, dissatisfaction or even blame, hoping that she will no longer attract attention.

In addition, after marriage, men generally change from romance to reality and pay more attention to family expenses, which also becomes a reason for them to prevent their wives from spending a lot of money on dressing up. Moreover, in the eyes of men, a wife who cannot calm down to take care of her husband and raise children after marriage does not meet the standards of a good wife and mother after all.

A "beautiful wife" can also grow old

However, you must know that a woman who puts no pressure on a man will only make him tired. Moreover, it is also beneficial for a woman to dress up when necessary. Physical and mental health and developing self-confidence. Therefore, a woman should have a certain degree of judgment and autonomy, and should not blindly resist or obey her husband's opinions. She should take the time to have a good talk with him to understand his real thoughts. If you blindly obey your husband in order to avoid conflicts, it will not only damage your self-esteem, but also make the relationship between husband and wife superficial, lacking sincere understanding and communication.

If husbands can bravely express their true thoughts and do not hide their vulnerability, they will get more sincere rewards, and beautiful wives can still be "safe".

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