Recently, there was such an incredible thing - because a wife suspected that her husband was having an affair, she restricted the number of "sexual intercourse" between normal couples and implemented a "house restriction order" of three times a month, which made the husband miserable. Suing for divorce in anger... This is a problem and difficulty that many couples will inevitably encounter. When a man's sexual needs are not met, such as when his wife is pregnant, the husband is prone to cheating, and his reason is sexual cheating? In fact, couples can also enjoy sex during pregnancy.

Most pregnancies occur shortly after marriage, when the couple's sexual intercourse is getting better, but suddenly there is a sudden stop, and the couple, especially the husband, naturally faces a test. Around us, there are many stories of wives who experienced sexual infidelity from their husbands after becoming pregnant. Husbands usually give the following excuse: They cheated just for sex. However, it is difficult for women to accept that in just a few months, does he need to have a relationship with another woman to fill the "sexual vacuum"?

Unsatisfied sexual needs may lead to men having affairs

When you have a child, your world will change. For a man, he can accommodate his wife if her appetite becomes unruly, and tolerate her temper if she becomes bad, but the loss of sex is an unbearable pain. Making love not only means sexual satisfaction for men, but also the acquisition of love. When a man cannot satisfy his sexual needs at home, he may develop outward. Men have needs, but women are not satisfied and don't care. Over time, it will inevitably affect the relationship between husband and wife. I'm afraid that men will lose not only their sex, but also their hearts and feelings.

Zheng Yu (pseudonym) and her husband were originally a very loving couple. Ever since she became pregnant, she refused to have sex, and there had been friction between the two. For this reason, Zheng Yu proposed sleeping in a separate room. Later, she simply went back to live with her parents on the grounds of "convenience in waiting for childbirth". The husband was left aside, unable to see his wife's face, let alone receive physical comfort. He was extremely depressed and had a one-night stand. The sad thing is that Zheng Yu didn't object when she knew her husband was cheating, but she just didn't want her husband to touch her because she felt dirty. As a result, the child lost his father when he was less than one year old. The father left with the woman he had a one-night stand with.

During pregnancy, couples can also enjoy sex

Experts say that pregnancy changes a woman’s hormones and weakens her sexual needs. Men do not feel this way and must find solutions. Once the balance is out of balance, women cannot just focus on themselves and their children and let men blindly endure the torture of sexual desire. "You should not have sex in the first three months and the last three months of pregnancy, but the middle four months are safe. As long as you pay attention to posture and intensity, it will not only help enhance the relationship between the couple during the 'vacuum period', but also relieve the mother's sexual repression. There are also many benefits to postpartum depression. "Even if the husband is considerate of his wife and takes the initiative to not have sex, the wife cannot completely ignore it. "Compared with a man's masturbation, his wife's caressing and handjob certainly feel better, and the two of them are more intimate."

Some couples sleep in separate rooms immediately after becoming pregnant, and physical contact is reduced or even eliminated at all. When "sex" is completely unsatisfactory, various small problems will turn into big conflicts, seriously affecting the relationship between husband and wife and their married life.