Recommended reading: Condoms are not only contraceptive but also “prevent rape”

Wife’s confusion: Why did he suddenly alienate me

“Why did he suddenly yell at me? I I just want to care about him!" Xiao Junye sobbed and told her close friend Awen: "Really, I thought I didn't do anything wrong. We have been inseparable for five years and he has never been so cold and rude to me.

However, suddenly he changed from his usual enthusiastic, gentle and considerate attitude towards me, and became very cold..."

"It has been 6 days, and he seems to be suddenly trapped in a cage. Like the bird in the novel, he was restless, hiding to read a book, turning the pages of the book, and watching TV constantly changing channels; his sweet words were gone, he ignored me, and even locked himself in the room, unwilling to Talk to me. My efforts to get close to him didn't work, but I suffered from his unknown anger. Why did he suddenly distance himself? "

The tears came from her. Her big eyes fell, and her pitiful appearance was enough to melt a piece of pig iron. "Her husband doesn't know how to cherish such a good woman?" Awen also felt aggrieved for Xiao Junye in her heart, but she didn't know how to comfort her.

Recommended reading: "Rectification" campaign to "rectify" obedient and good husbands

Experts explain: Maybe the man is on his period

His reaction may be really hard for you to accept. But if you think love ends here, you are wrong.

Experts believe that Ms. Xiao’s lover may have suffered from periodic emotional lows. This is somewhat common among men and is medically known as the male physiological and psychological "cycle".

From the perspective of physiologists, it is impossible for men to menstruate, but for them, every certain period of time, there will always be a few days where they experience emotional fluctuations and even physical symptoms. Uncomfortable, some foreign medical experts call it a male "low tide" phenomenon, and some doctors jokingly call it a male "period". This is actually a biological rhythm change, which is the result of changes in hormone levels in the male body.

All living things have biological rhythms. Human growth, development, physical strength, intelligence, heartbeat, breathing, digestion, urinary, sleep and even human emotions are all controlled by biological rhythms in the body. It's just that some people have obvious rhythms and some people don't.

Interestingly, there is currently a saying that a man's "period" is also affected by his lover's menstrual cycle. There is also a saying that men's "period" is also affected by moon tides and weather changes.

According to some foreign studies, the emotional rhythm cycle is about 28 days, which affects people's creativity, sensitivity to things, understanding, and some emotional and mental functions. During the "emotional high" period, he often appears energetic, chatting and laughing; during the "emotional low" period, he is depressed, depressed, and grumpy.

Recommended reading: What should I use to love you and my woman?

The winning tip: Give him freedom

When his psychological cycle comes, don’t try to pull him back – give him freedom. As long as this period has passed, he will naturally come back.

What you have to do is to pay more attention to understanding him at this time, do a good job of psychological counseling, and prevent him from putting more pressure on him.

TIPS: 7 tips to help him spend the "holiday" as quickly as possible

1. Give him enough freedom and wait for him to recover on his own.

2. During this period, he may suffer from physical pain, so he should be treated as soon as possible.

3. Induce him to go out on his own, get close to nature, and pursue complete relaxation in the spiritual world.

4. Encourage him to take the initiative to find ways to relieve depressed emotions and regulate himself.

5. Try to avoid hurting him due to your own fault, even if the harm is unintentional.

6. Return the body’s endocrine system to normal through exercise.

7. If this kind of emotion is severe during the "holiday" and it is difficult for him to adjust himself, he should be encouraged and assisted to find a psychologist.