Recently, the news that "the 80-year-old woman filed for divorce after her husband of 56 years cheated on her multiple times" was reported online. In an instant, you attracted great attention and heated discussions among your friends. Nowadays, cheating seems to be getting worse and worse, eventually leading to discord between couples and broken families. Among them, men cheating is the most common. Therefore, we must always be wary of men’s cheating behavior. Today, the editor will introduce to you in detail that men’s cheating is not impossible to prevent. Be wary of the peak period of men’s cheating. Did you know?

Men’s sexual hunger seems to exist at all times. An American marriage expert said that men are sexually insatiable animals. Therefore, after pregnancy, because of the birth of the child, you put all the focus of your life on the child, neglecting the emotional communication with your husband, and showing no interest in sex, then experts will tell you that this will make your husband My heart began to wander.

Why do men care so much? It has been a puzzling question for thousands of years. Everyone has different opinions, but one thing is for sure: the so-called soil gives birth to flowers. Sometimes, a man's love affair seems to be accidental. However, there is an inevitable hidden in the accident. Maybe it is the right situation that gave birth to his desire to have an affair.

It is not impossible to prevent a man from cheating

1. When people reach middle age

One day, if your husband, who has been married for many years, suddenly becomes more concerned about his appearance than before. For example, he likes to pass by shopping mall windows and secretly look in the mirror. He likes to visit clothing stores and carefully dress himself. When choosing fashionable clothing, don't think that it is because of your painstaking transformation that it has finally become a good thing. Psychologists will tell you that this may be a sign that he is entering a midlife crisis.

A man who is still in his forties will sometimes suddenly realize that he is no longer young. He was frightened by this and longed to seize the tail of youth. Paying attention to appearance is a manifestation of his inner subconscious. At this time, he may begin to doubt the dull marriage life for many years, doubt the meaning of life, and then long for a hot love again. Because he believes that only by experiencing that passion again can he prove that he is still full of youthful vitality.

Therefore, if you feel that he has entered a mid-life crisis, you might as well start from now on and pay attention to his thoughts and give him more care to help him get out of this crisis moment.

In front of his wife, a man is sometimes like a child who has not grown up. Therefore, he will be jealous of his wife for giving all her love to her children. At this time, he was lost and anxious. If by chance there is a person of the opposite sex around him who fills his "emotional vacuum", he will easily fall in love with someone else.

2. The pain of losing a loved one

Audiences who have watched "Yongzheng Dynasty" will definitely be deeply impressed by such a plot. When Yongzheng was deeply saddened by the death of a relative, a maid gave him gentle advice. Yongzheng, comforted by her kind words, took the maid as his own that night. Many people will be very puzzled when they see this plot. Why did Yongzheng still have the heart to do such a thing when he was so sad?

Psychologists say that on the contrary, when men are in extreme grief, they need sex more to vent their inner sorrow, proving that he has not been completely struck down by grief. He needs to feel the vitality and passion of life in a deep despair.

Therefore, if he has an affair when he is grieving the loss of a loved one, realize that it may not be that your love rival comforted him on your behalf, but that he simply needs such an emotion to vent his inner grief.

3. When he met his first girlfriend

After a man has lived an ordinary life for many years, one day he meets his first girlfriend. First love is always sweet and warm in a man's memory. Compared with the dullness of today's married life, he will mistakenly think that the less he can get, the better it is. If you happen to meet the other person, although the marriage is not satisfactory and there are many complaints, then the two people will easily relive their old dreams.

Thirty-two-year-old Liu Wei said: "Once, I met my first girlfriend. It was when she was on a business trip to Guangzhou, and we sat together and talked about the past. She said her marriage was unfortunate, and I immediately felt sad. . Because it was not because of us that we broke up. I seemed to feel that I had the responsibility to comfort her, so that day, we came together.”

The above is a detailed introduction to the fact that men’s cheating is not impossible to prevent and the peak period of men’s cheating. I hope it will be helpful to you to further understand the two sexes. Therefore, in daily life, friends must keep themselves clean, avoid cheating and other behaviors, actively manage their marriages, and strive to create a better future together.