Men love jealous women more

Secret weapon one: weakness

Applicable time: In the early stages of love, use it whenever you need help.

Reason for use: Boys like to be heroes. When helping girls, boys instantly feel heroic. It can be as small as moving, as large as financial assistance. As long as he feels that he is useful in front of you and feels that he is needed, he will feel proud.

He will love you more if he helps you. Only girls who need boys are attractive.

Tips for use: There are two tips for using this weapon. One is not to add random opinions and give random instructions. This will destroy his masculinity and make him disgusted. The second is to be grateful. No matter how small a favor he has done for you, thank him, praise him, and treat him as a hero, so that you will get more affection from boys in the future.

Secret Weapon 2: Let him act coquettishly

Applicable time: when boys encounter setbacks and frustrations.

Reasons for use: Heroes get tired too, and so do boys. Don't let them bear too much pressure. Boys hope that someone will love him and take care of him instead of his mother. In their hearts, they like the kind of girl who can let themselves act coquettishly in front of her. When a boy is frustrated, he needs maternal protection from you.

Tips for use: Never laugh at a boy who is in trouble and frustration. At this time, he needs your affirmation most, relying on your warmth to relax himself and rebuild his confidence.

Secret Weapon Three: Maintain a Sense of Mystery

Applicable Timing: When the relationship between two people is unclear.

Reason for use: Boys are very curious. When faced with a girl who has difficulty understanding her inner thoughts and behavioral motivations, this sense of mystery is the attraction, attracting them to explore and discover her secrets. .

Boys are born with a desire to conquer. The more reserved, inexplicable, and uncontrollable you are, the more fascinated they will be. Don’t let boys think you are easy to get. A boy once complained about girls who were always submissive, "She fell down before I even raised my gun." So, no matter how much you call him, you can't act too impatient.

Tips for use: Keep a certain distance to achieve a sense of beauty. In order for a boy to finally conquer you and accompany you, not only will he not find it hard, but he will find it endless fun.

Secret Weapon Four: Give him a flexible space

Applicable time: Although the relationship is stable, it becomes tired over time.

Reason for use: There is a saying that "men need respect, women need attention." The best respect for a boy is to give him a flexible space where he can breathe fresh air and show off his skills. Boys are unwilling to be "tied" by love. They often call to inquire about their whereabouts, filter their friends and hobbies, etc... This is like imprisoning them in a cage. From time to time, boys will feel tired of relationships and want to "escape".

Tips for use: Smart girls should reduce their desire to control, let them go out to relax, and never treat boys as private property no matter when or where they are.

Secret Weapon Five: Keep Silent at the Right Time

Applicable timing: when a boy is showing off to you; when a boy is worried.

Reason for use: Boys always like to show off to girls, so all you have to do is listen. Because he just wants you to "worship" him, and remember to give him a look of affirmation from time to time. When boys brag in front of you, it is often just a sign of lack of self-confidence. If you can't listen, his self-confidence will collapse. Many times, boys seem to have a lot on their minds but refuse to talk about it. Girls take the trouble to guess but often end up complaining. On such occasions, it is best for you to remain silent.

Tips: Keep appropriate silence when boys are not trying to make progress. Few boys can always move forward in their lives. Most boys will always have periodic mood swings and behavioral adjustments. The results of whipping fast cows are often counterproductive, and boys don't always need motivation.

Secret Weapon Six: Be Tolerant

Applicable timing: when a boy indulges in some trivial things that seem meaningless to you; when he has contacts with other women.

Reason for use: Boys expect tolerance from girls. This is often his best motivation and is a real and moment-to-moment need.

You have to allow him to play computer games or puzzles all day and night, and let him play cards and drink tea with his buddies to spend a weekend when he should be shopping with you, because boys need to go back to your home from time to time. When I was young, this was a reappearance of my youth's psychology of escaping from my mother's excessive love and care.

Tips for use: Boys naturally like to look for and appreciate the beauty of the opposite sex. You should be tolerant of his normal interactions with other girls. Boys are not as fickle as you think. In fact, if he has good appreciation, he will probably love you well.

Secret Weapon Seven: Debase yourself in order to retreat

Applicable opportunities: Girls with superior conditions get along with ordinary boys.

Reason for use: If you are obviously better than the boy you like, you can adopt a respectful form of self-presentation in your relationship, belittle yourself in front of him, expose your weaknesses, and belittle your achievements. . This creates proximity and intimacy.

Tips for use: It is an indisputable fact that Yin rises and Yang declines. Boys' self-confidence is sometimes very unstable. When girls become stronger, boys become timid and feel inferior and stop moving forward.

Secret Weapon Eight: Moderate Jealousy and Jealousy

Applicable timing: when the sensitivity to love decreases and it feels like an old couple.

Reason for use: A girl who doesn’t know how to be jealous is as boring as a rubber ball that cannot bounce when shot. A timely and appropriate amount of jealousy and jealousy can prove your love and attention to him and satisfy boys. of vanity. You need to make him feel that you are easy to coax, and the jealousy will be over after a while, so that he will feel at ease with you. Boys want to know whether girls have a soft spot for him, but they cannot say it directly out of male self-esteem. You have to calmly let him feel that he is the only one in your heart.

Tips for use: Use jealousy to maintain the sensitivity of love. Note: Don’t dwell on the same thing every time, and try to speak in a coquettish tone.