Of course, not all men are "scammers". The world is peaceful and life is beautiful, but this does not guarantee that men who are swindling under the banner of love will not come to your door. It’s not that men are smart. If women trust their intuition, how can they not see through men’s second-rate and third-rate acting skills?

Of course, not all men are "scammers". The world is peaceful and life is beautiful, but this does not guarantee that men who are swindling under the banner of love will not come to your door. It’s not that men are smart. If women trust their intuition, how can they not see through men’s second-rate and third-rate acting skills?

Type 1 - Pseudo single

There are really many such men. They seem to be very masculine. They say to the outside world that they are single, have no girlfriends or wives, and fall in love with you at first sight. Even if you accidentally find out that he has a lovely wife at home, he will say that she is "my sister" and will not admit it until she is caught.

He has a pregnant fiancée

Confidant

That day, Feng walked up to me, threw a meal card in front of me casually and said, you are already thin enough, it is me who should lose weight. My heart was immediately moved by his "righteous act". That's how we started falling in love, but for some reason, all my colleagues around me often looked at me strangely.

Just when we were inseparable, a strange woman found me. It turned out that she was Feng's girlfriend of three years. She looked at me with critical eyes, and then said, "You are neither beautiful nor beautiful." A woman with a good figure but no money, Feng will actually like you! I was irritated and ridiculed her for being everything but not young. Unexpectedly, she actually smiled. Feng is destined to marry me, don’t you know? We were getting married and I was carrying his child.

These words were like a bolt from the blue. I was shocked and immediately questioned Feng. He explained hesitantly that he was sorry for me and didn't want to lie to me, but he thought I was too good, so he couldn't help but fall in love with me...< /p>

Recalling the strange and meaningful looks from my colleagues, I regretted my stupidity for falling for a cheap liar...

The Love Myth of the Golden Boy

Confidant

From the first moment I laid eyes on him, I felt like he was calling. Such a handsome guy is rare. Of course, it is not easy to meet a beautiful woman like me, so after several phone calls, we became friends. As if he had telepathy with me, he solemnly asked me to be his girlfriend, and I almost immediately agreed half-heartedly. I won't say no to something I like. That night, I gave myself to him.

Just when I was complacent about my relationship and thought that the two of us were the perfect golden boy and girl, one of his friends inadvertently revealed a terrible secret to me. "Ajing and his girlfriend have been together for more than three years. It's time to get married." I just woke up from a dream.

Yes, a handsome guy in his thirties, with a successful career and humorous conversation, what reason does he have to be a prime bachelor? Even if he's not married, he definitely has a girlfriend. Why should he stay private just to meet the same beautiful woman as me? But I was so careless that I ignored some of his living habits, such as always shutting down the phone and going to bed on time before eleven o'clock, and always saying that he worked overtime on holidays when he was busy. It was really a low-level mistake. Could it be because I was too strict with my own conditions? confidence?

Comment, the best test for this type of pseudo-single liar is that if you cannot tell whether he has a family from his own words, you can also start to find out from the people around him. If he is unfortunately falsely single and you are unfortunately deceived, it may not only mean that you are too easy to deceive, but it may also be because you are too vain.

Type 2 - Internet scammer

Online dating is nothing new these days, but stories of internet scammers succeeding are commonplace. Of course you don't know how many chat windows he has open at the same time behind the screen, nor do you know that the sweet words he says to you are all answered by shortcut keys. No matter what the process is, apart from sex, his ultimate goal is to use you as a cash machine. Have you watched "My Aunt's Postmodern Life"? There are too many "boys" cheating on food and drink like this in life.

Prince Charming turns out to be a charlatan

Confidant

In fact, I didn’t believe that online dating could bring me any good men, but since one of my sisters married abroad through online dating, I started to be eager to try online dating. Half a year ago, I met a man named Qin Yue through a dating website. He said that he was from Singapore and worked at the Singapore Embassy in Shanghai as a diplomat. I didn't believe it at first, but he took the trouble to send me local photos and videos with me in his "office", which made me feel that this man could not be fake.

In order to confirm his identity, I asked to meet him, but he readily agreed. Just after the Spring Festival, he flew to Nanning to see me. As soon as I saw him, I thought he was even more handsome in real life than in the video, so we naturally started a relationship. I thought I was destined to be a diplomat wife, but I didn’t expect that problems would arise after he returned to Singapore.

One day, he suddenly said that something happened at home and his account was frozen, so he wanted to borrow money from me. I realized that something was fishy, ​​so I called the number at his home. Unexpectedly, it was an empty number. I was on MSN After the police questioned him, his profile picture never showed up again. Only then did I realize that I had been deceived!

He disappeared and I owed a lot of money

Confidant

He and I met online, and we had a good chat. The procedure for accepting him was the same as for many people who fall in love online, which is to meet in person. Because he looks quite old

To be honest, I gradually let down my guard, and since he was considerate and obedient to me, I accepted him as my boyfriend. Unexpectedly, three months later, he told me that he would go to a remote place for an internship and come back once a week. In the next more than a month, we would meet once a week. During this period, he called me and said he had lost his wallet, and asked me for a few hundred dollars. I agreed disapprovingly, and from then on, every time we met, he asked me to send money to him when he needed it.

Unexpectedly, a year later, he suddenly disappeared. I panicked. The total amount of money he lent me was more than 10,000 yuan. Like him, we are both students. I didn’t have that much money to lend him, so I borrowed it from people I knew. As a result, he disappeared and I was in debt. I thought about calling the police, but I knew nothing about him and had no evidence. This is so depressing.

Reviews. Their excuse for defrauding money is basically that there is a problem with the project, all the fixed assets have been tied up, the account has been frozen, and even the money that they flew over to see you can’t be withdrawn for a while, etc., after hearing this, you Just be careful. As for deception, unless you are really stupid enough to commit yourself, please follow the following principles and never meet alone. Second, don’t meet in a place with few people. If you want to meet, go to KFC McDonald's. Drink your own drinks and don't leave your own food.

Type 3 - Married man

If a married man around you intentionally or unintentionally tells you that he is unhappy in his marriage, that his wife is a tigress, and that he has no relationship with his wife at all... please be careful, this married liar is trying to trick you. Unless you want to be a third party, you must make it clear that you have no interest in married men. The common characteristics of married liar men are "thick-skinned" and "courageous". If you act ambiguous for the sake of face, then he will hang on to you like a fly.

I actually became the one being kept

Confessor: VIVIAN

He was my teacher, and I went from admiring him to liking him. At that time, I only thought that this teacher was young and promising, and I didn't know that he had a wife. Later, gradually, a lot of rumors started to spread among my classmates, saying that I was being "kept" by him, and I suddenly realized that he had a wife. Feeling sad, I asked him directly if he was married. He was silent for a long time and then said that he and his wife were not in a good relationship. They were currently living in two places and he was unwilling to discuss these issues with me.

There is no airtight wall in the world. His wife soon discovered our affair. Her wife called me and advised me to give up on him. Angrily, I quarreled with him over this again. He said helplessly that he had proposed to divorce his wife, but his wife did not agree. If she wanted to make trouble, there was nothing he could do...

I am a depressed third party

Confidant

I have admired him since I met him. To me, he is a very attractive man. I know that he is married and has a daughter, but he said that he is very unhappy. If it were not for having children, he would never marry his wife. Originally he wanted to survive, but since he met me, he feels that every time he comes home, it is a pain.

I looked at the unhappy man in front of me and his sincere eyes when he said these words to me. I felt nothing but sympathy for him, so naturally I became the third party. Sometimes when I think about his wife and daughter at home, I feel guilty, but soon this guilt will be replaced by selfish feelings. I think, it is precisely because he is unhappy that he needs to find me. Why can't an unhappy man Looking for happiness?

I can only see him once a week. This kind of life is depressing. I see other couples living openly, but I am as invisible as a mouse. It feels ridiculous when I think about it. I really don’t know how much I have to sacrifice for him. Is it worth it?

Comment, can you have love only by being a third party? Don't be stupid, do you think a man will only tell you that he and his wife are unhappy? Maybe he will say this to countless women countless times, but you may be the only one who takes the bait. While he is enjoying the warmth of the family, he is also enjoying the spirit and body you have given for free. Is there anything more pleasant than this? Do you think he can abandon everything for you?