Let’s talk about the troubles of a left-over girl: She is graceful and graceful, and belongs to the ranks of people with white collars. The reason why I haven’t married yet is not because I can’t get married, but because I don’t know who to marry to reach the highest level. In front of her, there were two types of men. One category is opposite to "leftover women" and is called "leftover men". One category is called "divorced men". I have no derogatory intention in calling it this way, it is purely for convenience of description. Currently, she is wandering back and forth between two types of men, not knowing where to go. However, her personal preference is for divorced men. The reason seems to be quite sufficient, as follows.

1. Talk about leftover men. The reason why leftover men are leftover men is mostly because they are not accepted by society, have little ability to establish themselves, and have little social status. Women are not willing to marry them, so they become "leftover". Moreover, they are relatively immature and unable to show mature opinions and actions on marriage. Once the financial pressure and family pressure on them increases, they will panic and even collapse.

2. Talk about divorced men. The reason why divorced men get divorced is because they can take marriage seriously and are normal men. Their financial ability and family foundation are relatively stable, and there will be no major storms. Moreover, most of them already have social status and will not be easily abandoned by society. In short, they are relatively mature and experienced, and can treat, maintain and develop marriages like real men.

After listening to her impassioned argument, I just smiled. Indeed, what she said makes sense. However, I think it can still be refuted, as follows.

1. It is also said to be a leftover man. Some of the reasons leftover men are leftover men are because they are not accepted by society. However, most of them are due to temporary reluctance to get married. They are waiting for the time to mature, hoping to fully accumulate while they are young and strong, and strive to use their intelligence and talents to strengthen themselves. After getting married, you can give yourself a chance to breathe, and you can also provide stability to your family. In fact, it’s not that they don’t have any social status, but that their social status is gradually becoming stronger. Their future is huge.

2. It also refers to divorced men. Divorced men divorce because they cause problems in their marriage. They seem mature and experienced, but in fact they are just a layer of gorgeousness on the outside, which can be broken at the first glance. Their so-called foundation, even if it can be relied on, will not last long. Moreover, they have a kind of arrogance that has once made it difficult to change the sea. It is difficult for them to treat women with the sweetness of first marriage. Even if it is sweet, it is a bit artificial. If there are children around them, the woman may cry secretly in the middle of the night.

The benevolent see the benevolent, the wise see the wisdom, and so it is. Left-over men VS divorced men, who is better? No one can say for sure. In her eyes, perhaps divorced men are better. In the eyes of another woman, maybe the leftover man is better. In her eyes, perhaps all divorced men are good. In her eyes, perhaps the remaining divorced men are not good. In her eyes, perhaps the remaining men and divorced men do not matter whether they are good or not.

So, a leftover man is a leftover man, and a divorced man is a divorced man. Even if the PK is earth-shattering and the sky is dark, it is meaningless. Regardless of whether he is a leftover man or a divorced man, whichever woman he is suitable for, he will be excellent for that woman. This is the truth, eternal and unchangeable.

So, what exactly is suitable? In my opinion, it must at least have the following four points.

1. True love for each other. Without true love, even ten thousand marriages are in vain. Not to mention the leftover and divorced men.

2. A tacit understanding of character. With true love, it is easy for problems to arise if personalities are not compatible. Only when there is a tacit understanding of character will it last long.

3. Equivalent abilities. Regardless of financial ability, sexual ability, or other abilities, they should be equivalent. Otherwise, pimples often come knocking on the door.

4. Parental consent. I originally planned to ignore this, but I feel it must be taken seriously. If both parents disagree, the couple will definitely have a hard time.

At this point, I’m done. This is purely a personal opinion. I wonder if the leftover woman who is worried about who is better among the divorced leftover men is satisfied. If you are not satisfied, you can confess. Frankness is a traditional virtue. Finally, I sincerely wish her to find her right husband as soon as possible.

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