I often hear women scolding men: They are not serious at all. They eat from the bowl and look at the pot. According to tests, when two pairs of men and women pass each other, they will look at each other, but the woman looks at the other person's same sex, while the man looks at the other person's female. This unintelligent subconscious behavior of men often makes them The companion was very angry and vividly compared it to "eating from the bowl and looking at the pot." Legend has it that Emperor Qianlong was traveling incognito on a soft road in the countryside. A woman came over from a distance, with light steps and a charming figure. When she came closer, her face was very delicate and charming. Emperor Qianlong's seventy-two concubines in the three palaces and six courtyards were not enough. He was so dumbfounded that he followed the woman with his eyes. He did not look back reluctantly until the woman disappeared behind the forest. This is true for all emperors and elders, not to mention that this mortal man will inevitably glance at the woman passing by. The most traditional explanation for this problem in men is that men are generally attracted to new things and dislike the old, that is, they are emotionally attracted to many unspecified members of the opposite sex at the same time or continuously. Therefore, men's bad deeds are naturally condemned by women. They generally believe that "men are thieves" and they will flirt with women if they don't keep an eye on him. There is a famous photo experiment that explains how men are tempted by photos of women stripping and nude. Scientific inference also proves that women are mostly tactile, while men are visual. Especially when it comes to sexual issues, men are more fantasy-like. When they see a woman wearing transparent clothes, they will immediately think of the naked body underneath.

The theoretical basis of women is that "there are no cats that don't eat fishy fish", which is actually not unreasonable. For men, even if they have a young and beautiful wife by their side, sometimes they still can't help but want to look at other women. Physiologically speaking, men are male animals. They are born with a possessive nature and desire for female animals. They will always find excuses for themselves to betray their women mentally or physically. The most important thing is freshness. Men are driven by this desire for freshness. Sometimes, although the new woman they meet is far inferior to their wife, just because she has unknown sex, it greatly attracts their attention. Women will definitely not understand this explanation, but here is the simplest analogy: there is rice in the bowl and vegetables in the pot. Eating without vegetables will definitely be boring, so men are like cats, and they like to eat fishy vegetables secretly. It's easy to understand.

In the past, we simply criticized men for their philanthropic thinking of "being in the Cao camp and having a heart in the Han Dynasty". Today, it is necessary to discuss it again. In fact, men "eating from the bowl and looking at the pot" are just a kind of visual comfort to quench their thirst and satisfy sensory stimulation. However, some women just can't accept it. They think that men are not dedicated, so they will blame them unreasonably. , not even giving men this natural freedom. This is understandable. Women are afraid of men cheating, so it is right to restrain them. But you can't fatally turn yourself into a "yellow-faced woman", a "nagging woman", or a "tigress", and keep doing the same thing every day, letting men eat white rice from the bowl. This is not intentionally trying to make men become A "stealing cat"? Indeed, it may be that women themselves inadvertently collected "love" in the first place, just like shelving the dresses and high heels of the past. The character shown is not "very in love", but It's marriage. At this time, if a man is too honest, Pan Jinlian will despise him as "useless"; if the men are too active and successful, Lin Yilian will sing "Falling in Love with a Man Who Never Goes Home" to restrain and condemn the men. It is understandable that women transform the "love" in love into "emotion", but simple men do not understand, are not accustomed to, and do not understand, so they do not cooperate. As a result, they get tired of the shackles (home) and long for the so-called outsiders. "Love" will make people "look at wild chrysanthemums with admiration after not seeing peonies for a long time." What's more serious is that men must wear marriage chains and rings, and even wear a single-color suit and tie, as if a woman is holding him and strangling him at any time. Therefore, capable men will resist, completely ignore the woman's face, think about the food in the pot, and cheat on her as soon as she smells fishy smell. Men who are incompetent can only be weakly persecuted and watched in marriage, and gradually wither away. In the end, they even lose the ability to see and become a "third-class disability." To use a popular saying, it is "stand up to deal with kidney problems and lie down to deal with kidney problems."

Normally, men don’t like to express their inner thoughts to the opposite sex, because men know that their thoughts are completely different from women, and women especially like to use women’s thoughts to judge men’s thoughts, so Women often say, why can’t men be as dedicated and wholehearted as her? But for most women, body and mind are unified. There are only two reasons for a woman to have an affair and go to bed with another man: one is money, and the other is love. . This is the difference between men and women. Men naturally love to "eat from the bowl and look at the pot." In ancient times, men could have three wives and six concubines. Now that society is open and there are more choices, men are more carefree, but they just go underground. Therefore, women should learn to fly a kite. When a man walks away, pull the rope and use your tenderness and career to tie the man's heart, not his body.

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