According to survey data from the British Office for National Statistics, currently in the UK, cases where wives file for divorce account for 68% of the total number of divorces. Moreover, the most "popular" reason for divorce cited by these women is men's habits. From this we can conclude that: first, men always behave badly; second, many women still cannot adapt to these male habits months or years after entering the marriage hall. This problem is deeply entrenched between the sexes, and before men have a chance to refute, they have been judged to be the "culprit" for the breakdown of marriages. In fact, there are cognitive differences between men and women. Men don't mean to make people angry, it's just that we misunderstand them. Below we propose several classic male logics regarding marital conflicts.

1. Poor memory

We often have trouble remembering things, especially those things you want us to remember. There is a reasonable explanation for our poor memory: scientifically speaking, although women's brains are 10% smaller than men's brains, women's brains also have less gray matter than men's, but relatively more white matter. Generally speaking, white matter makes it easier for women to have efficient memory, while gray matter allows men to maintain a high level of interest in boring, monotonous, and repetitive game consoles. This is determined by genes and there is nothing we can do about it.

There is no malice in not remembering things that should be remembered. We forget to say "I love you", we forget your birthday, we forget why we went to the supermarket, but these do not mean We don’t love you, don’t like to celebrate your birthday, and don’t want to give you your beloved gifts. These are all due to the gray matter in our brains. We are innocent.

2. Lost

"It's definitely this way."

"Why don't we stop and ask others?"

" Because we're on the right track."

"Okay, we've been around here three times."

"No!"

"Yes!"

Of course we know we are lost, but men are always proud and simple creatures. There is a glass wall in our hearts that cannot be crossed. . Admitting that we are lost is a kind of humiliation to us, and your lack of understanding has unknowingly mocked us. This is where misunderstandings arise.

The most important thing is to give us some time and allow us to find the lost path and regain the lost dignity on our own. Don't nag in our ears: "I told you, we should get out of the car and ask for directions." Just accept that we are idiots and you can bask in male gratitude and maybe receive A desirable birthday present - if we could only remember the date.

3. “Do I look good in this dress?”

This question is the most unfair question in marriage.

You must never expect that a man will sincerely accompany you shopping all day long. Stuffy shopping malls, crowded crowds, sweaty ones, standing for hours, helplessly shrugging to other sweaty men, waiting for you to try on the nineteenth pair of pants with the same style, and every time Ask, "Does this look good on me?"

We know from years of experience answering this cruel question that there is never a right answer. If we honestly say - "average, okay", you will definitely become very disappointed because our answer is not positive enough; if we sincerely say, "I don't care if you dress well or not, we can go home now ", you will definitely be angry after hearing this answer; if we say falsely, "Oh my God, it's perfect," you will definitely become suspicious, and then ask other additional questions, such as, "Did you just say that? , do you want us to go home quickly, don't you?" Then, our evasive eyes betrayed the master's body, and you continued to escort us to the "execution ground" - a newly opened shopping mall. Oh my God!

Never take us shopping. I love you no matter what you wear, as long as you are elegant enough. We really don’t want to be involved in your shopping process.

4. DIY and why it’s not our fault

It seems that most women think that before IKEA appeared, men could make their own furniture. Of course, we also think we can do it, but many things require some specialized and complex skills, which are much more difficult than using a wrench. Our skills were lost when the Swedes arrived with their masterpieces.

You ask us about the formation of oxbow lakes, the theory of Pythagoras, or who held a gun to Patsy Kensit's chest in the movie "Lethal Weapon," and we're all quick answer you. However, ask us how to put a water pump into a non-load-bearing wall and we will tell you the answer, usually wrong.

We are passionate. Every year, in the run-up to the Bank Holiday, the Royal Society for the Prevention of Accidents releases disturbing figures about the gory accidents that occur to married men pursuing simple DIY projects. According to last year's data, the top "murder weapons" were knives and scalpels, which led to 20,000 doctor visits; followed by saws, which led to 15,000 hospital visits. In addition, there are countless other dangerous tools.

The Royal Society stated solemnly that overconfidence and lack of professional ability are the main causes of DIY accidents. The ability to DIY should not be the first reason why men and women fall in love. If so, please be noble and let us go!

5. Movies and catharsis

By now, you should be able to understand the delusions, paranoia, pressure and pain some men experience. We are always silently enduring it in order to complete our daily work and social interactions. We need time to relax and vent, but you keep nagging in our ears, like a mantra, "Can you give me a back massage?"

We like to watch violent and bloody movies, To relieve our stress. We don't care if you want to watch this too, and we don't mind if you have a small TV in your bedroom so you can watch True Blood to your heart's content. But never force us to watch your favorite movie with you. Your movies, your plots, sad and touching stories, because we may cry, but men cannot cry!

This may make us face our emotions, but we must not be weak, but must keep moving forward.

6. Look at other women

This issue is also scientific and beyond our control.

Men and women have opposite reproductive schedules, says Joe Quirk, author of "It's Not You, It's Biology." Women only produce one egg every 29.5 days. After fertilization, it takes 9 months of pregnancy, followed by a long lactation period. The man on the other side can produce hundreds of sperm in one second. So, even though we are fully evolved, we still stand up and peek at other women or make some more serious mistakes, and pay the price for it-long cold, quiltless nights. In short, you will achieve final victory.

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