1. The most important thing is that girls should work hard to make themselves outstanding, from ability to appearance

Taiwan’s famous advertising slogan: Serious women are the most beautiful. Everyone has the right to choose their own lifestyle, but they must be serious about themselves, their work, and their life. Even if such a woman is not naturally beautiful, she still has a kind of confident and calm beauty. Only such a kind of beauty can fight against time. , which is also the type that good men appreciate. Those who play with life and play with men will eventually be played with. Maybe many sisters are not very good at work, so being able to clean themselves up is also a great advantage. In any case, in reality, men are prone to judge people by their appearance first. Not all men only love the most beautiful women. Most men have a liking for clean and fresh women.

2. A good man has requirements for himself but no requirements for women

Any man who is able to muddle through his work but has many requirements for his girlfriend is better to stay away from him. Such a man has the highest chance of becoming a venomous man after marriage. When we sisters get married, the least we ask for is to be respected by our husbands. A man who thinks he has the right to talk to his wife is not a good marriage partner.

3. The most important thing to consider when marrying is character and personality.

Similar personalities, similar outlook on life and money are the best guarantees for married life. With different personalities, the two people can't talk to each other on weekdays. Even if the whole world recognizes that they are a golden boy and a perfect match, they cannot marry. After all, you have to spend most of your life with him, and you know whether you are good or bad.

4. A man who says he is not worthy of you from the beginning will never be worthy of you in the future

For some outstanding girls, they will always meet some seemingly A man with potential, you change yourself and give everything for him, but he says that you are too good to him and that his (education, money, ability, status, appearance, etc.) are not worthy of you. The examples of many sisters around me prove that a man who has no self-confidence and can only rely on your submission to date will not be kind to you in the future, and your excellence will only make him feel more inferior.

5. Before entrusting someone with his life, you should take a look at his family

It’s not about how much money his family has, but whether his family is harmonious and caring and courteous. If a man in the family beats a woman and everyone ignores it and pretends not to notice, the family will not care about your life or death in the future. Every family has shortcomings. You need to ask yourself about your boyfriend's attitude. A man who is blindly loyal will have limited respect for his wife.

6. A man who is tight on himself and his girlfriend is not interesting. A man who is loose on himself and tight on his girlfriend must be selfish and the last person to marry.

Money is the thing that can best reveal a man's essence and feelings. Sisters, love is not about money, but if he makes you feel wrong about money, you should think carefully about whether he is suitable for you. When you are in a relationship, you should spend money normally. Men who make it clear from the beginning that they want an aa are too calculating and too afraid of losing money. In a future marriage, there will be many sacrifices to be made, and such men will be the first to run away.

7. Don’t let a man hit you. If you are hit once, you must break up with him. Don't want a man who is a playboy and has a lot of troubles. You must break up with him once you find him. As the old saying goes, if you continue to break up, you will suffer chaos

8. Girls must have their own bottom line in love

Never give up your dignity or insult yourself just because you love him. Parents abandon their jobs. A good relationship and marriage must be a win-win situation, not a one-sided sacrifice and fulfillment.

9. When you meet a man you like, you must be brave enough to pursue him

Unrequited love is the most hurtful and fruitless thing.

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10. Speak clearly when you have something to say

Speak out your thoughts and don’t let men guess. If you can communicate, your life will be happier. Failure to communicate means that your happiness is not guaranteed. I don't think any man enjoys guessing his girlfriend's thoughts. It's a real shame to lose a good man for this reason.

11. Don’t act virtuous in front of a man from the beginning

If he feels at ease with your efforts but doesn’t know how to repay you, he is suspected of being a chauvinist. If you relax over time and don't do as well as before, he will be very hurt and feel that you lied to him or that you don't love him anymore. It's better to express your love appropriately from the beginning, give him a chance to show it, and let him do something for you. To be honest, men are more impressed by what they pay. The more he does and pays for you, the more he will miss you and the more he can't live without you. On the contrary, he is relatively indifferent to your efforts and his gains. In a marriage, a man who often does housework and takes care of children is much less likely to give up on the marriage. Is it precisely because this family belongs to him?

12. When it is broken, it is broken

Everyone is likely to make mistakes, but if you make them again and again, there is something wrong with you. Many sisters say "I have been with him for n years", "He is my first man", "I have aborted n children for him", "I have paid for..." "I am already... years old" "And if you endure living with a man who doesn't treat you well, you will be hurt in the end. A friend of mine once said to me: Nothing in this world remains unchanged. It either gets better or worse. In short, nothing remains constant. This sentence directly prompted me to get out of a bad relationship. Because I know that if it changes, that relationship will only get worse, and I will be hurt more in the future. My bravery is the most solid foundation for my good life now.

13. Love because of love, not for a beautiful wedding or a luxurious life in your dreams

All happiness has a price, but don’t let some of the price ruin it. your whole life. Young girls are easily blinded by vanity, but in a real marriage, the man who can cover you with the quilt you kicked off at night is the man worth trusting for life.

14. Cherish a man who truly loves you and treats you well

A good man will treat you well in a way that is truly beneficial to you, not by pampering you or by showing love. Your name binds you. There are very few men like this. If you meet them, you must cherish them. Young men tend to love their girlfriends in an innocent way. He may be immature, but his love is true. Don't give up lightly. Only when you have more experience in society will you know how precious a sincere heart is.

15. Everything comes in time

There are many good men in this world who are struggling to find their other half. Not all men only love virgins, not all men care about your previous marriage, and not all men care about your age and education. In many good marriages, what a man loves is his woman’s stupidity, innocence, round figure, or the mole at the corner of her mouth. He will cherish your injuries even more, and your bravery will make him respect you even more. Therefore, even if you are hurt, you must be like Kim Sam Soon and love bravely as if you have never been hurt. Only when you open yourself up first will the world let you go.

16. Don’t give your heart to a man’s initial pursuit

Both good men and bad men will care about you, pick you up, send you, and give you something when they first pursue you. Send text messages to take care of you when you are sick. Don't fall in love immediately as soon as someone treats you well. Think about it, look at it more, and then make a decision. Generally, four months is enough contact for you to understand him. Online communication does not count, no matter how long-term online contact is, real life is meaningful. You have to eat, go shopping, and do things with him to understand him. You know whether you live a happy life or not. Many times, it's not men who are deceiving us, it's us who are deceiving ourselves.

17. If you love him, accept him as he is now, and don’t imagine how he will change.

If he can change, of course it would be best. Otherwise, just think about whether you can accept it. . Every shortcoming before marriage will be magnified after marriage. If he smokes and you love him, try to accept it. There are too few men who quit smoking after marriage. The same goes for other disadvantages.

18. Youth means plasticity. Men over the age of 30 often have fixed living habits and lifestyles, and it is unlikely that they will completely change for a woman. He needs you to adapt to him. On the contrary, young men are more willing to change for the woman they love. This is completely my personal feeling, it may be wrong, please forgive me.

Looking back, I have made all the mistakes in the future. Fortunately, I am a "reckless woman" by nature. I dare to love and leave, so I have the marriage that satisfies me now. Love and marriage are the biggest tests in a girl's life, and most of our growth comes from this. Some of what I wrote are commonplaces, but every one of them is a real lesson that I cannot bear to look back on. In the future, I will tell these to my daughter as a mother's blessing to her children.

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