"A talented man and a beautiful woman", a natural fit. It is the marriage and love combination that countless young people in Huaichun dream of. It has been enduring for thousands of years, and has also performed the stories of countless talented people and beautiful women. When we were young and studying, we were exposed to the fact that whether it was Liang Shanbo and Zhu Yingtai, Zhang Sheng and Cui Yingying, or Ning Caichen meeting Nie Xiaoqian, they were both a talented man and a beautiful woman; one was full of knowledge and the other was as beautiful as a fairy. The most influential among them is that Zhou Lang of the Three Kingdoms married Xiao Qiao, who was the most beautiful woman in the country. The vast majority of them are "lovers will eventually get married", they are really as beautiful as flowers and make others envious.

In modern times, talented men and beautiful women are still the first choice for many young people when choosing a partner. However, as time goes by, such combinations and choices no longer have many advantages, and are even turning into disadvantages. In recent years, the entertainment industry alone has been constantly interpreting the separation and reunification of talented people and beautiful women, such as Luo Dayou and Li Lie, Yang Dechang and Tsai Qin, Li Ao and Hu Yinmeng, Li Zongsheng and Lin Yilian, etc., which of them did not fly together as mandarin ducks in the beginning? Water, but in the end, don't all "birds in the same forest" turn into "swallows flying apart"? Even the "couple of the century" Laurence Olivier and Vivien Leigh, who were envied by movie fans all over the world, have been together for twenty years. They all have to stage a love tragedy of "Hamlet bids farewell to Ophelia", let alone others.

Nowadays, this kind of choice and matching has become a hidden cause of marital crisis. The frequent "middle-aged crisis" in marriage is a direct response to this combination. We know that male talent and female appearance are two dominant symbols that are independent of the two parties in a marriage. Male talent is generally reflected through a man’s career, money and status, while female appearance is not to mention.

However, for a long time, we have ignored the basic attributes of these two factors. This is that talent is acquired, and it is obtained by a person's intelligence level and hard work. The important characteristic is that it increases with the passage of time and is directly proportional to time; and a woman's appearance is an innate factor, gifted by her parents. One of the biggest characteristics of appearance is that it weakens over time. , until it finally disappeared. There is a joke among the people that "50-year-old women are equally beautiful and ugly." That is to say, when women reach a certain age, there is no distinction between beauty and ugliness. In particular, some vase-like beauties rely on their stunning beauty and are content with a carefree life. As a result, their beauty fades all the time.

A man’s talent and a woman’s appearance develop in two directions as time goes by, one develops upwards, and the other gradually declines. Generally, around the age of 45, this scissor difference reaches its peak. .

On the issue of marriage, equality has always been emphasized. Differences mean flaws. Today, the career success of men in their 40s has unconsciously become the pursuit of many young girls. Sometimes, although men do not do it intentionally, they cannot withstand the attack of erotic bombs, and many successful All the men were captured by the little demons. It's not difficult to make a judgment as long as you look at the rich and status men around you, and how many of them are still living with their original wives.

Although unstable marriages may occur in any combination, relatively speaking, the smaller the difference in conditions between the two, the stronger the stability of their marriage. An ordinary man may stay with an ordinary-looking woman until he grows old. On the other hand, the larger the gap, especially if the gap continues to widen as time goes by, there will definitely be a crisis lurking. Compared with other combinations, "talented man and beautiful woman" may be the worst combination.

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