Remind men that inappropriate sexual demands will disgust women and create subconscious resistance to sexual life. Women are emotional animals with relatively conservative sexual concepts. Only with a suitable "space" can she have a better sexual life with men. If you want to please your woman, you first need to know what they are thinking. Then let’s take a look at the so-called four musts and four don’ts.

Four essentials

1. Atmosphere

A woman is a perceptual animal. During the process of love, her vision, smell, hearing, and touch are all open and very sensitive. Any romantic feelings brought to the senses will become her concern. For example, low-pitched music, romantic lights, and alluring perfume, and touching love words are a surefire way to create an atmosphere. The lingering love words will make her become tender in an instant.

2. Praise for the body

No matter how beautiful a woman's body is, there will always be a sense of shame and inferiority about body nudity in her subconscious. Women tend to focus on physical defects, such as thighs that are not slender enough or breasts that are not full enough, which affects the generation of sexual pleasure. But if the man can appreciate his lover's body and give encouragement and praise, the woman will be able to relax more easily and give herself to her lover with complete trust.

3. Pay attention to her feelings

Most men hope that they are experts in making love, but there are some sexual skills that women may not like. Love is an interactive process. Even if a couple has a tacit understanding, there are also misunderstandings in communication. The only way is to pay attention to her feelings and maintain communication at all times. Observe her reaction, or ask her "Do you like this?" Your considerate behavior will make her feel sweeter, and will also make your love more harmonious.

4. Blending with her body and mind

Few women have sex just for desire. In this process, what they want is both physical and mental satisfaction. Therefore, a woman hopes that her lover will have more emotional communication with her beforehand, such as listening to her troubles, soothing her uneasiness, and paying attention to her needs. Only on the basis of good spiritual communication can a perfect love be truly completed.

Four don’t

1. Perfunctory foreplay

Women often regard gentle and considerate foreplay as a manifestation of love. Delicate and considerate caressing is not only an appreciation of her body, but also a true expression of love. Although many people understand this truth, there are still men who will go straight to the topic alone, which will only make women feel disgusted, let alone perfect love.

2. Inappropriate sexual demands

Regardless of whether she is exhausted or not feeling well, a man who only makes demands for sex will only make a woman feel disgusted and feel that you don't care about her at all, but only care about your own desires. Having sex is inherently a consensual thing, but once it is forced, it will suddenly feel boring.

3. Poor hygiene and no condoms

Perhaps because of laziness, perhaps because they like impromptu sex, many men refuse to take a shower before sex. What makes women even more troublesome is that some men even refuse to wear condoms because they don't like to be "in touch with others". However, unsafe love brings all kinds of troubles to women, including gynecological diseases, miscarriage, etc. Therefore, the most intolerable thing for women is those men who oppose her on bathing and condom issues.

4. Fall asleep after having sex

If you fall asleep because you are exhausted after having sex, no woman will think so: "He just uses me as a tool to vent his sexual desires. He doesn't love me at all." Dr. Judy, a well-known American sex therapist, also pointed out that people During sex, the pituitary gland of the brain secretes aphrodisiac, which causes people to feel warm and want to hug. Women are more likely to produce this hormone than men. Therefore, after making love, women will be more eager to hug and caress

Sex: What is the healthiest way for men and women to have sex?

When enjoying the beauty of sex, some people do not realize that the bodies of both parties are harmed because of some bad habits that they are not aware of. The following four bad sexual habits can give you timely reminders, and they are also the most undesirable ways to have sex.

Bad Habit 1. Quick sex

Disadvantages: The foreplay of quick sex is often very short, catching the woman off guard and causing pain for both of you. If there is no proper fun, it will also cause damage to the lower body. Over time, the person who cannot feel the love will suffer from sexual frigidity.

Advice: Because couples are busy, it is normal for them to be without sex for a period of time. But if you serve the other party as if it were a task, the result will be counterproductive. Therefore, if you really have no interest in sex, you can sleep separately for a while. Just like appetite, when you are hungry, you will naturally want to have a good meal.

The second and second activation of bad habits

Disadvantages: Sometimes, after doing it once, a man wants to do it again in order to show that he is strong. Doing so will keep a man's body in a state of excitement, which can lead to erectile dysfunction if done too often. Some couples who like to have a second sprint often realize that sex cannot be a temporary power only after a few months when the man loses his power.

Advice: One tense sex is much happier and healthier than two urgent thrusts.

Bad Habit 3: Using unsafe sex methods

Disadvantages: In fact, it is possible for couples to have sex in any way, but the problem is that you don’t know if there are other germs in that part of the other person, and sometimes he (she) doesn’t know either. If you adopt unsafe methods for happiness, you will undoubtedly plant dangerous seeds for your health.

Advice: No matter what, safe sex is the only way to be happy. The prerequisite for fancy sex is that it is healthy and feasible.

Bad Habit 4: Waiting to reach the wonderful peak together

Disadvantages: When you are waiting for her, holding yourself back from ejaculation will reduce the pleasure. After a long time, men will not feel the freedom of sex. Some men satisfy their wives first, but as a result of waiting, they rarely reach their peak at the same time as her.

Advice: In fact, no matter how much a couple loves each other, they cannot always reach wonderful highs together. In their 20s, if men are faster and women are slower, they can moderately increase foreplay; after age 30, if women are faster and men are slower, they can reduce the time spent on intimacy in the front. When both parties feel the need to sprint, just experience their own happiness