At 8 o'clock, after dinner, Yu Qing sat in front of the computer impatiently and went straight to the pornographic website as usual. The windows of the pornographic websites popped up one after another, like a series of windows. Step by step, Yu Qing is led into the bottomless pit of sensuality. Seeing Yu Qing staring at the screen intently, Huishan, whose sex life is more silent than dead water, once again questioned her own charm. Her self-confidence collapsed as Yu Qing became increasingly addicted.

Huishan wondered, how could Yu Qing, a decent and upright lawyer during the day, have such dirty preferences at night?

Why is your man addicted to pornography?

When mature and normal men watch pornographic works, they value the direct feeling brought by the pictures and sounds. "Watching" itself is the ultimate goal. If a man occasionally browses erotic works out of boredom, then a man who regularly watches adult films and access pornographic websites needs deep care from his wife. Experts believe that men who usually have uncoordinated interpersonal relationships and unsatisfactory work often seek to vent through erotic works.

Other men are physically and mentally exhausted, and sometimes simple physical stimulation cannot arouse their sexual desire, so the mental stimulation of adult movies becomes their "stimulant."

Recently, sociologists in the United States have sounded the alarm. With the spread of the Internet, pornography has become easily available. Men don't have to go to the vulgar corners of town. As long as they turn on the computer at home, they can watch pornographic videos and browse pornographic pictures without having to worry about being discovered by acquaintances.

Do pornographic websites enrich sexual knowledge?

Huishan once took some difficult positions at Yu Qing's instigation, but both of them retreated hastily. Either Huishan was in unbearable pain or Yu Qing didn't move properly. At this point, Huishan became more and more disgusted with Yu Qing's use of the Internet, and Yu Qing also blamed Huishan, "Why can't you if others can?" As a result, the couple continued to quarrel, and they became increasingly estranged during sex.

Actually, adult films are not good teachers of sex. Although it can open the door to fun for couples, adult films over-exaggerate the proportion of sexual life in normal life and distort the relationship between men and women, as if the true meaning of life lies in climax. In particular, some adult films provide some shocking sexual stimulation methods that fully challenge social ethics.

Any couple who is trying to learn sexual knowledge from pornographic movies should think about it: after watching a martial arts movie, will you be like the martial arts heroes in the movie, who are brave and fearless, jumping down for a few seconds? What about floors? Obviously not, because you know that all movies are branded as produced by "DreamWorks", and the laughter and curses in them are all manipulated by the screenwriter, just to make you startle and laugh. The same goes for adult films. The climaxes during this period are all the result of the "hard work" of the director and starring actors. Of course, those good shows that break the limits of human physical strength cannot be easily staged in your bedroom.

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To say that adult films have unlimited love, it is actually better to say that they have "infinite stunts":

●In adult films, the male protagonist's sexual organs are often exaggerated, making some men very unsure of themselves. In fact, the genitals of most Caucasians are not much different from those of Asians, and the male protagonists chosen in adult films are often rare.

●The male protagonists in adult films are all marathon runners, and this is all thanks to the editors. As long as a man can hold on for three minutes before ejaculating, it's completely normal.

●Don’t easily imitate the novel ways of having sex between men and women in adult films, and don’t constantly change positions during sex. All kinds of strange sex positions can only bring novelty, but are not necessarily comfortable. Moreover, women's orgasm requires continuous stimulation. Changing multiple positions during sex will cause the woman's newly ignited excitement to cool down and require re-stimulation.

At present, there is no conclusion yet on whether "pornography" is a disease. Professor Donald of the University of Maine in the United States believes that it is a "by-product" of other mental illnesses. It is an incidental phenomenon of mental problems, so it is more important to treat the root cause. He believes that "pornosis" is caused by some people using sexual behavior to relieve negative emotions such as low self-esteem, insecurity, and depression. People with anxiety or hypomania often turn to sex to relieve their worries, he said.

Experts recommend that when a spouse or friend suspects that someone is addicted to pornography, they should take the patient to the hospital promptly. The sooner treatment is given, the better. In addition, in order to prevent the occurrence of this symptom, children should be given more guidance and education to establish a healthy concept of sex. And the most important thing is to stay away from pornographic books or TV shows.