People are becoming more and more open about sex. Although many men still have a virginity complex, people now treat virgins like monsters. Once a woman in her twenties is known to be a virgin, many people will look at her strangely and think that there is something wrong with this woman and that no man wants her.

The love model outlined in the romance novels of the Qiong Yao era is already outdated. Many boys and girls believe that even if they have not experienced sex, it will happen soon; as for the partner, it must be the person they like. As for how long it takes to fall in love before going to bed, it depends on fate. It's not good to go too fast, but it will definitely not stick to the time when the marriage bell rings.

When it comes to the issue of premarital sex, men are more open-minded than women. The ultimate goal of many men's love is not to get married, but to have sex. The same is true for living together, just to save the cost of going to a hotel.

In this era when men are keen on premarital sex, women must not be willing to go to bed just to cater to men. They must grasp the standards and events. So when is the best time to devote oneself? Is it a day, a week, or a year? Let’s take a look today. Female friends are going to start taking notes.

1. Half a year later

In the past, men and women did not kiss each other, but now they do not kiss in vain, and if they kiss, they do not kiss in vain. For many men and women, sex is like kissing, and kissing is like holding hands. It is a common occurrence. Many one-night stands and sleeping with each other after only half a day are common.

Sex itself is the instinctive desire of the human body. Whenever the desire comes, it must be eliminated. This is what most people think. Sex happiness is therefore active and smooth. Many people are willing to go to bed within a few days because "if we like it, we can be together, why waste time?"

We can’t say that this is not good, but from a woman’s perspective, generally speaking, most of the people who get injured in bed are women. When they accidentally get pregnant, they will be harmed. Moreover, if you don’t know anything about the other person, how do you know what kind of person he is and whether he has a disease? Will he talk about your affairs everywhere? Does this kind of sex make you feel safe?

Generally speaking, you are allowed to go to bed after six months of dating. In half a year, you have already got to know him to a certain extent. You know who he is as a person, his work, family, etc. Isn't this safer?

2. The sooner you go to bed, the sooner you break up

As the saying goes, if something you get is not precious, you won't cherish it, but this is true. In love, many men go for a woman's beauty or body, and they look forward to one day getting a woman's body. But will he cherish something that is too easy to get?

Going to bed faster will make a man think that you are not reserved enough, and he will guess whether you can give yourself to other men just as easily. therefore. Sex too fast means low love content. Because the focus is not on love, because trust is reduced too quickly, because it is too easy to become unappreciative, and because there is no emotional foundation, things will inevitably change.

To keep yourself attractive for a long time, you need to dress yourself up beautifully, but you don't easily agree to a man's request. If you are so reserved and noble, you keep him appetizing all day long. Does he still have the energy to peek at other beauties? I have seen many couples who have a close relationship before they go to bed. Once they go to bed, the man starts to become indifferent and ignores the woman. The bottom line is that you are no longer so precious in a man's eyes. The more he can't get it, the more he will put effort into chasing it. The easier it is to get it, the easier it will be for him to give up!

3. Women are not necessarily more conservative than men

Nowadays, men and women are equal. Regardless of how carefree a man usually is, when it comes time for him to muster up the courage, he will often shrink back, for example, asking him to take the initiative to have sex. Many men are also worried that this will make the woman feel that he is in love just for her. body, so it will shrink. In fact, women are not necessarily more conservative than men when it comes to sex nowadays.

Don’t think that only men have desires, women also have desires. When desire strikes, women might as well take the initiative. Many men prefer women to take the initiative, which will make sex more exciting. Although the old concept of "men take advantage and women suffer" still works, it is no longer universally applicable. Many women no longer need the balance of marriage or money, and are willing to let go and enjoy "if you like him, you want him." "The pleasure.

Love and sex are inextricably linked in a woman's world. "Like" is still put first. There are also some women who are willing to simplify sex. If they like it, they like it. Having sex is having sex. They have sex because they like it. If they don’t like it, they will not have sex again. Unlike before, there were so many considerations about marriage, morality, chastity, and other people's opinions. Life was too tiring.

If you like him, if you love him, then take the initiative. You have the right to pursue your own happiness!