Men’s five favorite ways to be pampered
When it comes to love, many people like to live a sweet and romantic life, and hope that the other person will love them in the best way. Especially for men, many times women’s expressions of love can make men’s hearts flutter. So, what are men’s favorite ways to be pampered? How to be the goddess in a man’s heart? The editor below will take you to understand male sexual psychology.
1. Have more intimate physical contact
When you go shopping, hold his arm intimately, instead of you rushing ahead and him following behind with big bags; when watching a movie, lean your head gently on his shoulder, instead of holding popcorn and eating it. Non-stop; when you are stuck in traffic jam, pat his thighs that are stiff from the brakes instead of sitting in the passenger seat and complaining; when you pass by him at home, kiss his cheek instead of caring about yourself It seems like there is no one there...
Don't think that these are the behaviors of young women who fall in love for the first time. This is what all men want their lovers to do, even if you are already an "old husband and wife."
Psychological experts say that these small intimate gestures express a woman's dependence and concern for a man, can stimulate a man's protective desire for a woman, and make a man feel that you have a tacit understanding before.
The latest psychological research in the United States also found that the more frequent intimate physical contact between men and women, the more stable the relationship between them. Of course, I also want to remind you "don't be too intimate" and don't stick to him regardless of the occasion.
2. Let his cell phone go
Stop peeking at the text messages on his phone while he is taking a shower. He also needs some private space of his own. The most important thing is that after being educated in so many movies and TV series, there are really no more stupid men. You have to keep the evidence of your philandering on your phone.
And psychological experts say that this kind of suspicion and the feeling of guilt after peeking at the phone will stimulate the secretion of cortisol in a woman's body, seriously affecting her mood and beauty.
3. Share interesting things with him
He is not your emotional trash can, just listening to you complain about your job and your boss.
If you let him choose, he would prefer to listen to you talk about all the fun things you encountered today, even if it is an interesting repost you saw on Weibo, you will never imagine the happy information you brought to him. It will even make him more devoted to you than your oral sex skills.
The latest British gender survey also confirms that women with humorous and cheerful personalities are becoming more and more popular with men, and the number of men in the "Happiness Association" is even catching up with the "Appearance Association".
4. Praise him with words
You're not the only one who likes to hear him praise how cute you are, even men want to be affirmed by others, especially lovers, and the energy you inject into him with words will ultimately benefit yourself, because the more he feels Happiness, the more I hope to bring you greater happiness.
So next time when he takes the initiative to cook porridge for you, buys you your favorite style of leather shoes, or grabs a movie ticket with the best seats, praise him.
5. Prepare some small surprises
Forget Valentine's Day, prepare some little surprises for him from time to time.
Of course, we are not asking you to suddenly tattoo his name on your body, nor are we asking you to get breast enlargement and nose augmentation to cater to him, nor are we asking you to secretly record a sex video... The surprise mentioned here does not necessarily mean that He will never forget it in his life, but let him feel that you really love him and care about him.
For example, leave him a breakfast on the dining table, buy him a more suitable pair of glasses, leave a private message on Weibo to tell him you miss him when you go out to work, etc.
Warm reminder: The above are the five favorite ways of love for men introduced by the editor. Women must learn them! This way you will get all the love and attention from your man. Don't think that men are the strongest. Many times they also need special care.