It is common for a male boss to marry a female subordinate, or for a young and beautiful female secretary to marry a successful male boss. On the contrary, it is rare for a male subordinate to marry a female boss, and it seems that it is also rare for a white-bone woman to marry a Tang monk. And I found that the more successful a man is, the more he keeps a distance from "three-talented women" who are also successful in their careers.

Men’s mate selection has always been a form of looking down upon us.

Let’s first review our men. As mentioned before, men appear to be very powerful, are gladiators, and have hero complexes. In fact, they are wild animals that are arrogant on the surface but have low self-esteem deep down. He is most afraid that the woman around him will be better than him. The more capable a woman is and the better the conditions, the more panicked and helpless a man becomes. His sense of accomplishment and satisfaction will become a rootless tree and a source of water, and his heroic complex will have nowhere to release. Because men love face the most and are most afraid of showing their incompetence in front of capable women.

Two professors from the University of Michigan and the University of California, Los Angeles, conducted a study on mate selection on more than 300 college students, 120 of whom were men. The researchers observed whether superiority would affect the willingness to choose a mate. The sense of superiority here has nothing to do with personality, but mainly refers to status and power and income. It was found that most men were less interested in their colleagues and superiors than their work assistants when choosing a mate. Women don't particularly think about superiority. Therefore, it is common for a male boss to marry a female subordinate, or for a young and beautiful female secretary to marry a successful male boss. On the contrary, it is rare for a male subordinate to marry a female boss, and it seems that it is rare for a white-bone spirit to marry Tang Monk (men like Tang Monk seem to be more easily conquered by vixens in life). And I found that the more successful a man is, the more he keeps a distance from "three-talented women" who are also successful in their careers.

I know a private business owner who has a rich family background. He is handsome, well-educated, and sensible. There are many female masters, female managers, and female bosses around him who are secretly interested in him, but he just married a A small accountant with only a technical secondary school education is jokingly called the "three low wives" (low education, low status, low income). Once when I had dinner with him, I asked him why he gave up his superiority for inferiority. He laughed and calmly summed up to me the three major advantages of marrying a "low-income wife":

1. " "Three lowly wives" worship and admire their husbands spiritually, and men can be the pillars of the family without feeling cowardly. But it would be unlucky to marry a strong woman. She will give orders every day at work, and she will definitely give orders when she returns home. That man will never be able to get ahead.

2. The "Three Low Wifes" have no career aspirations and will go home as soon as they get off work. They are good wives and loving mothers. But strong women are different. They often socialize outside, and who takes care of the family. The man has to be both father and mother, and be a "model husband" at home. When the time comes, friends around me can’t help laughing: “Look, I’m not as good as my wife, I’m really worthless!”

3. “Three low-income wives” have a sense of economic dependence on their husbands, which is helpful It is important for the harmony and stability of the family; a strong woman earns more than her husband, and is too independent and self-reliant. Naturally, her ambition is higher than the sky. Maybe one day the situation will change, and her husband will be kicked out!

Men's preference for "three low-income wives", in the eyes of self-respecting and self-reliant women, is tantamount to a kind of outright male chauvinism. But if we look at the pattern of marriage and love in which men are strong and women are weak since ancient times, it seems to be commonplace. A man's love for a woman must be based on the former being strong enough and advantageous in front of the latter. This strength and advantage is not only reflected in age, height, and physical fitness, but also in power, money, and psychology. If a man always feels inferior in front of the woman he loves and feels ashamed all the time, his male desire to conquer will be unable to be released, and he will have a severe sense of insecurity, and may even suffer from double "impotence" both physically and psychologically, and will never recover from it.

So men's mate selection has always been a "looking down mentality" since ancient times: they must be younger than me, shorter than me, less educated than me, and have less income than me...

Men, with their little potential, please remember one sentence - imperialism and all big men are just paper tigers!

And a strong woman, seen from a man’s eyes, is as tall and mysterious as Mount Everest. Although men all want to be gladiators, have the desire to conquer, and have the desire to conquer famous mountains and rivers, the altitude of Mount Everest is too high and the climate is cold, making it difficult to climb it unless you are a member of the Mount Everest team. But nowadays, all Chinese men cherish their lives like gold and have short-sightedness. It is tiring to climb Mount Huangshan and Mount Taishan. Who is willing to spend a lot of energy on a giant mountain that is difficult to reach? This is probably the fundamental reason why most Chinese-style strong women frighten the men around them and can only fall into the embarrassing situation of self-admiration?

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